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i don't feel it
ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
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Nothing is wrong with you it's just that your.. "you know" is still tight and not used to it yet.. if u want it to feel good.. u gotta keep doing it.. BUT you'd be better off just to like.. not have sex till you married.. your way to young to be having sex!
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nothing's wrong with you. of course it's going to hurt for the first few times you do it, especially at such a young age. the more you do it the less it hurts, but please don't take that as me telling you it's ok to go out and have sex. but, when you do decide to have sex again, it shouldn't hurt as much, and each time you do it it should hurt less and less. hope that helped
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wut the freak u were 12!! damnn when i was 12 the last thing on my mind was havin sex lol i thought abut that when i was 13 lol
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Okay, you're going to have to have sex more than twice for it to stop hurting most likely. You aren't experienced so it might be the way you're having sex. Try different positions. Try different condoms... like Trojan Her Pleasure condoms. Try different lubes... and have sex with some one experienced who can be gentle. If after all that and you've had sex 20 times and don't like it, well... you might be a lesbian or you might just hate sex. But I'm doubt it. Don't stress too much. Maybe you just need some kinky toys, lol.
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Nothing is wrong with you, hun. It can hurt for a few more times before it ever feels normal or good.
I hurt for the first few times as well but now it is pretty much normal. But your body will go through a series of changes that may lead to good feeling sex or painful sex...
Truthfully it all kind of depends what time of the month you are at(like during ovulation, period, in between...).
Don't worry it is totally normal.
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There are a few reasons it might not feel good. First, your vagina is very small - sex hurts the first few times, but you're right..it usually starts feeling better during sex.
At 12 or 13, your body is not producing the right sort of hormones - you are not through puberty, and your body does not give you the same sort of drives or full capacity to enjoy sex.
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To make sex not really hurt, you gotta really get in the mood. Kiss your boyfriend and do little extra stuff like that while you're having sex. That way you can ignore the pain and it's okay. Nothin to worry bout.
*Randy T*
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well maybe you should ask what is wrong wiht him..he not giving you enough time to well..get aroused..but...and here is where i am a super nerd..is this what you want..to be having unfulling sex...at your age...Seems to me your b/f is the only one having a good time
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nothing is wrong ur just tight and probly shouldnt be having sex but that is only an openion
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yeh for most girls it does hurt the first time and maybe even a few more...u probably got nervous and yer muscles tightened up..that happens alot...but just HaVve fUnNn iiTz nuttin to werry about*
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haha... There is nothing wrong with you. It hurts at first. But after a few times it will stop. And when it does you will find it to be much more enjoyable.
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Hey hun,
I'm not going to lecture you because I assume you know that 12 is a very young age to have sex. To answer your question quite frankly, losing your virginity is obviously gonna hurt because the guy is breaking your hymen but if you're really nervous or unsure it will hurt no matter whether you've had sex 1 or 1000 times. When you're unsure about having sex, your muscles tighten up and the guy will hurt you when he enters you. So what I suggest for the future is not to have sex outside a stable relationship with anyone you don't trust, and even then, always use contraception to keep safe. Then you won't have to worry about STDs, pregnancy etc and you won't be as nervous so you will be able to enjoy the experience! :-)
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You should not be having sex at age 12 or 13, whatever. You can't expect it to feel good when you haven't really hit maturity. It isn't good to have sex to early, and plus just don't do it. Guys will look at you as being easy, and it would make your life living hell.
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Sweeie you are too young to be doing it, the penis is probably too big for your vagina and that is why it isnt feeling good. maybe if you need the pleasure do it to yourself dont do it with another guy until after you have your period ok I hope that helped.
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You had sex when you were 12? wow thats kinda slutty
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the thing thats wrong with yu is that YOUR 12 OR 13! Yu whore.
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im sorry but that is just wrong you were 12!!! whats wrong with the world? ok well u are not use to it yet thats why it hurts
hope i helped
x'z n o'z
peace
Lia
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Well if you have only done it 2 times then your not use to it. If it hurt supersuper bad the first time then you just have to wait till a couple times after to make it feel good.
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wats wrong with u?hmmmm let me think. did u ever think u were like WAY 2 young 2 have sex? damn younger people have no common sense what so ever when it comes to things like that.
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You're way too young... and It takes more than 2x to have sex until it stops hurting. It took me like 5 or 6 times until it stopped hurting. I suggest you wait until you're older to have sex.
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okay, first of all... you shouldn't have had sex at 12... that is way to young. i'm sure you've heard people tell you this before but it's true. Well since it hurts maybe you've learned your lesson so you won't do it again..
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Nothing is wrong with you. First of all, yes, it's suppossed to hurt your first time, and the whole way through. And it will hurt your 2nd and 3rd maybe too. With me it wasn't really spaced out, and it begun to feel good. Now the way you make it sound it was a while coming before you had sex again. So it's going to hurt again. Anyways, the first couple of times it hurts, but your body gets used to it, and it starts to feel really, really good.
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12??? omg ur crazy! sorry but listen.. your 2 young.
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nuttins wrong w. u its supposed 2 hurt teh 1st few times ur body is gettin stretched down there so yea its goin 2 hurt dont worry urself botu ti 2 much
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whats wrong! U WERE 12!!! ur body isnt fully developed yet and not ment to handle that! u might think sex before marriage is ok, but u gotta realize that havin sex at 12 yrs old, thats huge! and not a good thing...would you be able to handle a baby!?! cuz it happens more often than not! and you need to realize that sex is sapsto bond u and ur husband make you closer, its not ment for you and your boyfriend, and nothing is wrong w/ you, its your body sayin somin is wrong here, so i think you need to rethink this whole havin sex thing, and realize the dangers of this....STD's, unplanned pregnancy, there is way more to it than you think....trust me, im 15, and i dont knowif i could ever handle a baby at the age of 15, let alone 12 or 13
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dont worry hun, its perfectly normal. it hurts for lots of people. it takes about 3-5 times to get used to it, i heard from my friend. you're just probably tight down there. get fingered lol =) ... well be safe girl & have fun!! *xo - angie *
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Oh sweetheart, I feel your pain - quite literally. It didn't stop hurting for me until, like, the fourth time I had sex. If the guy's big and you're small (since you were 12, I imagine you were) it hurts a LOT. Think about how much you have to stretch down there to accomodate his size. That's a lot. It hurts even more if you're not stretched out at all - like if you don't use tampons, or never finger yourself or anything, you're gonna be small down there.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. You're just young, and small. It'll stop hurting when you stretch out. Trust me on that one.
Hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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