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Over Protective?
Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp
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if you have a boyfriend you shouldnt be flirtin wit other guys. it kinda gets guys thinkin that somethin more might be goin on. thats a fault on your part but he also shouldnt hold back whats hes feelin from you. it takes communication to have a relationship. you and him need to sit down and have a real conversation bout everything. it will help. ~*Alexis*~
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well, ur boyfriend just duznt wanna lose u. and i can understand that...but if u think hes bein too over protective just talk to him. and tell him that u wouldnt go out w/ his best friend b/c uve moved on adn u dont like his best friend--u like HIM. it is normal for a boyfriend to not want his girl to b flirtin w/ other guys. even tho u may not b flirting, he prolby gets jealous that ur just talkin to other guys. but just talk to him and c how it goes.
*jaz
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well it seems that if he that protective then he really likes you. when i flirt my bf gets mad too and he never told me so one dayb i sat down with him and i said how am i supposed to fix what im doing wrong if you dont tell me why ur mad. and after a while he started to tell me evey time there was something wrong .so try sitting down with him and talk to him. and i mean about the he sees you with other ppl it just means hes jealouse and hes afraid of you leaving him. well sry if i didnt help out much but i hope i helped some.
alexxa
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the story of my life for the past year. yes. just tell him the truth, and tell him it`s the truth whether he believes it or not. make him guilty =) ha .. mmm ok hope i helped
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well it seems that this relationship is lacking on some trust! you have got to talk to him about this and let him know that your not gonna do anything stupid like cheat on him and also tell him that you want the relationship to be open which means that when either of you have something to say...you actually say it! Hope I helped!
Ciara
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You should like talk to him about it go to dinner or something(not a movie i hate it when people talk in movies) but just talk to him.
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Well hun...your boy friend over protectaive i got ya...but i mean Its is good to live a little and im sure he has flirted with other people once or twice bfore but anyways talk to him about it not at school not threw the phone in person not somewhere in public somewhere quiet...Also his best friend do u flirt is the question..do u like his friend.....Ask ur self tese questions...then add evrything up......wruight back if u need more if u dont understand ok....My name is Natasha
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well yah your bf is WAY over protective...maybe you should find another guy...but if you REALLY REALLY like this dude..then try talking to him about it. tell him that you dont mind him flirting with other girls and you arent going to get back together with you ex boyfriend.but be nice so this doesnt in in a total mess!
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Its normal for a boyfriend to care! It always is good to no that someone cares about u and he serently does! Give him a chance...make him open up to you and make him tell you how he feels tell him that u want to let eachother no one anothers feelings! Good Luck!
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A certain amount of fear is a part of any budding relationship. He's afraid to loose you. It sounds like he's going a bit too far though. Controlling behavior, which includes over-protectiveness, needs to be watched closely. He doesn't trust your relationship enough to let you be yourself around other men. Sometimes this can be worked out with time and sometimes... You don't want a man who doesn't care what you do, but it can get out of hand and abusive really fast. Depending on his personality when you try to talk about it, and you should, he may shut down and become unresponsive. Let him know you are afraid of loosing him because he doesn't trust you. It also sounds like he is jelous of his friend for having you first and also if his friend couldn't hold you how can he? You're dealing with fear and ego and it sounds like a touch of childish I won't share my toys kind of thing. Well you aren't a toy and you care enough about him to try to find an answer. He has you now, not his friend. It may not work out between you two if he won't open up and admit even to himself why he's so bothered. (He may not know. It's easier looking back than forward.) Hope this brings you some clarity though I doubt it will actually help the overall situation. Good luck!
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Try talking to him and tell him how you would never cheat on him with his best friend! Let him know that hes the only one you want. Everyguy is a little protective and guys get jealous easy, even though dont show it. Talk to him about how you want him to tell you if theres something wrong and not to hold back his feelings
<3
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Slap him really hard and tell him that is what it would feel like to a guy if he tried to make a move on you. That way you get revenge and show him you still love him.
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