Question Posted Saturday January 22 2005, 11:19 pm
my friend is going out with this guy. i think she's too good for him but anyway. he's in my PE class and the other day i saw him touching another girl's pussy. like feeling up on her. they're both black and the girl he was touching is white. plus right now there's a lot of racial stuff going on. should i tell my friend or keep my mouth shut?
Lil_Chocolate_Boi answered Sunday January 23 2005, 2:15 am: Well you should definitely tell your friend cause think about it this way... If your boyfriend was feeling on somebody else and u didnt know it wouldn't u like for your friend to tell you. Especially if all this racial stuff is going on. You wouldn't want him to get hurt so yeah tell her. [ Lil_Chocolate_Boi's advice column | Ask Lil_Chocolate_Boi A Question ]
grl_who_smilez answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:17 am: if you really want my opinion, i think you should tell her but break it to her nicely and try to be gentle about it. Also, make sure you tell her when she's alone-not when shes with other friends, that'll just embarrass her. Encourage her to break up with him- and remember, the sooner you tell her, the better [ grl_who_smilez's advice column | Ask grl_who_smilez A Question ]
RyLei answered Sunday January 23 2005, 12:48 am: I think you should tell your friend. There is no reason why he should be fingering another girl when he is with someone. If you wait and dont tell her, it will hurt you more in the long run.
Hope i helped
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AnDiE answered Sunday January 23 2005, 12:20 am: omggg.. tell him.. ugh.. i hate guys who cheat!! but.. the hole racial thyng has nothyng to do with it [ AnDiE's advice column | Ask AnDiE A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday January 23 2005, 12:12 am: You have to tell your friends. Friends don't keep things a secret, especially something like this. You have to tell her, no question about it. She might be hurt at first, because this guy is probably going to hurt her so much with what he did. But she'll be happy knowing a true friend like you told her this. This will mean so much to her, knowing she has a great friend like you who's there to back her up!
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MADDMAN answered Saturday January 22 2005, 11:57 pm: ...i would deffinitely tell ur friend...She can get seriously hurt from this guy if you dont...Even though guys say they dont always 'just' want to get intoa girls pants, and that they dont dont think with their penis...They do...I know this because im a guy...and yea, i consider myself a good guy, bcuz jsut recently at my friends party, a good-looking girl straight out told me she wanted to have sex with me right then and there, and when i said no, bcuz i have a gf that i love, she did her best to woo me...like, she put a thong in my bag, thinking that would make a diff. And i am proud of myself, because i got her to stop, adn didnt do anythign with her, and even though my gf lives 20 hours away i didnt do anythign with this girl...but every once in a while, even the best of guys will havea moment where he thinks with his dick...and that can hrut ur friend...i know i wrote a loooonnnngggg ass thing here, but basically....tell her :) [ MADDMAN's advice column | Ask MADDMAN A Question ]
drjwlc4 answered Saturday January 22 2005, 11:49 pm: i think you should tell her cuz a true friend looks out for there friend and you dont want her to get hurt cuz you care about her and her boyfriend is a jerk neways as i can see from what you said and i dont know this girl but i can tell that she is to good for him so i think that you should tell her and let her no if she dont believe you then she will find out sooner or later and say sorry for not listing to you then later on she will believe so i hope my advice has worked
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