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depressed and dont kno what to do
Okay during the summer i lost my virginity to this guy, well tonite i went over to his house and we are like best friends now but i miss him and i really want him.. it makes me sad to see him cuz he is always talking to girls and never talks to me about what happened should i tell him how i feel or not
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YES! lol u lost your virginity to him! you must have obviouslt liked him a lot ..tell him how you feel. he prob feels thee exact same way but is shy or soemthing..lol
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Ariella-
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Goodness girl...you really really really need to talk to him about what happened and how you feel...guys can be so insensitive about these kinds of things. I'm not going to say that I think you giving him your virginity was right or wrong (since i don't know how long you have been with him and whatnot), but maybe you should be more careful about who you have sex with. The only thing you can really do at this point is sit down, in private with this guy and tell him how you feel and talk about what happened between you two. Hope I helped! =)
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I would tell him how you feel. It sounds to me as if he may like you to, and he is making you jealous. ;-) Well, give it a try. What do you got to lose? Good Luck!!
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Of course u should tell him... u gave up sumthing really important for him... you have the rite to express the way u feel
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Thats kind of like what happened to me..
I lost my virginity this summer to the guy I fell in love with.. We had only been dating for a month.. but I really cared about him.. and I had sex with him. We continued to date for a while.. and we had a VERY sexual relationship.. well.. he moved to Tennesee about a week before our 2 month anniversary.. we continued to talk.. but we were just friends.. Except about a month after he moved... i had sex with his best friend.. and I cared about him enough to tell him I made that mistake.. and he hasnt wanted to talk to me since then..
Don't let this guy go is all I can tell you.. Tell him how you feel about him... Like "IPIiINIkI my anti drug" said.. He may consider your feeling.. and you guys may get back together.. or if he doesn't care about you in the same way.. continue being friends with him.. it will be hard.. but maybe some day he will fall in love with you again!!
GOOD LUCK!! Keep me updated!!
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Guys at that age are just experimenting for the most part, and if you confess your undying love for him, he will flip out and flee. Rather than that, if you just want some more fun time with him, get him alone and tell him you enjoyed yourself last summer and wanna give it another whirl. I think that if you just remain friends with benefits, it will become something more when he is mature enough to want commitment. By his flirting actions, he just doesn't sound ready for that yet.
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Well then you make yourself one of those girls he "Talks" to. Make yourself important to him. Talk to him on the phone more often, alot of stuff. Ask him how he feels about you. And you know what just take a huge leap of faith and when your ready say what you feel. He cant get mad, there's nothing really that will happen even if he doesnt like you. Plus if he doesnt like you in the end you still benefit b/c you never know if he will eventually feel the same way again. Other than that, try hanging out with some more of your guy friends. You dont want him to think he's your priority when your not his priority.
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he totally used you.
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Wow. This sounds EXACTLY like something that happened to one of my best friends.. crazy :|.. lol anyways..
I would most definitly talk to him if i were you. Seeing as he was the one you lost it too, he should be someone you have/still do trust.. so go for it; tell him exactly how you feel. Maybe things will spark up again, you never know! ;)
Good luck! :)
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I definitely think you should. After all you lost your V to him so, he is someone you will remember for the rest of your life. As far being able to be with him, I'm not rerally sure but you should just tell him how you feel anyways. Hopefully I helped you out a little.
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hey, im a guy and i have had this happen to me recently. i was in love with this girl and we were together for almost 2 years, and we had sex after about 6 months then we broke up for about 2 weeks until i couldnt take it but tell her how much i still loved her and she said the same thing, well we continued going out, and i guess the 2 year mark was the finish line, but we are still best friends, and i love her with more than anything and i would do anything for her. so i think it would be a mistake for you not to tell him bec it was the greatist thing i ever did and i wouldnt take back a thing. and they says no one knows the future so live in the present and be ready for anyting
good luck
RANDOM GUY
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i think you should totally tell him how you feel. youll never know what couldve been or what could be right now if you dont. and even if it doesnt work out then at least you know what he thinks and youve lifted a weight off your shoulders. i hope this helps! and good luck with him and i hope everything turns out good with him! -kayla
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okay..well the thing was..did you like..consider him a best friend before ya'll had sex? b/c most girls get REALLY attached to thier "love" that they screwed..and the guy mostly wants sex to be like a bottay call..but just me being me..sound like the guy used you in a way and now he thinks hes all big, almighty and thinks he can screw you over..when he can't get any from any girls..you'll see a change in the way he talks and acts twards you..but remember these fine words BOOTAY CALL.. (sometimes girls need um toO!!)
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Definitely talk to him before you don't get the chance too! If he's your best friend he won't make fun of you or yell at you or whatever because good friends aren't like that. Good luck and tell me what happens! <33
Rachel
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i think you sould go for it!! YOU SHOULD NEVER LET A CHANCE LIKE THIS PASS!! i mean wat is the worst he can do? i mean he cant say " oh u are a loser for saying that i dont wanna b friends with you anymore" lol i mean that is stupid he might like wat he is hearing and consider your thoughts and think about you!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE
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