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HELP!! My friend might kill herself!!!


Question Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 5:05 pm

ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???

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P4TH3T1Cx1426 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 8:09 pm:
tattletale TELL.

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DrAgOnChEeRlDr00 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 12:02 pm:
you need to tell some1.. would u rather have a friend dead or people making fun of you for doing the right thing! plus if i was you i would tell someone because i care about my friends and not what other ppl say or do to me! if u told the other ppl should go along with u and encourage u that u should tell!! hope ive helped.. marissa

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xoshaneyney3283 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 11:20 am:
you should definetly tell someone before she does kill her self! Don't matter about what others say you r not tattletaleing you r trying to save your friends life.

good luck! Hope i helped!

xoshaneyney3283

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orphans answered Sunday November 7 2004, 12:11 am:
ok, is it better to be a tattletale or to let your friend get hurt? you need to talk to your parents, her parents, and even teachers/counselors at your school IMMEDIATELY to get her to stop! even though she may not be happy at first, she will thank you in the end.

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Jordan159 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 11:58 pm:
Okay, this is a really serious problem! You need to tell someone asap. At least tell your parents or her parents and a consuler. My friend Jodie just killed herseld about a month ago.. and trust me you don't wanna go throught that. It's awful. Just do me and your friend a favor and get her some help right now before she takes it too far... tell me how it goes! i'm always here to talk to you... and you're friend might be mad at you at first for telling but in the end she is will thank you for saving her life, it just shows what i good friend you are.

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LoLo2454 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 10:50 pm:
Dont worry about what other people think! Which is more important? Your friends LIFE? Or your reputation? Its no contest for me...

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cutiepie12335 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 10:32 pm:
go to a counsler, counslers will keep your name anamous, and no one even has to know that u went down there, tell ur counsler u want ot meet before or after school, possibly lunch, and if ppl ask where u were just say u had some business to take care of, but its serious, ive had a couple friends like that, and its worth it in the long run! better to have someone still be alive and be mad at you than them being dead and you regrett not tellin anyone....ya know?

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XoKGoX answered Saturday November 6 2004, 9:07 pm:
think about this... would you rather have your alive and mad at you .... or dead. thats harsh but true. let her know you care and please for the good of your friend.... GET HER SOME HELP!

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vanna answered Saturday November 6 2004, 9:07 pm:
not tryin to be mean but tel her to stop or jus say sum its either save yur frendslife that u care about and u get calld a tatle tale for a couple of days or u dont tell and u lose a frend and be called stupid for the rest of yur life. u chose

vanna

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PerkyPeacock answered Saturday November 6 2004, 8:58 pm:
COUNSELING! now! tell someone, please! have it be anonymous. send a note, an email, carrier pigeon, anything.

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OcherryfaerieO answered Saturday November 6 2004, 7:55 pm:
I would anomously leave talk to your school counselor! they can help.. and if you want your identity to remain confidential then just ask them! She might be doing it just for attention, and might not actually kill herself, but still you need to tell someone! as a good friend you should protect your friend! Hope this helps!

~Kayla

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KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Saturday November 6 2004, 7:47 pm:
when you go to tell someone, make sure they keep your name annoymous. that way, no1 knows about it and she will not die.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 7:32 pm:
well write a note to like a counsolar or something and just sign it annomaniss or whatever however you spell that word but that way nobody new it was u

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