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Hello.
I have been having really bad luck with guys lately and im getting really tired of it. I dont know what to do because it always seems as if I either get to shy and dont know what to say or i say somthign really stupid. can someone please give me some adive.
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Walk up to a guy and say "Hi, i'm stupid but I give great head". You're sure to get his attention.
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same here. i havent had a bf in like 3 years and i hate it but i just try to be myself around them.
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I used to have the exact same problem as you. Really I promise you things will get better. Here are some tips ((i know they sound stupid but just hear me out)) what I usually do is try to find a common interest with the guy... that is always something that can help so0o that you can talk... Now I know your thinking what if we aren't interested in the same things? Well you can find out what the guy is interested in. Ask him about stuff that's important to him. That way not only will you have a good conversation with him you can also learn something new that you didn't know about. Hope I could help =)
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o don't worry. of course ur gonna be shy and nervous around a guy. it's not bad luck its just bad timing. when your with a guy just think before you speak so you don't say what you want, run it through your head and make sure its what you want to say and think about what'll happen after you say it but don't take forever in thinking or he might think you are weird or something. and..just relax. take deep breaths, calm down and just have fun. don't be shy becuase from what i've seen in my schoool, guys don't like shy girls, they want nice open and friendly ones. just think before you speak and relax and just have fun. hope i helped ya
--ally
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oh, that sucks:(Try this(it worked for me)
breathe, and remind yourself that you have nothing to be afraid of. Sounds corny, but it worked.
as for saying something stupid, you probably get so nervous and want to create convo so bad that the first thing you think of, flys from your mouth. Think before you speak. Try your best not to be so nervous and shy. These boys can't do you anything. As for don't know what to say, anything is a convo starter. Compliment them on their hair or clothes or something:P Hope i helped.
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