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in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?
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*deeply troubled*
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go to a counsler, it doesnt mean that your crazy if you go to one... they can help you find stategies to stay calm and not as depressed... hope i helped!
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r u depressed all the time? if you are there r drugs no on the market that can reverse this. they send signals into your brain that help you feel happy again. it is perfectly normal to feel depressed. it is important that you tell someone like your mom, dad, guardian, school teacher or whoever. get help and you will be ok.
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dear deeply troubled,
im srry to hear that. u need to talk to someone about this. someone u can trust. and i would assume that it should be ur mother or father. if u not careful u will kill urself. srry
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talk to ur friends. tell them how u feel. go to a school councler they always help. just dont cut. i know it makes you feel so much better inside but ur not gonna like the scars on ur arms. believe me i was a passed cutter. try to keep yourself busy. dont think so low of yourself. try to feel confident. dont let ppl decide who you are. it just makes you worst. i know it hard to come out. believe me im still working on that. i know you feel like no one understands. that no one really cares. alot of ppl give you lectures. but they dont get it right. well make them get it tell him how u feel let it all out. ok
hope i helped
amanda
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hun, honestly you need to stop cutting and get some help. the best way to stop a habit it to tell on ur self, and i can gurantee you your family will get you help, weather it be medicine, or jus talkin to your school counsler...you need to tell someone
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Deeply Troubled,
You should stop. It's not right. My best friend did it, and felt the same way. What made her stop was she realized that her lifes not worth what everyone else thinks of her. You need to love yourself, not matter what you look like. It's inside that matters. Turn to god. If you feel unloved just turn to him, because he can understand you! He loves you no matter what, now you need to love yourself just as much as everyone else does.
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You have to talk to someone and get help, so you start feeling good about yourself. Try talking to a guidance counselor or a close friend.
hope i helped!
xoshaneyney3282
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everything IS wrong with yu!
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all girls think they are ugly, its genetic. i actualy did a psychology project on this last year. your wrong, your family and friends are rght. stop cutting cuz its bad. live a happy life.
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There is nothing wrong with you... just try and be more positive... first of all i know it's hard but stop cutting, it's not good for you. It won't help you it just makes you feel more inscure in the long run. And if your skinny it's not your fault... being skinny isn't a bad thing. Trust me, just listen when people tell you that you're beautiful and don't cut... just think as yourself highly and don't let people bring you down. A positive atitude is the first key.
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there nothing wrong with u, find some friends who care.and if u ever need someone to talk to u can i/m...i hope everything turns out for teh better....
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I can absolutely relate to you on this. I was depressed for who knows how long. woa and it was my 8th grade year... anyways depression is a hard thing to deal with and everyone deals with it differently. I always like to be very social yet I always love to be alone. I go insane if I can't just have 30 minutes to myself and only myself during the day. I get all upset and stuff. I found a spot that i enjoyed ie: a tree near my backyard. A peaceful place where no one can bug you. You just write down all ur feelings or u listen to your music. Hang out with encouraging people. How can you ever change your depression without changing your thoughts? if you don't stop thinking everything is horrible you're going to be depressed. You have to think good thoughts. You have to realize that next year nothing this year would have matter. when you have a job what does it matter how skinny you were in highschool? you are skinny you are just constantly paranoid about these stupid models that are about hmm an inch wide? I'm thick not fat not skinny, and i'm proud. I actually found out taht guys like girls with some meat on there bones :) secondly, try to find something that you're good at. I'm personally really artistic I enjoy writing music, writing poems, painting, and drawing. Use these things to take out ur anger or pain. Don't resolve to cutting. As much you'd like to stop cutting I know it's hard. A bit of advice for the cutting you can always wear a rubber band around your wrist, snap it everytime u feel the urge to cut. also hey duct tape works...rip it off on the hairy part of ur arm. cut up stuffed animals. do anything but cutting. Personally I suggest the rubber band. good luck, starting thinking you're good cuz u r. Ur perfect and everything will become better just give it some time.
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ok there is nothing wrong with u, u need to stop cutting. what ive found out is u never know what u have going 4 u until u go and find it. seek help from ur friends and im sure they'll be there 4 u. i hope i helped and feel better ~stef~
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