Member Since: January 6, 2005
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Last Update: January 7, 2005
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how do you kiss? (link)
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ok lol...kissing. well its pretty instinctive. well your headss should lean to oposite sides and give him a soft kiss at first. then open your mouth and put your tounge in his. dont make circles becuase it gets boring..youll know what to do when your doing it. and dont be nervous..just go for it!! x0x - teddi
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OK my best friend went out with this boy four about a month, and he broke up wid her....well now hes asking me to go out wid him and i really like him and he really likes me. But, i dont kno wut to do.... I mean she says its ok if i go out with him becuz hes been askin me everyday if i will but i keep saying i dont kno. If she says its ok should i?¿ PLz help me...... i RATE very well....
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well..think you should go for it!! as long as your friend is ok with it and you have feelings for him..you have nothing to stand in your way. besides if would be unfair of your friend sto hold you back from someone that youe like, just because they dumped her. The next time he asks you..say YES!!!!! =)
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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
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OOKkk you get an eerection when blood fills the penis. yes, you can get one from making out..and its a perfectly normal thing to get them.
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eversince he started dating this slut, which my parents and his best friend totally disapprove of, he's been lying, having sex, and going out all the time. He barely talks to me, and he almost never buys me any food anymore. He's even telling me to lie to my mom for him. I do it anyway cuz I kno that he'll get seriously pissed at me
His girlfriend is a total gold digger and a skank, and they're probably just using each other for sex. I hate them both. I've been giving him the cold shoulder lately, but he hasnt been getting the message.
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you need to tell your mom. i know this is exactly what he doesnt want you to do...but trust me its for the best. he might be mad at you at the beginning..but you just might be able to save him. if he carries on the way he has..hes gonna skrew up his life..and if your mom knows about it she can stop it. im sure you dont hate your brother..but he does sound like he needs help..you need to make sure your there for him!! =)
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hey!! i have a chance to try out for my high school musical (i'm in 8th). It requires singing and dancing, so i definitely have a chance with the dancing part. but with the singing, i'm not bad but there are a couple of better people. does any one have any tips on what i can do... like projection, that sort of thing. thanks! (link)
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hey hunny! ..the key to bringing out the best in your voice is breath control. BREATHE FROM YOUR DIAPHRAM!!! this means when you breath in..your stomach should come out and when you exhale your stomach should come back in. Squeeze your stomach on the high notes and relax your throat. good luck!! x0x - teddi
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Okay, i'm a ninth grader, and i can't stand all of the 7th graders, they're all stuck up. i got into a huge fight with one of them cuz they were sayen stuff about me. and then the one girls friends sister got involved and shes 16, and im on 14, she threatened to kick my ass, i duno if she'll actually do it though. i see her alot in the halls , i dont think she exactly knows what i look like either, but alot of people in my school know me, so they might tell her. should i skip school tomorrow, or just go? im soo worried.. thanks!!! and if i do skip school, what can i tell my mom, like what are some good tricks? (link)
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no no no!! dont skip school!!! babe..i dont think youll have a problem with this girl. and just to be sure..i suggest that you always have a friend with you wherever you go. if she ends up cornering you...try reasoning with her..and while your stalling your friend can get a teacher. but do NOT skip skool becuase then the next day u run the exact same risk as the day before. dont run away from your problems..face them hun!! x0x - teddi
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Okay well my boyfriend just recently moved away ((yesterday)) and we are doing a long distance relationship. and i knew lots of people hated me when he was here and lots of people hated him to but when he was here i didnt care what people thought of me and now that hes gone i just want to move away. i am sick of it. i have dealt with people being mean and talking bad about me all of my life and i am just getting so fucking sick of it. i need him here to help me back to my old self. but now i just cant handle it. i am losing friends now because they are saying i should break up with him and im like no i love him. i want to move to virginia with my boyfriend life was better with him. what should i do? (link)
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Sweetie..you are 13. You cant make yourself miserable over a boy. you cant move to virginia. you should focus more on your friends and less on your b/f. i know how hard this will be at first..but you are only hurting yourself by wishing for him to come home and fix your life. you need to take control and go with the flow a little more. also try a hobbie. take up dancer or swimming or a sport. youll make new friends and it will help you take your mind off things.
