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my names amanda im 14 and a 9th grader in highschool. i like to help ppl out with their problems. i do alot of volenteer work in my city. i live in west chicago. if you ever need anything just email me. ill try to help.
E-mail: alm2114@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: illinois
Occupation: voulnteer work
Age: 14
AIM: musicismything5
Member Since: November 7, 2004
Answers: 2
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You've probably heard this before, but here goes anyway.
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. I am really in love with him (im serious!) but sometimes he can be a jerk. We live like half an hour from each other, and neither of us can drive, so we barely see each other. We used to say "I love you" everytime we talked, like before we hung up the phone, but now, he won't say it to me, unless its to make me feel better, or if he's done something I dont like and hes tryin to get me not mad.
So.. does he still love me? Or do you think hes losing interest in me and we should just break up?

I've tried talkin to him about it... and he tells me its my choice what I want to do. And that just makes it harder on me. Please help me come to a decision! (link)
i think u should break up with him. my ex did the same thing to me. god i hated it. well i sicked with him and it just drove me nuts. so i really wouldnt stick with him. and if he can be a jerk then u should dump him i know all guys can be that way but u shouldnt have to take that and all the other stuff hes doin. let him loose.


in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?

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*deeply troubled* (link)
talk to ur friends. tell them how u feel. go to a school councler they always help. just dont cut. i know it makes you feel so much better inside but ur not gonna like the scars on ur arms. believe me i was a passed cutter. try to keep yourself busy. dont think so low of yourself. try to feel confident. dont let ppl decide who you are. it just makes you worst. i know it hard to come out. believe me im still working on that. i know you feel like no one understands. that no one really cares. alot of ppl give you lectures. but they dont get it right. well make them get it tell him how u feel let it all out. ok

hope i helped
amanda




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