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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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hey, i also hang out with people who smoke pot but i don't do it. you don't have to smoke to have fun with these people, as you probably already know. i dont think you should start smoking pot because if you start doing it enough, it could ruin your life. even my friends who do it say not to start, its not as great as people make it out to be..plus, it smells, can cause acne, makes you tired and hungry, and if you get addicted its hard to stop... hope it helped and good luck with everything :)
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im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser? (link)
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no, definatly not!! im 15 too and ive only been kissed by one guy, and it was just a little kiss on the lips. its just that you havent found the right guy yet..you can't rush things like that, and you don't want to kiss somebody just to say you did it, it will be so much better if you find someone you really really like, so the kiss will actually mean something
let me know if it helped / leave one in my inbox if you need anything else :)
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does anyone know a good way to get your jumps better in cheerleading? i practice everyday and nothing seems to be working. help! (link)
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hey, im a cheerleader too and i had the same problem. try to stretch as much as you can... even when your just watching tv or something just sit in a middle split. when your jumping, try to lift through your upper body..if you dont think too much about your legs going high, they will just do it on their own
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I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him? (link)
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i know exactly how you feel, i've dated someone who was way more experienced than me, and you feel wierd...like he expects stuff sexually from you, but if hes moving too fast for you talk to him about and just be like..ok if you really like me and respect me you need to understand i want to take things slow..tell him that you know about the other girls he's been with, and your not like them. if he really loves you he should respect your feelings about moving too fast. but don't be embarrassed..it's what you feel comfortable doing and thats the end of it
let me know if it helped :)
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okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do? (link)
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you need to explain to your mom what you just said... shes he only one that understands you and can help you with your problems, your mom should understand that you need someone like this in your life. if your mom is convinced shes a bad influence, maybe you should ask your mom if you can have her over for a day and prove your mom wrong
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Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?
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if you barely talk to her, then i don't think your really obligated to invite her, and if she has or ever does try to hook up with your boyfriend, then shes not a true friend and you don't deserve someone like that
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yeah well, my friend is having trouble. Her name is samantha and she really likes this kid and wants to have sex with him and she's afraid to tell himh ow she feels. they've been friends for life actually he didnt really start to think of her as a friend until last year.. he actually hated her, but now he finds himself attracted to her to.. i told him to ask her out.. and he said he might and she asked me if he liked her since hes my best friend and all so i would know. But i told her he wouldnt tell me who he liked, should i tell him how he feels and should i tell him how she feels..b.c i mean there not even gonig out and she already wants to have sex with him.. ahh what should i do .. please help me!!!
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if your sure they both like each other, then go for it and try to hook them up (ask her if this is what she really wants before you tell him)... just tell your friend to slow down and not rush into sex too quickly
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ok my ex boyfriend has been talking to me A LOT more then usual and trying to break me and my boyfriend up but my ex boyfriend brok eup with me so why would he wanna break me and my boyfriend up? and do you think my ex likes me?
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your ex has either thought about things and realized he still has feeling for you, or he could be jealous...guys tend to feel insecure when they realize you don't need them to be happy anymore. next time he says something to you about breaking up with your b/f, ask him why its so important to him or why he suddenly changed his mind about you
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okay me and my ex bf broke up about 8 months ago. we were going out for a year, there was a huggeee fall out between the 2 of us and we supposedly "cant stand eachother". atleast thats what i say to make it not look like i still have feeligns for him. whenever i see him he doesnt really talk to him, etc , but when im not around and whenever he sees one of my friends, he ALWAYS asks about me, like how i am and if i have a bf, etc. what do u think hes feeling? do u think he still has feelings for me? (link)
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if he takes his time to ask about you, i'd say he at least still thinks about you. even if he doesnt "like you" anymore, you obviously made an impression on him and he won't forget you. if you want to know if he still has feeling for you, tlak to him about it.. and if thats too hard, try asking one of his close friends if they know anything, just dont hound them and make yourself look desperate...hope it helped and g/l with everything!
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How often a day should you brush your teeth? (link)
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at least twice
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I've been really depressed since i graduated middle school back in june, but its not really obvious to my friends and family. Well, maybe it is, but they don't really ask me about stuff, and let me know that they can tell i'm depressed. I dunno if i'm ever going to feel better, and I just wanted to know if anyone had tips of moving on from a broken heart.
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the best thing to do to get over a broken heart is to surround yourself with your friends...just try to have a good time and eventually you wont feel as much of the hurt. it also helps to tlak to someone about how your feeling or write some of it down in a journal or something.
p.s...its normal to think about the person who broke your heart for a while, sometimes the only thing you can do is cry and let it all out, and i promise, eventually you will find someone new to make you happier than ever
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