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right fashion or wrong
hey,
my friend would always wear really short shorts and she didn't fit in the shorts! I was always kinda thinkin she was tryin to impress guys! One day i told her that and she got mad at me! She hasn't ever worn short-shorts again! Was i wrong?why did she wear that type of clothing? please help!
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does it matter? at least she`s wearing shorts that fit her now. why? it was probably for guys. yes. ♥ maria
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no you were right.. i th ink that if she were to have heard that from someone else she would have probably gotten upset and i think that i would like it if my frien=d told me that.....Bye!
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You were'n't wrong in being honest with her. A true friend appreciates honesty. She probably wore that type of clothing to feel sexy even though she's busting in them. You should however understand to a certain degree that she would get mad, you should know that all women are sensitive when it comes to their weight. In the same way that a fat girl don't enjoy eating around skinny girls, a fat girl does not like to hear that she is fat. In this case, The Truth Hurts.
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maybe she was trying out the whole fat slut look? who knows
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she's probably in denial and wants to think that she's attractive when she wears those clothes that show a lot of skin. I think now she's just embarassed. I dont blame you, if I had a fat friend that wore tight clothes, I would stay as far away as possible because they look ridiculous.
I think she'll forgive you soon. you just need to tell her that being a little overweight is fine, but when you're overweight and you wear tight clothes to impress people, that's just wrong. they look even more sad when they do that. she just needs to accept the way she is, and she shouldnt try to impress anyone but herself
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I know what you mean..a lot of girls who are a little big wear clothes that are waaay to small or tight for them. I think it was the right thing to tell your friend, but I can see where she got mad bc that wasn't smthn she wanted to hear. But if she wasn't thankful for you telling her that she didn't look that good in the shorts, then she would probably keep wearing them. I'm sure you tried to be as nice as you could..but its not an easy thing to tell someone. Sh eprobably wore that type of clothes bc she wanted to attract guys, but if they didn't look good..I doubt she attracted any.
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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You weren't wrong in saying what you felt! you were just being a friend and that's what friends do they look out for each other. she may have wron those short shorts because you wanted a guy or wanted to impress a guy. or she may have just worn them because she thought they looked good. don't worry about what you did because you told her how you felt and maybe those short shorts didn't look so right after all. you told and she stopped and that's all that matters! if she doesn't understand tell her why you said that!
*BeSs*
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I had a friend like this over the summer, i told her almost the same thing you did and asked why she wore them, she said what you though because she wanted to impress guys and she thought guys liked it when girls wore those clothes. so maybe it was the same case with your friend.I also think you did the right thing to speak your mind about what you thought it gave your friend an honest opinion about what you thought about her choice in clothing
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