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have u ever givin head (link)
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uhhmm is that ur business??
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There is these 3 boys on the bus that keep bothering me and my best friends. They keep saying that we're a "threesome" and in three days they've made me cry 5 times. They call us sexy and say I love you. We know that they don't mean it.. they're all a year older than us (we're in 7th grade) and they always try to steal my stuff and call me and my best friend gay. I've tried EVERYTHING!! Nothing works.. a little help on handling these people? (link)
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YES YES i have help!!! aww sweetie!! listen to me..!! i had a similar problem!! when i was in 7th these boys used to hit on me and one of them even touched me (u know ..down there) . when they werent harassing me..they were teasing me..it sux..but they do have a method to their madness. for some reason boys (oh what retatded creatures they are)..have the tendency to pick on the girls they find attractive or "sexy" ..its sad but thrue. just stand up to them. say something like wow you are just so cool now and i think im gunna go cry because an asshole just called me gay!! trust me if you act like it doesnt bother you..they will get bored and stop.!! x0x - teddi
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I overheard one of my friends telling a boy how I had criend over what she oviously thought was nothing and laughing over it. Sometimes she runs away from some of her other friends (who are also my friends) and me with her bitchy friend, then pretends it was nothing and that Im over reacting. Then she is really friendly again.She has done this so many times now I secretly don't like her at all. However, she is really popular and I think if I stopped being her friend all my friends would still be with her as she has this way of making people side with her. I don't know what to do about it..(Sorry about the length).
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well babe..your problem is a typical bitchy friend. u dont deserve that! tell her that you see how she treats you and that you refuse to become someone elses dorrmat. tell her you love her, but she is hurting you and its not fair. Be honest..mau=ybe she doesnt even realize there is a problem to begin with!!! x0x - teddi
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I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to. 14/f
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Wow. I am sorry! thats heavy stuf! well..tell her about yourslef. dont come on to strong at first because you might overwhelm her. visit her more then once. on the first visit keep it light and friendly..catch up on things. then in the next visits, you can bring in the fact that medicine is hurting her and that you feel as though you need a mother. if it doesnt seem to be working out..turn to your friends and other family member to help..sweetie its important that you dont make yourself crazy over this...remember everything happends for a reason. good luck x0x0x teddi!!
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Hey! Does anybody know any sad/slow songs? My best friends birthday is next week and she wants a slow/sad mix! please help! thanks! (link)
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Only Hope...Mandy Moore
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I've heard many times the "You'll know when you're ready" line. I was wondering, HOW do you know when you're ready to lose your virginity?
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well...when you feel as though you can trust your partner and that you wont be ashamed to say you did it! you will know when your ready...and if you dont know what it feels like to be ready then you probably arent. i hope i helped =) p.s. dont let anyone rush you into anything. x0x0x
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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trust me...go for it. you wont be labled a slut. and it wont hurt.
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Sorry about the lenth. Anyways, my boyfriend and me started having sex last Augest. (i'm 17/f) and my mom found out a couple of monthes after, and she found out we weren't using condoms and such ... anyways, ever since she keeps blackmailing me. If I don't do this for her or kiss her ass for the rest of my life she'll tell his parents everything ... and he'll get sent away. We love each other to death, but if we were seperated I don't know what I would do. This blackmail stuff is really getting to me ... i get all stressed out by it and depressed. Really depressed. Please help, i rate high (link)
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Your mom sounds like a bitch. I am sorry but she does. You need to talk to her and tell her what she is doing is making you literally sick and you cant deal with it anymore. Make sure she knows how much shes puching you away. Good luck. x0x0
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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track? (link)
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Sweetie I think you need to get an abortion. I know you made a mistake and that your willing to except that, but if you choose to accept this baby, you will make an even bigger msitake. You will be bringing your mistake into the world and IT will have to live with it. It will be 10 while you are 24. how embarassing. And also you will throw your life away. Leave this in your past and be smarter in your future. I wish you luck.
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