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I'm Kourtni. I'll answer your questions the best I can, but don't flip out if its a little sarcastic.
E-mail: kutikort@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: the USA
Occupation: straight A student :)
Age: 15
Member Since: July 30, 2004
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my hair is about like 5-6ish inches past my shoulders and im sick of just putting my hair down and half way up.. what are some cute ideas to do my hair.. sites would be apprieciated. my hair is dark dark brown and i have sidebangs

thanks for anyone that helps! (link)
whole ponytail
pigtails in braids
just pigtails
bun
messy bun
clip it up
etc.

i wish i had your hair. mines only like 2 inches below my shoulders and i can't hardly do anything with it.


what are some good ideas on what i can do with my boyfreind when we hang out. like games and stuff. we always just watch movies...and its getting lame.

what are some ideas besides going out too?


xo thanks


ps 16/f (link)
umm twister is a good favorite. plus you're moving and not just sitting moving game pieces around a piece of colored cardboard


I really need to lose weight but I work from 4-9 so when I get home I eat which is bad. I can't eat on my break because it is only 15 minutes long so I can't eat that quick. Should I just skip eating dinner or what? (link)
Eat a plentiful breakfast and lunch. That should hold you over until your work gets over, and then you can munch on a healthy snack. On your break, you could pack a quick snack if you get hungry beforehand.


ok, I have always heard that the air conditioner uses more gas when turned on. Is this true? Does the heater also use more gas? I turned my heater on one morning last week (yeah, middle of summer and i need the heater... maine sucks ass) and I noticed the rpm meter move up a bit when I did, and went down a bit when i turned it back off. This was all while I was still parked in my driveway.

I was also wondering if Cruise control uses less, more, or just the same amount of gas if it's turned on or off.

Is there anything else that uses slightly more gas turned on when I'm driving? (link)
cruise control actually saves gas. some people have a 'lead foot' in which they sometimes press too hard on the gas while its moving.. others have 'feather foot' and they lighten up on the gas pedal so it goes slower. cruise lets you go the same speed without your foot on the petal.

hmm, about the AC and heater, yes i do believe they use more gas, but not THAT much. Not enough to complain about or to turn your heater/AC off.


How come everytime your with a boy and a "sweet" car goes by.. they always know what it is.. how do they fucking know the year of a car and stuff.. i mean there always like oh, thats a 46 blue honda..or whatever i mean honestly how do they know thats the year it was made and ugh i break my cars down into like 3 groups.. bus..car..truck.. its that simple.. o yeah and i mean i know what toyota's and stuff are and like fords but other then that i dont know what a car is unless it states what it is on the back of the car.. wow i really wanna know why they always do this please tell me lolol..
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lol, i'm not a guy, so i woudln't know, but not only guys are like that... i love cars!! my dad is a car spaz, and i guess i learned from him :P i love foreign cars like mitsubishis, mazdas, pontiacs :P I'm looking forward to my Mazda Miata or a Pontiac Vibe :P so its just not the guys its whatever sparks your interest.


alright, i'm hoping to start tennis this fall (its my first of high school). the only problem is that i know i'm going to have a physical to play on the team. well this is super babyish, but i am scared to DEATH of shots. so i was wondering what do they do during a physical? i know they weigh you and measure your height but is that all? i'm almost positive i'm going to need a tetnis shot :( , but do they have to prick my finger or anything? and one more thing, is there any way to get around getting the shot?

thank you so much!
Lana (link)
Usually you have to get a Tetnis shot before you go into kindergarten. All they do is weigh you, measure you, do reflex tests, they checked my hamstrings, feel around on your spine, and a heart beating test. Hope I helped!

Kourtni


hey.. this is my 3rd year of cheerleading and.. im 14 and going to be a freshman in high school this year.. now i honestly think that my new coach has no confedence in me!! i mean yeah.. i ask a lot of questions.. just b/c im a perfectionist and i need to.. but i always try my hardest!!! in fact.. i even overheard my coach saying that she doesnt see me moving up to varsity next year!! now that was pretty crotch of her.. lol seeing as im always working hard. any experienced cheerleaders out there who can help me suprise her by actually MAKING and doing varsity material?? HELP!~
sighned,
wow this sucks ass~ (link)
I've been a cheerleader for two years, and the thing that always seems to impress a coach is gymnastics. Try flips, cartwheels, roundoffs, handsprings, etc.! Stiffness and loudness always gets them too. Straight arms, loud voice, and a bobby ponytail and you're set! lol, well at least for my school :P Hope I helped!


