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tough lover
okay so there is this boy that i went out with b4 as friend he was really rough like we always wrestled and stuff and i just thought it was his way of flirting so i let it go when he asked me out i said yes cuz i thought the rought stuff would cool down but it didnt and that lead to a break-up. but now i really miss him. and i found out he likes me back and so i really wanna go out wit him again but im scared that hes still just as rough with me! how can i get him to treat me more gentle and not like"one of the boiz"?
please help me asap!
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well i say...just sit down and talk with him and tell him u dont want to be treated roughly...???
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Tell him you want to give it another try but you need him to stop being so rough and treat you like you are his lady.
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If you guys are planning on going back out before that you should tell him how you feel and tell him that you arent one of the boys and that he shouldnt be that rough with you , that you guys can still do the same stuff but tell him to remember you are a girl. Hope I helped!
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If he's physically abusing you, you shouldn't go out with him. If its just like cute little arm punches and stuff in good intention that you don't like, tell him. But really, if he's hurting you, like hitting you when he's mad, don't date him at all.
Good luck
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Maybe all you need is to tell him that he really needs to be gentle with you. Just tell him what you want.
Sounds like a communication problem to me. He's gotta know that he can't treat you as one of the boys, if he's hurting you. Be careful about it, though. If he doesn't get gentler, I'd break it off. Rough guys can be dangerous.
Hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Well first off you should tell him you like him. Probably being ruff is his way of flirting just tell him you don't like it when he hits you, that you want him to be more affectionate. That will probably give him the hint to stop. Good Luck! <3
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come on girl just tell him! boys are thick headed (no offence men) if you dont tell him you wanna be treated nice and sweet, then he wont, some guys want a girl that will just be one of the guys, but you dont want that! so tell him or if he goes to do it just say kiss me instead lol. ive never hadda bf like that, but to rough is too rough sometimes
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Guys do tend to do that a lot to many people. Just tell him that you don't like to be so rough with him and that you aren't one of the boys. If he gets offended then tell him that it wasn't his fault, but you just kinda feel uncomfortable when he is too rough. good luck :)
I hope i Helped!
<3Megan
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