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to old?!
im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~
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I must agree. With what the other said. My OWN boyfriend is 2 1/2 years older then me and so far no one even CONSIDERED calling me a whore or a slut.
I warn you though a lot of older guys might try and take advantage of you, some aren't as mature as you think. But nevertheless, go for it hun. If it works out, well, then it does!
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Yeah, it's more important what you want than your friends. You shouldn't let them control what you want. And why would you be called a whore? I know a bunch of couples who have about 1 - 3 years between them and their not called whores. But yeah, people will assume because their nosy and all. lol.
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hey,
its not like hes 20 years older then u. its not that big of a dill if hes only 2 or 3 years older
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yea its definatley more importanat waht u want than wat ur friends think. besides if theyre ur friends theyll understand that u want sum1 more mature and theyll be ok with it. dont just block out what they say if theyre trying to help, but if they just dont want u to date an older guy then ignore them. two yrs isnt that big of a diff..besides the fact the dudes more grown up. if u feel u need sum1 older than go for it..just dont get into any of that illegal stuff and be careful u dont want to wind up being used and hurt.
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O my Gosh date a guy 1 or 2 years older then you if you really like him but if your friends say n e thing there just jealouse of you and don't pay any attion to them
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okay amy,
maybe u shud juzt go for a guy that u like, no matter if hez ur age, or older. juzt go 4 tha guy that makes u smile and tha one u find to love. u dont have 2 plan wut age u perfer!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole
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I don't think its really a big deal on how old the guy is, age is just a number.. and a year or two isn't really a big deal. My dad is 3 years older than my mom. I mean like you said, don't worry about what other people think, you like him and he likes you and you know you're not a whore and your friends know you're not a whore too. Who cares what other people think, its your relationship not theres! So, I wouldn't worry about it.
xoxo Kourtney
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No if its only a few years older then no.I am older then my boyfriend by a year.
x0x Jamielynn
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see thats ok if you dont just get with him and start doing stuff with him just take it serious at first if u really like him.
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Going out with an older guy would be great for you becouse as you said he would be more mature. But (theres always a but) Just make sure you dont let this older guy persaude you into anything your not ready for like drinking, sex, drugs,ect... And as for your friends and what they think. If there true friends they understand that the reason your doin this is to further benifit yourself. And if they dont think that then either one of two things is present, A. they were never really your friends
B. There just jealous cause an older guy would want to go out wit them.
HOpe i could help
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ur not a whore if you date somone a couple yrs older then you...and there is really nothing wrong w/ it...if ur friends have a problem w/ it then jst tell thme that you want someone thats more mature and not some lil 5yr old acting boys! i've dated guys that where older then me but none of my friends had prblems w/ it bC they dated older guys to...plus the guys i like are more my style and there also older but idk...got off track for am in... but there is nothing wrong w/ dateing an older dude!
hope i helped...let me know!
~b
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No! It's totally fine to date an older guy! I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Not one person has ever said anything to me. Just as long as he's a year or two older, then you'll be fine! I don't think it's slutty at all. Make yourself happy girl! Don't try to please others. :o)
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who cares hwat people think... age is just a number.. if you like him go for him.
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go for the older guys they are more mature you shouldnt care what other people think just think about what you want...they only problem with the older guys is they might be ready for more then you are...if you get what i mean
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YES! it is WAY important what you want then what your friends say..if you want a older guy two years older, then get one or if you want a guy your age, get a guy your age, whatever you want girl to make you happy...good luck :)
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Your friends will love you for who you are, not who you date. And besides, why would you care what your friends think if you really love the guy? Don't date anyone for their age either, cuz thats weird. Date them because you love them.
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One or two? wow i've gone a few years over that before. It's not bad, nor is it even iilegal, it's true too, most girls rather older men, because they want someone who is mature, since girls naturally mature quicker then men. People won't think its wrong, since alot of people do it!
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exactly. dont worry about how others would view you. and your basically right, younger guys are immature.
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