There is these 3 boys on the bus that keep bothering me and my best friends. They keep saying that we're a "threesome" and in three days they've made me cry 5 times. They call us sexy and say I love you. We know that they don't mean it.. they're all a year older than us (we're in 7th grade) and they always try to steal my stuff and call me and my best friend gay. I've tried EVERYTHING!! Nothing works.. a little help on handling these people?
iluvu22 answered Friday January 7 2005, 12:44 am: YES YES i have help!!! aww sweetie!! listen to me..!! i had a similar problem!! when i was in 7th these boys used to hit on me and one of them even touched me (u know ..down there) . when they werent harassing me..they were teasing me..it sux..but they do have a method to their madness. for some reason boys (oh what retatded creatures they are)..have the tendency to pick on the girls they find attractive or "sexy" ..its sad but thrue. just stand up to them. say something like wow you are just so cool now and i think im gunna go cry because an asshole just called me gay!! trust me if you act like it doesnt bother you..they will get bored and stop.!! x0x - teddi [ iluvu22's advice column | Ask iluvu22 A Question ]
xbella_47 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 7:12 pm: let`s seee ... what would do ... well whatever you do don`t take w/e they`re saying seriously. because they`re obviously not. yea and i`m in 8th grade..and most guy`s don`t rly do that, so your best bet is to talk to your friends and like whisper abt. them then point and laugh.. haha yes do that. i would =) ha ha [ xbella_47's advice column | Ask xbella_47 A Question ]
amelia12290 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 8:50 am: ok see guys are total jerks in middle school i learned that the hard way you just kinda have to shrug it off and act like its nothing to you once guys get older and mature more (because yes girls do mature faster then boys) they will stop teasing you im in high school and not many people tease you its just too immature to do in high school well good luck! [ amelia12290's advice column | Ask amelia12290 A Question ]
bob745 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:27 am: well these people are obciously in love with you and you need to confront them about this, try to talk to them on the bus about their failed attempts to get with you, tell them its okay to be homosexual and make sure to explain to them that it is important to talk to some1 about these newfound emotions, being in 7th grade and all it is a big deal to have to deal with fags on the bus, in reality i think youre a pussy you need to fight it out with these queers [ bob745's advice column | Ask bob745 A Question ]
sportspazer answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:53 am: i think that you can't show emotion towards them. dont give them a satisfaction of getting a reaction out of you. think of good comeback when they call you and your friends gay, im a 7th grader too and i know how it feels. after i started showing no reaction and stuff to dissing and namecalling, ive become great friends with them. (you dont have to be great friends with them later on) and they also might tease you because they like you. ive learned that out of experience. [ sportspazer's advice column | Ask sportspazer A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 10:09 pm: Just ignore them or move away from them on the bus. Or have the bus driver talk to them if they bother you that much that happaned to some girl on my bus everybody called her a goth and she talked to the bus driver nobody made fun of her anymore they didnt really even make fun of her for telling him.. they new it bothered her.. because im friends with the people.. so thats how i know. Sorri. Hope things work out!!-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
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