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he wont stop staring
I went out with this kid name Matt and About a month ago I dumped him. The kid is like obsessed with me he's alway just staring at me, at lunch, during classes, in the halls. If i walk across the room he watches me. He seriously watches like everything I do. I have a new boyfriend, named Jon, now and both him and i are really uncomfortable with him staring at me. Its so weird im like afraid to be myself sometimes. Like people come up to me and are like Matt is staring at you. It creeps me out and makes me so uncomfortable. Some of my friends have been telling him he needs to move on and get a new girlfriend and they've suggested hooking him up with people but he's obsessed. I dont like him that way at all. What should I do about it?!?!?
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wow you should tell him to leave you the fuck alone just go up to him and straight up tell him everything you said.. be like you need to quite starring at me and watching me and shit... ITS OVER!.. maybe tell your new boyfriend and he could do something
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This could either be very serious, or it could just be a weird way of him dealing with the breakup.
Continue to ignore him if all he does is stare.
If he ever talks to you in a threatening way, calls you constantly, or threatens your friends or boyfriend, talk to a teacher, parent, or school counselor. They can help you make a plan to make him leave you alone.
Hopefully for your sake this is just a weird fluke and it doesn't end in a restraining order.
Hope this helps.
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well while your doing something else and hes staring at you ask your boyfriend to threaten to beat him up if he doesnt stop staring at you or ask a friend to go bitch slap him and snap him out of it. hope i helped!
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Talk to him nicely and calmly and tell him thay you dont like him like that anymorea dn you are uncomfortable with him liking you more than friend. Say that your relationship with him is iver and it wont start again no matter what. Maybe he thinks staring at you and obssesing about you will get you and him back together so you need to prove him wrong. You could set up one of your friends with him and also tell him that he needs to move on just like you did as you have a new boyfriend. Hope I helped. :)
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There's nothing to do but wait until he attacks you. When he does, just stab him with a pen and say "Oops, did I do that?"
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You should try to hook him up with someone. Or you could just tell him you don't real comfortable with him staring at you. Camly explain it makes you feel akward. If it still doesn't get through to him you should hook him up. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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a friend of mine had the same scenario a while back. however her stalker has now found a new victim. perhaps over time, through your perseverence he'll get lost and find a new harasee! :p
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well it does seem like he really REALLY likes you. But maybe you could talk to him nicly, so you dont hurt him. Tell him that it bugs you when he keeps staring at you non stop... Just talk to him.
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