about

hey..im 13 and i live in new yOrk
i really haven`t been throuqh ThaT muCh
but i can still help ya i quess...i`ll
do my` best LuvV ya alWayz mariia

advice

My dog is a doghound, (doxen!) and she's drooling and acting a little...hm...WEE WOO WEE WHOO!!
What do you think is wrong??

if only i knew what you were talking about ...

[view]

hey,
my friend would always wear really short shorts and she didn't fit in the shorts! I was always kinda thinkin she was tryin to impress guys! One day i told her that and she got mad at me! She hasn't ever worn short-shorts again! Was i wrong?why did she wear that type of clothing? please help!

does it matter? at least she`s wearing shorts that fit her now. why? it was probably for guys. yes. ♥ maria

[view]

does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE?

yes. exactly. you don`t. simple as that ♥ maria

[view]

i have hair down the middle of my stomach.. im alittle conscience about it.. should i wax or shave it?

shave it if it bugs you that much. it`s no big deal. ♥ maria

[view]

my friend is going out with this guy. i think she's too good for him but anyway. he's in my PE class and the other day i saw him touching another girl's pussy. like feeling up on her. they're both black and the girl he was touching is white. plus right now there's a lot of racial stuff going on. should i tell my friend or keep my mouth shut?

yes, definately tell her. then tell him you told her. brilliant. ♥ maria

[view]

i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?

when i had mine i was like " mom , i have my period " woo.

[view]

There is these 3 boys on the bus that keep bothering me and my best friends. They keep saying that we're a "threesome" and in three days they've made me cry 5 times. They call us sexy and say I love you. We know that they don't mean it.. they're all a year older than us (we're in 7th grade) and they always try to steal my stuff and call me and my best friend gay. I've tried EVERYTHING!! Nothing works.. a little help on handling these people?

let`s seee ... what would do ... well whatever you do don`t take w/e they`re saying seriously. because they`re obviously not. yea and i`m in 8th grade..and most guy`s don`t rly do that, so your best bet is to talk to your friends and like whisper abt. them then point and laugh.. haha yes do that. i would =) ha ha

[view]

Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me!

hmm, you don`t. sry babe, it sound`s like he`s not worth your time *

[view]

i feel fat. like everyone tells me that i am skinny. i am 5'6" and 108 lbs. I know i am not really overweight, but i have tons of fat. i allways feel self consious, and i have noticed myself getting more and more concerned about how i look. i am afraid i might develope an eating disorder, or just become depressed about it. that is like all i ever think about anymore. help

whoa baby.. 5'8'' & 108?! honey -- if anything, you`re underweight. If you need reassurance (sp.?) , look at the facts .. the average american woman is 5'4'' and a size 14 in womens. Now do you feel fat? Hope i helped ! Need anything else leave it in my inbox!

[view]

ok recently i posted a message about "tyler" rite....

well today i had a dream about him... i went up and asked him if he liked "rachel" he said no...... i like u... so i stood there like an idiot and just said o.... ummm.... so im not sure if i like him or not!! !! so heres the 411....

~hes in my language arts class and math class
~we sit across from each other in class
~he says bless u and smiles at me everytime i sneeze but only to me and he never says it to ne1 else
~if i drop my pen like behind me or sumthin he will GET UP and get it even if some1 else cud!
~the other day i was like "omg my poem sux soo bad" he said "thats really good" so i was just like "ok....."

do i like him or what or does he like me im just so confused!! bc i mean i want him to like me but im not sure i want a relationship!

im SOO SORRY its long but i really need some help!!! plz!!!

*i RATE high!

~boy crazy~

I agree with bleedingmascara, any guy whos willing enough to get up and get your pen for you sounds pretty good, i think he likes you, all the signs are pretty much there, so i would go for it *

[view]

hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high

put them in your locker & when you have to go, stop at ur locker, problem solved

[view]

Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp

the story of my life for the past year. yes. just tell him the truth, and tell him it`s the truth whether he believes it or not. make him guilty =) ha .. mmm ok hope i helped

[view]

i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed

yeah. doctor. pronto.

[view]

I Like this girl name Brittany and im not sure iff she likes me because she mite be dating my friand. But I never liked any one before so i kno she must be the one! what should I do?

Well, well now, I have two things to tell you. Ready? Okay, you sound pretty young, so she isn`t "The One". Also, learn to spell, buddy.

