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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!

xoxo

P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not! (link)
Don't deny the fact that you're a slut. When I read what you said, these words came to mind: Slut, Wanton, Whore, libertine, Scarlet Woman. And to think...these words don't even describe the level that you're on. You're 13 you crack whore! Hope you get all the STDs that are going around, cuz you won't learn your lesson...you're a fucking bitch in heat. Oh if you're pregnant, do us a favor and kill yourself. There are enough 13 year old sluts roaming this site.


It has been about a year that my ex and I have been working on our relationship. I cheated and realized that it was a mistake and we have been trying to fix it ever since. We are divorced. It was what he wanted, I gave into it cause I had no room to protest. He doesn't trust me, he tells me that he wants it to get back together, but he has a trust issue and doesn't believe a word I say. I have tried everything I can think or to get him to talk to me about. He likes the time we spend together, but he says it is a friendship thing. He doesn't have the feelings of love yet. Yet I get confused because he always wants to see me, wants to hear from me at work and when I am on my way home (we don't live together), but he only looks at us now as friends. We still are intamate with each other. Friends don't do that though. I have asked how I can earn back his trust and he tells me at one time he will see it forhimself and there are times he says he may never getit back. I just don't know what to do. I want this to work and I ty so hard, just whaen it goes ok I ask how he feels and he gets mad....what can i do to help him open up? To trust me and believe my feelings are true?

Willing to help,

Mickey (link)
How old are you?! You sound like a friggin' teen who got married just for the hell of it. Anyway you cheated, you're the bad person. He can't get over the fact that you were a whore so deal with that. You don't just cheat and expect things to work after you say that you're sorry. And unlike what 'others' say, the divorce was not your punishment, it was not your execution. This is...the fact that he's stringing you along is your punishment, so live with it. You can't cheat and then realize that it was a mistake...hullo only whores do that... you didn't love him enough to be faithful, so he doesn't trust you and thumbs up to him for that. After screwing up like that, you'd better be willing to prove yourself bigtime.


I went out with this kid name Matt and About a month ago I dumped him. The kid is like obsessed with me he's alway just staring at me, at lunch, during classes, in the halls. If i walk across the room he watches me. He seriously watches like everything I do. I have a new boyfriend, named Jon, now and both him and i are really uncomfortable with him staring at me. Its so weird im like afraid to be myself sometimes. Like people come up to me and are like Matt is staring at you. It creeps me out and makes me so uncomfortable. Some of my friends have been telling him he needs to move on and get a new girlfriend and they've suggested hooking him up with people but he's obsessed. I dont like him that way at all. What should I do about it?!?!? (link)
There's nothing to do but wait until he attacks you. When he does, just stab him with a pen and say "Oops, did I do that?"


i really like this guy...but i am afraid he wont like me and i am friends with his friends and they say he isnt into girls right now...but it feels likehe keeps flirting with me...what should i do?...should i ask him out?
ps. i rate 5's (link)
"and they say he isnt into girls right now"

Well what is he into then? Guys? If so, that answers your question doesn't it.


Does anyone know a really good pop-up blocker I can download for free? I already have like two on this computer, but I still get pop-ups like crazy! Rawr. (link)
If you've got kazaa installed on your computer, then you'll have pop-ups no matter what you try. Otherwise, I'd suggest you download an ad-aware spyware program by lavasoft (lavasoft.com), it will remove the hidden ad programs that are already installed on your computer and protect against new ones. But again if you have kazaa, you'll have spyware, kazaa won't work if the spyware is removed and it re-installs it everytime you remove it. Also if you use IE, you would be better off using netscape, I never get pop-ups and it has tabbed browsing which saves your memory unlike IE that hogs your memory for every new page you open.


I'm a breakfast, lunch, dinner type of girl. I try not snack inbetween, but I find that many times, after lunch, a few hours before dinner, I am SO hungry...does anyone have some really nutritious snacking ideas? (link)
If you're eating a healthy breakfast, lunch and dinner, then you should snack on some junk food once in a while. You need to shock your system so that it won't get used to healthy food and your metabolic activity will speed up a bit once more.


