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I want to kill myself..i need some advise! Thanks
I don't know why in the world you would ever want to kill yourself.. but don't!! There is NEVER a big enough reason to give away your life. God put you on earth to live your life fully not to end it as soon as you can and leave others behind in pain that care so much about you.. please don't kill yourself seriously. It is NOT worth it. You need to go to counciling if you really think about killing yourself sometimes because thats a serious conflict. Hope it goes well.. let me know. Please talk to someone about your problem cause its a Life or Death situtation..
i've liked this guy for over 3 years (pathetic right?) and since the start of the school year, he's been flirting with me like crazy and vise-versa. Now ur probably thinking, "then what's the problem?" right? the problem is that all of a sudden, a girl that i know, i think she likes him, and he likes her. They talk a lot and he's made suggestions that he might possibly like her. I just can't see anyone liking her though. she's a year younger than us but in the same grade, and everyone thinks of her as a little sister. I don't know what to do!!! she's always been very snooty to me and i think she's doing it just to annoy me. ever since she's been talking to the guy that i like, she has made crude remarks to me and i just don't know how to deal with her!!! she's known that i've liked him for ages, and last year she would tell everyone at the lunch table who she liked...except for me. I think it was because she liked him at the same time I did. she's been acting like a real jerk to her and i know i shold fight fair despite how she's acting, but i just can't. What shoul i do about her? what should i do about him? they all sit in a big group in this one class we have together..with the rest of my friends. how can i sit there and pretend everything is ok? i'm so confused and i really need someone's help. thanks... btw, i'm 14 and in the 8th grade
wow.. okay i sort of have the same problem that you do. but anyways, i have advice for you but it's going to take me a really long time to write it so i'm going to reply back in just a minute.. don't worry i'll try and hurry. by the way who is this, you don't have to tell me just curious
Okay, I know that there have been many questions on the subject, but I looked, and I haven't found any other question/answers that were helpful. Okay, well here goes. I've gotten so addicted to cutting, that lately I've been doing it in class. I even cut my initials into my skin. Well today I got caught, and I was telling a friend about it, and my 4th period teacher heard. Well after the test in that class, she called me into the hall because we were allowed to do anything, and I got out a needle, and when that teacher saw she called me out. Then she was all like you know what you do is dangerous and stuff, and I was like yes... and she said other stuff like I care about you, and want you to stop, and I was like yeah, whatever. Well, now I really want to stop, but I can't it's like I'm addicted. I want to end my life, yet I want to live. And so now, I don't know how to stop. And I would bring it up to one or both of the teachers that know, but I wouldn't know how to bring it up, and I'm afraid that they would tell my parents, and my parents wouldn't sympathize, they would get really mad, trust me I know. So I was wondering, how might I get over this addiction, and if I were to tell the teacher that I need help, then how would I bring it up. What would you do to get help, and if you were to ask a teacher for help, what would you say. And if you were a cutter, but no longer cut, I'd like to hear your stories, no matter how long! Thanks a bunch!
Sorry it's so long, but I'm really worried about how far I might take this.
wow okay.. this is really long and i don't have a lot of time at the moment but i'll make to time you give you at least some advice.. okay well i've never really been in this situation and i'm sure i have no idea what your going through but some advice**
1.Throw away all your needles or anything that you cut with.
2. Get some rubberbands and wear them on your wrist and when you get mad or upset instead of cutting just pull the rubberbands and snap yourself with them and also when you do that and think of cutting it should hurt so you'll think of cutting as hurting. I saw this stratagie on Degrasssi.. it seemed to work.
3. If the rubberband thing doesn't help.. then go need to go to a colsuler at your school asap!! and you really need to tell your parents, i know you don't want to but you may be surprised how much they wanna help and care for you. If you don't wanna do any of that, just let me know and i will help you or find someone who will help you.
Let me know how it goes.
my sn is: king11591
if you ever want to talk. Good luck babe!
two of my best friends go to the same school... i dont...... they always hang out and never call me anymore!!!!They used to call me every weekend.... They dont call me anymore!!!Why??? And if my parents go out with their parents and i see them then they act like they never saw eachother that day but they did.bc they didnt invite me........Help does anyone noe why??????
hey, uhhm well talk to them and explain to them how you feel... maybe you did something to hurt or make them mad.. just try and work it all out and if dont want to.. maybe they aren't really your friends.. good luck tell me how it goes, love ya!
southlake is so much cooler than colleyville we beat everyones asses in football #1 IN THE NATION BABY!!!!!!!
ahah okay? i never said that colleyville was any better than southlake. I think southlake is awesome- there isn't anything wrong with it. And yes i know you have a really good football team and i know our team suckss. ahaah by the way... who is this!?
ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
ahah aww your so cute. Okay, well it means that he likes you of course.. and to call him!! So just give him a ring and talk about it to him and don't worry about calling- if he didn't want u to call, he wouldn't have put his number in your phone! Good Luck babe! let me know how it goes!!
ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Okay, this is a really serious problem! You need to tell someone asap. At least tell your parents or her parents and a consuler. My friend Jodie just killed herseld about a month ago.. and trust me you don't wanna go throught that. It's awful. Just do me and your friend a favor and get her some help right now before she takes it too far... tell me how it goes! i'm always here to talk to you... and you're friend might be mad at you at first for telling but in the end she is will thank you for saving her life, it just shows what i good friend you are.
I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor).
use twiwers or nair... aha sry i can't spell..
How do you know when your in love?
well, i'm sure you've heard of the saying..
can't eat, can't sleep.. blah blah blah.. so on
Well if he is always on your mind of course you like him! but when you love someone... you get this wonderful feelings... if you think you love him then you dont. trust me i know its confusing but you will know when you love someone
ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
okay, first of all... you shouldn't have had sex at 12... that is way to young. i'm sure you've heard people tell you this before but it's true. Well since it hurts maybe you've learned your lesson so you won't do it again..
I have taken an overdoes bcoz of my exs engagement. I hated being in hospital. And i promised my mum i'd never do it again but resently ive felt low enough too. i dont know how to stop myself. my life is spining outa control what am i gona do?
okay.. first of all, don't overdose!!! It's awful for you and it will not help- i promise. It might seem like the only thing to do at times but it's not. Try talking to someone and your mom and if that doesn't work go to a therapist. But don't try and handle this on your own.. you need help and i'm here for you every step of the way!!
in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
There is nothing wrong with you... just try and be more positive... first of all i know it's hard but stop cutting, it's not good for you. It won't help you it just makes you feel more inscure in the long run. And if your skinny it's not your fault... being skinny isn't a bad thing. Trust me, just listen when people tell you that you're beautiful and don't cut... just think as yourself highly and don't let people bring you down. A positive atitude is the first key.
hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself?
Just tell the guy your feelings... he should understand and if not then he isn't worth your time!