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friend might like my bf?


Question Posted Friday July 30 2004, 5:24 pm

Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?


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xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:17 pm:
Well she doesnt seem like that great of a friend if u think shes gonna hook up with ur bf!! I would invite her.. But.. Keep on eye on ur bf.. but most of all on HER!! lol. An easy way would just b with ur boyfriend at almost all times at the party or just ask a friend 2 keep on eye on her!!!! <3<3

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x0x45 answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:09 pm:
if you barely talk to her, then i don't think your really obligated to invite her, and if she has or ever does try to hook up with your boyfriend, then shes not a true friend and you don't deserve someone like that

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BabiiBubbles answered Friday July 30 2004, 8:34 pm:
Well why are you even friends with this girl if you can't even trust her? No I wouldn't invite her you don't want to risk anything, but maybe you do need to test your boyfriend and your friend

Best wishes

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xo_dream answered Friday July 30 2004, 7:46 pm:
You trust your boyfriend, right? And if she's your friend, she's probably not even going to try anything with your boyfriend .. even if she likes him. Talk to both of them beforehand, and things should be alright.

If you really don't want to invite her, then don't, but she's GOiNG to find out that you had a party, and how would you feel if one of your friends had a party and they didn't invite you? I don't know about you, but I'm pretty sure it'd make me feel like total crap.

Do whatever *YOU* want to do, though.

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Friday July 30 2004, 6:20 pm:
if your not going to have a good time with her there, don't go out with her. IF your not going to have a good time with out her there, invite her. Do whatever is going to make you have a good time.

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xOxrerexOx answered Friday July 30 2004, 6:15 pm:
If you think she is gonna try something with your boyfriend i wouldnt trust her , so i dont think you should invite her. But if you wanted to invite her you can talk to her about it , and maybe she will back off a little. Hope I helped =)

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:52 pm:
I think you should invite her, but TALK to her about your fears first. Explain to her that you know she had a crush on your boyfriend, and ask her if she still does.
If she does, continue. Explain to her that you WANT to invite her to your party, but you're afraid that if you do she'll try to hook up with your boyfriend. Ask her if she's willing to go to your party without trying anything, or something along those lines.
The best think you can do is talk it out with her. I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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soljette answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:46 pm:
well you can invite her, and if she tries messing with your dude, beat the bitch the fuck up.

or just dont invite her at all. save the stress

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LilMia811 answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:37 pm:
Well as long as you trust your boyfriend it shouldn't matter whether she is there or not. But if you really think she will make a move on him and something will start between you and her then just avoid it and don't invite her.

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*ashlee* answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:33 pm:
nope..dont invite her. its your party and her being there is just going to make you uncomfortable. and like u said u guys barley talk. just let it go. if she asks u about it after the party tell her the truth..or just tell her the truth now maybe u two should talk about it.

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CheerMMS24 answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:31 pm:
If you know your boyfriend won't do anything with her, then he won't let her hook up with him. If hes really a good boyfriend and won't hurt you, you have nothing to worry about. And if shes a true friend, she wouldn't do that. I think if you don't get to talk to her much you should invite her, friends last... but relationships don't ALWAYS last.

I hope I helped!

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<3 megan

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Sexybabii9095 answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:31 pm:
how is she a friend if you think shed hurt you like that? and you said you trust your bf didnt you,dont invite her if you think shes really gonna hurt you, i woudlnt risk it, unless you talked to her abouut it

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ButterflyKissxx3 answered Friday July 30 2004, 5:28 pm:
Well if your there she won't try and pull anything. I think you should invite her so you can show her how much your boyfriend means to you, and if she's your friend she wouldn't wanna hurt you or jeopordize your and your bopyfriends relationship. Good Luck! <3

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