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moving too fast
I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him?
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Tell him ur not ready and u wanna take things slow!! If he doesnt stick around then hes not worth ur time.. and u shouldnt b with a guy who is pressuring u into things!! Take ur time!! <3 <3!
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Well.. all i can tell you is to be yourself. And try and talk to him about how you feel about taking it to the next level or leaving it where it is. Confide in him and everything should go smoothly if he really does love you.
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Tell him. If he's worth it, he'll understand. NO good guy what-so-ever will force you to do anything. Tell him you love him, but just feel like taking things at a slower pace, and eventually get to the things he wants to do. If he really loves you, he'll understand. If he doesn't understand, he's not worth it! I really hoped I helped!!
-Kourtni
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telll him you want to take it slow and if he doesn't listen. and he pushes his self on u and u don't like it get 2 friends to beat him up for u
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hey,please dont try to be like his other gfs.You know how fast or slow you wanna go.you have to tell him how you feel.If he doesnt accept that then maybe he doesnt repsect you enough.just dont
rush into anything you dont want to okay..
best of luck girl
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I am in the same situation. U had better talk to him before u do something u regret. I let my boyfriend do too much, and now I regret the past week. If u dont talk to him, hes gunna keep trying to pressure u into something, and you will most likely give in to the pressure! DONT DO IT!! SAVE YOURSELF UNTIL YOUR READY! YOU WILL REGRET EVERY MOMENT OF IT IF U DONT!
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Jeanine
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if hes movin too fast 4 u u should say somethin 2 him. if he loves u hell understand. if he loves u hell slow down n wait til ur ready 4 the next step.
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i know exactly how you feel, i've dated someone who was way more experienced than me, and you feel wierd...like he expects stuff sexually from you, but if hes moving too fast for you talk to him about and just be like..ok if you really like me and respect me you need to understand i want to take things slow..tell him that you know about the other girls he's been with, and your not like them. if he really loves you he should respect your feelings about moving too fast. but don't be embarrassed..it's what you feel comfortable doing and thats the end of it
let me know if it helped :)
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one day when your with me ask him: do you respect me? and he says yes then tell him how you feel im sure he would understand if he said he respected you.
hope i helped
**haweee**
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tell him just because he is experienced doesn't mean you're ready to be yet, and you are not like his old gfs, you want to take things slow... if he can't accept that forget him, he's a jerk... and don't feel bad or let him pressure you into doing anything... be proud that you are a good girl and not a whore
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tell him your not ready to do more things. he should understand and then stop.
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