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ok i go to babrizon modeling skool and i've had this friend we've been tight since tyr-outs......shes 16 im 13.....and i never knew anything about her boyfriend not a name or an age nothin.......ok so i go to my dads house like everyother weekend and sometimes when im over there i go to the neighbors house to hang out.....well his neighbor (15yrs)had a few friends ova(ranging from15-16yrs) and i know im young but i was just havin fun and i kissed a few and then got forced into givin head to one of them........i can always tell my friend everything and since this was a scary thing to deal with i told her about it and it turns out the one who forced me to do that was her boyfriend.....shes mad at me and got everyone in barbizon to think im a slut.....should i be mad at her? i love goin to barbizon but i cant stand going if shes gonna be mean to me she was my best friend there.....how do i deal with this?
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Dont apologize. You didnt even know it was her boyfriend! And you were forced* to do it! Shes just mad because he cheated and shes taking it out on you. You need to tell her exactly that: He cheated and thats why shes telling everyone your a slut and stuff. I say dont be friends with her anymore, theres other people at barbizon:) ]
i think you've gotta apologise to her and see if you can both start afresh. of course you didnt mean for all of this to happen, but if you can take responsibility for what has happened, she might be willing to be your friend again. it will be hard to take the blame even if you weren't in the wrong. but sometimes people arent looking for the truth of the matter, just a scapegoat.
hope that helps. alex ]
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