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Blackmail
Sorry about the lenth. Anyways, my boyfriend and me started having sex last Augest. (i'm 17/f) and my mom found out a couple of monthes after, and she found out we weren't using condoms and such ... anyways, ever since she keeps blackmailing me. If I don't do this for her or kiss her ass for the rest of my life she'll tell his parents everything ... and he'll get sent away. We love each other to death, but if we were seperated I don't know what I would do. This blackmail stuff is really getting to me ... i get all stressed out by it and depressed. Really depressed. Please help, i rate high
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ask her to stop tell her you love him and if he goes then your going to go with him if she sayas you cant say ur gonna kill ur self but DONT
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your mother is black mailing you? omg thats just wrong... pay back.. what u gotta do is find some dirt on her or make something up and do the same thing to her, thats really messed up tho who does that to their child lol?
hope i helped xOx love becca xOx
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tell her to stop black mailing u and if she doesnt black mail her
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Your mom sounds like a bitch. I am sorry but she does. You need to talk to her and tell her what she is doing is making you literally sick and you cant deal with it anymore. Make sure she knows how much shes puching you away. Good luck. x0x0
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hun i dont really know what to tell you but you have to tell your boyfriend that your mom is doing this too you... you too have to think of a way to fix it all.. sorry i didnt help that much
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You should sit down and talk to you mother about this. She is being a female dog about this. Shouldn't she tell you to buy protection of birth control pills instead of threatening you? It is not her choice what you do. You should just tell her how you feel and if she does not like it then too bad for her. You shouldn't care if his parents know as well. Why would they send their son away for getting pleasure. But I do not believe in sex before marriage so you are not doing a good thing and plus YOU MUST BE CRAZY!!! You are not using protection!! What is the matter with you!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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your 17 your old enough to make your own decisions, and if you guys have sex, its your business not your moms, but the least you could do is use condoms, just protect yourself, but anyways, if you guys dont wnat to its your decision but hopefully your mom will knock it off because thats what usually little brothers/sisters do when they find out something about you, not your mom!
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Your mom needs to stay out of your buisness. you're 17. tell her to F off if she continues.
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ok well see your mother should not be blackmailing you, you are 17 almost legal age to move out shes just uptight about something obviously you should start using condoms first of all because thats how my friend got pregnant when she was 15 by not using condoms and then secondly talk to your mother and if she doesnt lighten up about the whole thing you can easily tell the authorities about it blackmailing is against the law you know and you mother especially shouldnt be doing it thats horrible. good luck!!
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Have you seen Fatal Attraction? Blackmail story over sex. Good movie. A lot like your situation here. Youre stuck pretty much. You can tell the boys parents. Do you know for a fact he'll be sent away? Tell your mom shes really taking this thing too far. If the boys parents do find out,its better that you and he tell them. Not your mom who is using you. Hell with her.
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Next time she blackmails you, tell her that you are not going to take this form her anymore! Just like (hehe) and be like "I know i shouldnt be hacing sex especially without condoms and i am sorry for my decision and i wont do it again until later in life." If she doesnt buy that then she is the most misunderstanding mom in the world! Good Luck!
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I bet your mom is getting with him. So just keep banging him and tell your mom to shove off. cause i bet she isn't getting any, so i have one word for you, threesome.
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Happy early birtday! I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. My friend jsut went through a similar situation. I'm gald to hear that you and your b/f are in love and happy but having unprotected sex is not safe. If you guys don't like to use condoms there is always the pill whichh is just as effective. Both of you should get tested for Aids and other STD's before having sex again. As for your mom she doesn't seem to be so happy if she is threatning you and your boyfriends relationship. Sit your mom down and talk to her and if that doesn't work go to your boyfreinds parents and either tell them the truth or tell them that your mom has jumped to conclusions and is threatning you guys. If you are seriosuly depressed go see a doctor, depression is serious my aunt was depressed for a very long time and was never happy finally we convinced her to go see a doctor she did and tooke medicine for a while and is now happier than she has ever been in her life. IF the talks dont work out with ur mom email me at my column and i'll help with another solution. Good luck and i hope everything works out great for you.
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Eh what a sucky situation. Is it possible that his parents like you enough that they'll believe you if you tell them that your mom is jumping to conclusions? Could you tell his parents that no none of it happened? Maybe your mom is bluffing who knows . What does your bf say? Maybe saying to your mom "ok fine go ahead" will solve everything. Hopefully its a bluff. How soon will he be 18? If its coming up...put up with your mom's crap for awhile and when your bf turns 18 stop kissing her ass. This way your bf will go to college..move out..whatever if they kick him out. You can also try tape recording your mom threatening you about telling..and you can say "mom stop threatening me..you know id never do that!" (dramatize it lol) and show it to his parents first? I dont maybe not such a great idea.
Hope i helped out a little?
-melissa
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