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Question Posted Saturday July 31 2004, 9:59 pm

do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

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KmM17 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:26 am:
no thats not okay! have you watched the news and stuff?.. girls talk to guys online thinking that their age.. they could send you pictures but you never know, it might not even be them. they could be like a 50 year old guy. and why would you date somebody you dont know in the first place?

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xo_dream answered Sunday August 1 2004, 12:54 am:
I wouldn't do it, because you DON'T know for sure that that's them, or that they're telling the truth about anything, pretty much. Plus, they can be doing whatever the heck the want outside of your "relationship", because the other person has no way of knowing. I personally wouldn't do it, but I guess if it's your kinda thing ..

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raushelle answered Sunday August 1 2004, 12:00 am:
I think it depends what age you are.... My opinion is its not crazy at all. I mean its just a form of meeting people.... aint nothin wrong with that.

((I prolly wouldnt depend my life on it right when i met them))


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MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:29 pm:
Dude itz sorta scary. u never know if they r lying bout all tha stuff. i mean itz cool if u dont tell them 2 much info. like where u live exactly and stuff like that. u definity shuddnt depend ur life on them!!
Xo I hOpE i HeLpEd oX

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xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:28 pm:
Well I personally wouldn't have one.. But I dont think its bad at all, If you feel you can trust the person do it!! Maybe you can even meet the person (if u do.. please bring sum1 along with u so u arent hurt in neway and we no ur safe!!) I think that they very good for people who dont really want a commitment.. Although I do no of a couple who met online and actually wed!! :0) *YaY!* So there is a possibilty that it will work out!! Basically do what you feel is right.. If you want to have an online relationship have it!! It doesnt matter wat ne1 else says!! As long as u Stay Safe!! :0) <3<3<3

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:21 pm:
to be honest, SO many ppl have online relationshipz. take my sister who is now 19 and in college. when she was 17, she had her first "real" relationship that lasted one year. how did she meet him? ONLINE, he even moved from i think New Jersey or somewhere to live closer to her. sO i definetly think its possible and not too weird, it just depends on each situation i guess..juss always be careful.
hope this helps..
kristin

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Sweetie2oo4 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:21 pm:
aww hun..i know you might think you know him really well and he sent you a picture..but ok think..how do you know he's not lying to you and that picture may not even be his..9/10 it's some old dirty man trying to get a girl..my friend almost completely ruined her life because of an online relationship..the guy told her he was 16 and sent her a real hot picture and she went and gave him her number..well he looked her up online and got her address and came to her house and harrassed the family to the point they had to press charges and get mad restraining orders..not only did he lie and was really like 40 sumin..but she got in big trouble for even talking to him...stuff like that happens all the time..if you continue to talk 2 him just be careful! i wouldn't make that your main relationship cause i mean its just online and its not as much fun as dating some1 for real..but be safe..have fun..if you wana talk i'm here =) ..xO`lexi..[plz rate]

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BabY bOo 202 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:19 pm:
um...no

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xObriannaOx answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:01 pm:
there are alot of weirdos out there and you never kno, the pic he says is him could be any picture of a guy you can get off the internet! Dont make any plans to meet up with him or anything yet. And dnt get to clingy!!! He could play you online wit other gurls to so be alarmed! hope everything works out! : )

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ALdance77 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:00 pm:
you should keep this relationship a friendship. in awhile, if you still have strong feelings for him, than you could consider taking the relationship to the next level depending on how far apart you guys live, and if your parents would be OK with you meeting a "stranger" . but for now, just have fun talking to someone who won't judge you. and no, never depend your life on him! ;)
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xoxox
annie

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lilillini answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:57 pm:
There are a ton of weirdos out there. You'll never really know if its the same person until you meet in person. People have died from having "internet buddies". Especially little kid molesters. Having an online relationship is totally fine, I just suggest you see eachother in person before you pursue your relationship.

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:54 pm:
i've been through that...IT DONT WORK...just have fun!!!!....trust me! xoxo effy...if anything else holla

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Jane answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:54 pm:
*No, online relationship is NOT okay! Many girls show up missing from meeting people on the internet. You may not know that the pictures you see could be fake and a nasty pervert is using them trying to talk to you and tell you what you want to hear. When he asks you to meet him DON'T. I just hope you realize how dangerous online dating can be..*

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exyweetee99 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:37 pm:
in my opinion i would not have a relationship on line...even if u see pics..

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brit_430762004 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:32 pm:
are you stupid?........What are you thinking?....That is so dangerous. You should stop ASAP. What you are doing is risking your life. You should stop!!!!!!!......hope that helps

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MainMan2230 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:20 pm:
In my opinion an online relationship is usally just that an ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. Yea there great you no becouse you can ask them questions and exspect an honest answer, becouse they dont no you as well. As for depending your life on it i would say no. The two of you just dont have the chemistry you and a friend would have that you see everyday. HoPe I cOuLd HeLp

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:19 pm:
I don't think its crazy, but I wouldn't depend my life on him. I mean if you know its really him, I would trust him a lot and call him like my best friend, but don't make this kid you're everything, you might get hurt at the end.

xoxo Kourtney

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Sexybabii9095 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:18 pm:
you can fall in love with online guys very easily, have you ever talked to him on the phone? as long as youve seen multipal pictures, it usally means its really him, but trusting someone with your life from online? idk about that, not like you'd ever have to though, but relationships with them are cool, because at least you two like eachother for your personality

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boricuamami2014 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:17 pm:
well its notthe best thing in the whole wide world but i wouldnt depend my life on that one person that u just met online u never know he might be a rappist or a physco

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soljette answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:17 pm:
online relationships are dumb. what can you possibly get out of it?

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:15 pm:
No, i've done it before, its not a great idea. You don't know if thats really his picture or if he just found it on the internet one day. YOU should really meet this guy before you date him online.

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hErEtoheLp answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:15 pm:
I definatly don't think it's that good of an idea. You know how it goes.. "you don't know, it may not be him" "it could be this 70 year old rapist man", or even a 10 year old boy.
And you really won't get what you want out of that sort of relationship, the intimate parts, the just being with him part, ect.

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xbella_47 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:12 pm:
h0nestly..no, i d0n`t think it`s right...i think 0nline datinq is completely fake...but it`s all up t0 y0u..h0pe i helped* xox maria

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LilMia811 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:10 pm:
personally i think it is dumb... what are you gonna do give him a virtual blow job? email him some cootchie? 4real think about it?

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