[view]

Why do the moderators delete good questions? WTF? They leave up stupid ones like "I like a guy but he doesnt know...should I tell him?", but then when someone has a serious problem like the guy and his unruley brother they delete it? Advicenators needs to get its priorities straight and need to learn what questions stay and what goes. What do you all think?

ha ha yes, i agree

[view]

I have already told my old BF how i feel about him and why i broke up with him and anyone else ive gone out with. he still thinks that im going to go out with him again and start to like someone else after a while and have me break up with him again.. so in other words i think he's scared of getting his heart broken by me again and again. i told my friend how i feel towards him and he told me that he didnt like me, he just wants to stay friends. so they both know how i feel about them, i just dont know how i should feel!!

awwe, i`m sorry about that. it`s a tough situation to be in, i know because i`ve been in it a few time`s myself. well your old boyfriend sounds kind of like one of my ex-es who thought that, but anyway`s back to your problem...you should tell your old boyfriend you won`t do that, and promise him.. make him believe you on that because it is the truth in the first place (i hope) and this other boy, you already told him how you feel, so there`s not much more you can do. sorry for the late response & hope i helped *

[view]

okay i have this friend who ive only known for like a year and weve only been good friends for like a couple months but anyways he is going out with my bestfriend ..and i mean i hate when people my age (14) say i love you if you can tell they dont mean it but i KNOW they do and i hangout with them like everyday and i have so much fun with them they are the two people i can honestly say i trust i love them both to death they are my bestfriends...but he got acused of something he didnt do so he was locked up for 2 months until he went to court...and his gf's (my bff) mom found out she said she wanted her to have NOTHING to do with him..he got out and we were over there everyday and she had been lying to her mom but then we got cought the other day and her mom was bullshit and told my mom the whole story and now we cant see him because neither of them want us going over there...my mom says i can talk on the phone with him and stuff and maybe go over in a little while when he gets off house arrest but i feel so bad he is my bestfriend and she loves him and he is the only one she has besides like me and a few others.... please helpp i mean her mom wont even let her call him i feel soOo bad

aww, i`m sorry about that, he sounds like a pretty good kid. well what you could do is talk to her mom about it, or if you don`t want to do that, have your mom call her mom and talk to her about him. maybe even have him talk to your friends mom, and try go get him on her good side, because it sounds like she doesnt like this boy for all the wrong reasons. so good luck & i hope i helped! any other question`s leave `em for my inbox

[view]

I hate life like you wouldnt even believe. My dad left when i was a baby and my mom is on meds and living with a bf or maybe just some guy she has sex with and so ever since i was young i have been forced to live with my grandmother. My mom and aunt are on meds for depression and stress and they both claim its cuz of my gma which doesnt surprise me cuz she makes me insane, i wish i was dead like every 20 seconds. ever since i had sex she has been talking about eh guy for ever and its really hard for me cuz i really like him and she is the reasion why we are not together and all she ever does is tell me how worthless i am and how im stupid and how the only job i will get is selling my self even tho my grades are ABBBCC and she tells me that i am really low and just basicall puts me down every chance she gets. and i believe that is why i have no self confidence what so ever. and i believe that is why i had sex with my bf because he was the only guy who ever made me feel special and beautiful. but thats besides the point. everyday she reminds me of my mistakes and its getting old and i just want to shoot my self so i have been drinking and taking pills to make me feel alright and what not and well my question is this what can i do so i dont feel like shit 24/7? just a second ago i was going to go out cuz one of my friedns called me and she said oh you look easy enough, so how manny boys do you think you are going to fuck and so i riped my shirt and threw it at her adn said 100 get in line bi***

any ideas or insight would be much appreciated

thank you

aw you sound like a great person .. do you have another aunt or uncle that doesn`t put you down? if so talk to them about it or talk to your school counselor and get help! this shouldn`t be happening, you don`t deserve it. any other questions leave it in my inbox *

[view]

I have had my Shih Tzu for 1 year and one month got him when he was 3 months old. My problem is he is very difficult to potty train,,,sometimes he has accidents in the house, can't figure out why at his age he does, being I thought he was potty trained he goes for long periods without doing anything, then out of the blue he messes in the house..Can someone help me please???

i have a shih tzu too, he took about a year to be potty trained.. suubborn little dogs, but one day it just clicked, so just be patient and put him outside everytime he as an accident *
x3. .. maria

[view]

i have AIM and i save away messages..well with sum when i go to click on the they kick me off...iuno why and they wont let me delet them because i cant click on them..any suggestions to whats wrong or what i can do? thanks

ha don`t worry i had that too, just don`t click them and after like a couple months it should be able to let you delete them

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker