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Is It Wrong????


Question Posted Saturday August 7 2004, 10:56 pm

I'm a girl, and 13 years old, and I just want 2 kno, is it wrong 2 like your brother's best friend??? Becuz...I do. My friends say it's fine, but the thing is, there's no way he likes me back, he's 3 years older than me, and there's no way I can ever tell him, cuz he'll just be freaked out. I didn't mean 2 fall 4 him. It was beyond my control. What am I gonna do??? I really like this guy, but he doesn't like me back. My bud, Christy, she knows him really well, and used 2 be his girlfriend, and she says there might be something there, but I think she's just saying that to make me feel better. Is she lying??? Or has he dropped a hint 2 her that he likes me back??? Me and him just recently became really good friends, but he's still my brother's best friend. So is it wrong??? Pleez somebody help. I need answers. Should I tell him?? Or wait until I'm over this??? I don't kno if I can take it n e more. It makes me really sad knowing that he doesn't like me. If I ever told him, he'd probly just freek out and never talk 2 me again. Or at least, that's what I'm afraid of. Pleez somebody help. It's tearing me up inside! Thanx SO MUCH!!

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LadyKagome answered Sunday August 8 2004, 10:48 pm:
I don't think it's wrong to like your bro's best bud. I think that you ought to ask him if he has any other feelings for you, because 'a friend' (you might not want to mention her name) said he might like you. Then tell him you wanted to know because you think you're beginning to fall for him. Don't go full out and tell him that yoou like him so much, it might freak him out. Better to be slightly subtle about it!

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sk8rgurl answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:50 pm:
well its definatly possible so dont doubt it ok..my mom liked her brothers best friend and they got married....just give it time

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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:07 pm:
Hey =) Just talk to your brother about it, and ask him if your srush has said anything to him about you. Also, ask him if he would feel weird IF you did start a relationship with him. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox! <3 Steph

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xogiggles37xo answered Sunday August 8 2004, 8:36 am:
im 13 too. i dont think its wrong of anything but it doesnt sound like ur falling for him it sounds like a big crush. everyone has a big crush eventually. they miyt hav like 3 but thats not the point. lol. if he makes u sad thinking that he doesnt like u i think you should try and drop it. i dk i kno u wont wunna do this but i think thats wut id do in the situtation. hope i helped at least a little. <3 xogiggles37xo.

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:26 am:
The age difference isn't that big of a deal. Maybe you should tell your brother how you feel and he could talk to him. You can like him, but you have to think about your brother. If you guys start going out or something, it might make your bro feel uncomfortable. Good luck :)

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casey
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tinkerbell2020 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:31 am:
okay so u like him alot! theres nothing u can do about that! I (if i were u) would sit him down somewhere where ur brother isnt around..like ur room..and tell him how u feel..dont let him leave your room unless are posative he knows what u mean! and if he doesnt talk to u again then he wasnt worth it in the 1st place!
-tinkerbell

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hellofro answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:22 am:
joke around and tell him u used to like him... but remember hes 3 yrs older than u, thats an issue bigger than if hes ur bros best friend

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Taylor_mariee answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:14 am:
heyy.. your not WRONG for likin your brothers friends its a harmless crush!! havent you seen all the girls on tv that are crazii over there brothers friends its totally normal!! its fyne!
hope i helpd
<3.Taylor

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Mammie answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:11 am:
i dont think its wrong that hes ur bros freind there r no boundries there, i dunno the age thing is a little different but i cant tell u whethere u should tell him or not. but dont consider him off limits cuz hes ur bros friend!

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Mosie90 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:10 am:
It sounds like you need some answers! Well...I don't think it's bad that you like him at all...I mean it might just be a crush but I wouldn't say anything to him till you get some kind of hint that he likes you. You really don't want to make a fool of yourself. I'm not so sure that your brother would be very happy if you and him hooked up either. Your friend might be trying to make you feel better because....well that's what friends are for but I would ask her straight out if she knows anything about him liking you. Good Luck!! **Mosie**

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Bri!* answered Saturday August 7 2004, 11:16 pm:
I mean I guess it's not wrong but since it's your brothers friend I doubt he will want you dating his friend, ya know? It kinda sounds to me you just have a crush on this guy and should probably just not do anything about it, you'll stop liking him sooner or latur. I don't think you should tell him either cause you act like he will freak out and uhhhh that wouldn't be good. And it would probably make things weird between ya'll. But if you think he likes you then maybe you should get your friend, Christy, to ask him. Well hope I helped *bRiannA*

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