I know that it's a while away, but it's already starting to worry me. I asked my parents where they wanted me to go to high school and they told me about this private school. And since I already go to one, I really wanted to go to a public high school. So it made me mad. I don't know how to convince them. And they said that the place I wanted to go wasn't their first choice out of the public high schools. None of my friends will go to the private school, most of them will go to the one I want to go to. And there's tons more reasons. How do I convince them? It's a big issue and we argue about it every day. Can anybody help? (link)
Well since you're not asking advice as to which type of school you should go to, I won't give my opinion on that. As to convincing your parents, well unless you've got a scholarship waiting, or a good paying job, chances are you're going to need them to pay for college. So stop acting like a spoiled kid and do as your folks say.


ok on aol I am trying to get a funny but cute screen name or just funny I am a girl and I am really tired of the one I have cookiemonster thx (link)
When did screen names become a category for advice giving? If you want cute screen names, search through google.


hey,
my friend would always wear really short shorts and she didn't fit in the shorts! I was always kinda thinkin she was tryin to impress guys! One day i told her that and she got mad at me! She hasn't ever worn short-shorts again! Was i wrong?why did she wear that type of clothing? please help! (link)
You were'n't wrong in being honest with her. A true friend appreciates honesty. She probably wore that type of clothing to feel sexy even though she's busting in them. You should however understand to a certain degree that she would get mad, you should know that all women are sensitive when it comes to their weight. In the same way that a fat girl don't enjoy eating around skinny girls, a fat girl does not like to hear that she is fat. In this case, The Truth Hurts.


What would be a quick way to lose a few pounds? I can't do anything outside because of all of the snow, and I'm not allowed to run for at least a week because I have a concusion. So what else can I do like inside? (link)
Eat very little by eating very slow. Don't gulp your food down, take your time...at least allow 2 minutes lapse between each intake. This is a sure way to lose weight because you feel full halfway into your meal. There are some people who'll say that you'll get 'gas' but that's not true, and if you're paranoid, drink lots of liquid before you eat or take beano before you do...you'll definitely lose weight.


dont you hate when people will act like there an indiviual and they call themself a rocker when there acually just like everyone else. the recent napolian dynimite craze and spread through my school and everyone acts just like him and thinks its cool and they act like there some rocker and them and all there friends do eacually the same stuff. I'd be coool if they realized what they were doing but theree way to simple minded to think on there own. all they can do is listen to the rock other people do and do the things everyone else does. for example the thick rimmed glasses, one person whos cool wears them, every one got to wear them. How can i tell my friends that theve just got annoying with all this stuff (link)
Say to them "you're annoying with all this stuff". No need to sugarcoat. Just take lots of pictures to remind them of their stupidity when the craze is over.


my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do? (link)
I give sensible advice, I really do. But there are the occasional morons who post stupid questions to which one can't give sensible advice cuz morons lack the ability to comphrehend or to think sensibly. So once in a while I'm forced to talk on their level.

Ok, you're an idiot if you think that there's something you can do. He doesn't like you anymore...doesn't have time for you...the sooner you get that through your head, the sooner the 'infatuation' will die.


Hello.
I have been having really bad luck with guys lately and im getting really tired of it. I dont know what to do because it always seems as if I either get to shy and dont know what to say or i say somthign really stupid. can someone please give me some adive.
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Walk up to a guy and say "Hi, i'm stupid but I give great head". You're sure to get his attention.


(16/f) what do/can you get your b/f for valentines day? (link)
Nothing says I Love You better than a basket of tuna.




Im a freshmen in high school most people say that i look much older for my age. Im extremely popular in my school all the girls want to be like me and all the guys want a piece of me but sometimes i think my friends just use me because of this im me on xodanielle432ox.. a friends sn how do i know if i hve true friends or not (link)
By the way you talk, it's a wonder they're wasting their time by using you.




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