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idno wat to do?
okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do?
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ok first of all you should try to see it from your mothers point of veiw.. have u changed a lot from wen u first became friends?? n r u sure this friend is true?? have u heard rumors or lies?? if soo u really should check around cuz mayb shes not soooo great after all!? cuz ppl do talk shit.. its a fact of life :-/ unfortunetly we learn it too late! xox; i think u shuld try to distance urself from ur friend.. n try to make new friends.. hope i helped xox
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you need to explain to your mom what you just said... shes he only one that understands you and can help you with your problems, your mom should understand that you need someone like this in your life. if your mom is convinced shes a bad influence, maybe you should ask your mom if you can have her over for a day and prove your mom wrong
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Well what you need to do is jsut go with it dont do the stuff she does and your mom CANNOT control who you hang out with it dosnt matter if there bad because you dont do the stuff she does so tell her to forget about it shes your friends YOU DONT CHOOSE HOO UR MOM HANGS OUT WITH soo why should she!
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im totally not trying to sound like a mom right now, but alota times our parents are right about friends, etc...like last yr i had a really close friend and 4 some reason my mom REALLY didnt like her, etcet...tha girl did like nothing wrong or nething, my mom juswt had like a really bad feeling buot her, then tha next yr we g0t in a fight and she TOTALLY backstabbed me adn spread rumors bout me... is there nethinhg in specific ur mom doesnt like bout her?
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does your mom have any reason at all for hating her? and does your friend know that your mom hates her? if she really doesnt have a reason, then you should have all three of you go out for dinner or something to talk everything out. if she's good enough to be your friend, then she cant be a bad person. if your mom refuses, just tell her "fine then, you can pay for my therapy sessions that i need because no one else understands me" that will probably get her.
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tell ur mom that shes not a bad influence and shes the greatest friend ever and that she should try and take some time to relize that or ask her to give ur friend sometime.
hope i could help...
<3 katie
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tell ur mom wut u just sed.. shes about the truest friend u have and u dont no wut u'd do without her.. tel ur mom u dont understand why she wood think shes a bad influence but shes not bad at all .. tel ur mom if she wants u to have good friends, ta let u have this one -_' hope i helped<3
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I know exactly what your going through because my mom thinks the same thing about one of my closest friends. Its a tough rode to go down because whenver you get the oppurtunity to do something with that friend your chances are takin away by your mom. My friend and me are still really close, but everytime i try to say good things about her my mom always finds something wrong and makes her look bad once again. We still talk on the phone until 3 in the morning without my parents knowing and sometimes if i'm lucky my mom lets me go to her house...but dont worry soon she might grow on your mom, but you have to keep thinking positive!!! I know its not the best advice but you could even try talkin to your mom cuz u never know wat could happen!
PS: Whats your name(username or your real one doesnt matter)Just send it as a question lol
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Tell your mom that she is the only one that can help you through things. Tell her how much you care about your friend & Tell her that you wont do the things she is doing ( the things that are making your mom think she is a bad influence ).
megan.
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Why does your mom think she is a bad influence? Is she? Does she do bad influencing things?
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