OK my best friend went out with this boy four about a month, and he broke up wid her....well now hes asking me to go out wid him and i really like him and he really likes me. But, i dont kno wut to do.... I mean she says its ok if i go out with him becuz hes been askin me everyday if i will but i keep saying i dont kno. If she says its ok should i?¿ PLz help me...... i RATE very well....
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br0ken_x_smile answered Friday January 7 2005, 1:05 pm: Well, I wouldn't because maybe she is still hiding her feelings for him. Later on maybe you guys can get together, but give it time. Belive me i was in an experience like that and my best friend said yes to the kid.. and it kind of hurt but I hid it like my friend
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-;- jessie xo [ br0ken_x_smile's advice column | Ask br0ken_x_smile A Question ]
RedNeckShOrTy answered Friday January 7 2005, 11:48 am: OK...you like him and he likes you. Well, right there that is a good reason to go out with him. Also, your best friend said it was ok. but maybe you really want to make sure she is ok with it. She sounds like she doesnt have a problem with it. I was in the same situation when i was in 7th grade, my friend dated this guy Andy. Well, after they broke up he asked me out. I was confused because i wanted to make sure she was ok with it. She was and we dated for awhile. Go for it! I hope I helped!
iluvu22 answered Friday January 7 2005, 11:15 am: well..think you should go for it!! as long as your friend is ok with it and you have feelings for him..you have nothing to stand in your way. besides if would be unfair of your friend sto hold you back from someone that youe like, just because they dumped her. The next time he asks you..say YES!!!!! =) [ iluvu22's advice column | Ask iluvu22 A Question ]
CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Friday January 7 2005, 11:09 am: ok, if I were you, I wouldn't. If he's not woth losing a friendship over, then no. because normally when someone says that they don't care if their friend goes out with their ex...it usually means the opposite....because later, she is going to get mad and hold all of that against you. then all this crap is going to happen.....or, if she REALLY don't care she is going to get jealous or feel odd (this happened with me and my best friend. except it ws my friend, and i was the one being a bitch) being around yall and start being a bitch without realizing it. I advise you to not go out with him. [ CoUnTrYgUrL77's advice column | Ask CoUnTrYgUrL77 A Question ]
xselenebeenx answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:50 am: That was a good thing that you asked your friend before saying yes to the guy. Even though your best friend will be hurting, i think you should definatley go for it becuase if he keeps asking you out every day then i think he realy likes you, and your best friend did say it was all right/ if you do go out with him those hers a helpful hint* dont parade him around in front of your best friend and try not to hook up with him in front of her. you dont want to make her feel as bad as shes probably feeling right now.* hope i helped...selene [ xselenebeenx's advice column | Ask xselenebeenx A Question ]
kristen22 answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:45 am: Congrats for askin your friend first before goin out with him. that was the right thing to do, as we all know bestfriends are forever. She said it's ok....so go for it! You like em' and he like's you so what are you waiting for? lol good luck! [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
Farren answered Friday January 7 2005, 9:27 am: Go for it. Then a month from now when he breaks up with you and wants to go out with a friend of yours you can ask us what to do about it again so we can get two good ratings. Yay for rating well! [ Farren's advice column | Ask Farren A Question ]
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