Im looking to lose some weight. I work out to those workout video things..but i get real thirsty. How much water should i drink without gaining all the stuff i burned back again? I appreciate all help..i`ll rate! Thanks

-melissa- (link)
You can drink as much as you want, just as long as it's water. Propel Fitness Water also is very good. Propel gives you the energy you need as well as quenching your thirst. Eat healthy, try to sleep at least 8 hours a day, and burn more calories than you take in, and you're on your way towards a slimmer body! Hope I helped!

Kourtni


sum guy led me on and i liked him for 2 yrs but hes a big ass flirt n he changed a lot i cant talk to him i love him um how do i get over him? PLEASE HELP ME ILL JUST GIVE OUT 5S ILL DO WHATEVER IM IN SERIOUS PAIN I SERIOUSLY CONSIDER CUTTING MYSELF BUT IM TOO SCARED SO IK I WONT PLEASEEEEEE HELP


thanx (link)
Don't cut! if you cut, it will lead to more cutting, and if you cut the wrong part, you may cut an vein. It's very dangerous and pain doesn't take away the problems! To get over him, look at everything bad about him and tell yourself you dont want that. Then start looking for other guys, and I'm sure you'll find one ! Hope I helped !


my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
no good guy will force you to do anything .. this boy is not worth it .. drop him ! if he can't repect your pace, hes not mature enough for you. hope i helped !!

Kourtni


do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~ (link)
There are a ton of weirdos out there. You'll never really know if its the same person until you meet in person. People have died from having "internet buddies". Especially little kid molesters. Having an online relationship is totally fine, I just suggest you see eachother in person before you pursue your relationship.


I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him? (link)
Tell him. If he's worth it, he'll understand. NO good guy what-so-ever will force you to do anything. Tell him you love him, but just feel like taking things at a slower pace, and eventually get to the things he wants to do. If he really loves you, he'll understand. If he doesn't understand, he's not worth it! I really hoped I helped!!

-Kourtni


doing all the excercises ive seen on here no one has said how long it takes to get a 6 pack, sooo. HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO GET A 6 PACK! im male/15 thats fairly slim. (link)
If you don't want to do all the excercises, I suggest you do alot of sports. Sports really helps you get a 6pack. Swimming is probably the best workout for your abs, but football is good too. Sometimes it comes naturally, but sometimes you have to work. If you do alot of excercises it takes about 3 months. If you do alot of sports, maybe 6 weeks. Good luck!

-Kourtni


my b/f's birthday is in the middle of august.. should i get him something since weve only been goin out 4 a lil while (a month)? if so, what in the world do i get him?! (link)
I had the same problem. I ended up not getting him anything, but he didn't care. If he's a good guy, he shouldn't! If you really feel the need to get him something, try burning a cd for him. If you don't have a CD burner, you can always fulfill whatever he wants to do, as long as you agree :P. Hope I helped!!

-Kourtni


I've been having these dreams that are really weird and I don't understand them. First, last night I dreamt that I was being very intimate with this guy. It wasn't anyone that I know, but this is kinda weird but I dreamt that I was kinda having sex. I've dreamt it before and I just don't understand. Maybe you could help me out? Please..these are really bothering me and I've been having them more often now. Also I dreamt that I was going to marry this one guy that I know and he lives far far away from me. But the thing is I barely know him! So I'm confused. I don't exactly want an answer about that dream just the ones where I'm being very intimate. Thanks for your help!, If you need anymore info, IM me at AnnaxBanana45 or email me AnnaBanana146@aol.com *Love Me* (link)
Maybe it was just one crazy weird dream, but considering you've had the dream before with the same guy, it could be something else. Possibly it might be the person you end up spending the rest of your life with. Either that, or you might be having guy hormones that give them those dreams. That is very possible, but it doesn't mean you are a boy. Almost every girl has some type of guy hormone! Well, hope I helped!

-Kourtni


I have a male Australian terrier .last week i got a female in heat so as to mate but when i put them in the kennel together they refused to. Eventually i released them letting them get to know each other but again as my dog tried to get on her back the female sat down and refused to get up. What did i do wrong or if it is not me what could be the reason for this? (link)
Let the dogs get to know eachother. Let them spend sometime alone, so they have some privacy. I don't actually know if this will work, but it's worth a shot. Give them equal attention, and give them alot of alone time. After about a week, try it again, if it still doesn't work, maybe they just don't like eachother.

Hope I helped!!!

-Kourtni


I'm a volleyball player - does anyone know good excercises to work on my jump? (link)
I'm not a volleyball player, but I like to play it for fun. Squat-thrusts are what work best, at least I think. They strengthen the shin muscles, and thats what you use to jump.

Hope I helped!!

-Kourtni




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