Hello, my name is Delaney and I am 16 years old. I would love to help answer your questions, ans help you through a rough time. I am a good listener, and I am willing to take time out of my day to answer your questions. I paintball, sing, dance, ride horses, write music, play guitar, off road, 4 wheel, write poetry, play football, and listen to all different kinds of music.
Gender: Female Location: Redmond, WA Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: lovableRIDER4130 Yahoo: cowgirl4life45 MSN: flirtychica44880@hotmail.com Member Since: November 7, 2004 Answers: 21 Last Update: November 11, 2004 Visitors: 3342
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i have 2 really close friends. Ones a guy and one's a girl, if that really matters. And they say they love me all the time, but i just dont feel it. i just dont feel loved, i feel upset all the time. Does anyone kno y i feel this way? i think it's b/c i'm so lonely, i dont have a bf and never have. Anyone have sum tips? (link)
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I feel the same way a lot to. You need to bring more people into your life that make you happy. Being lonely, can be good sometimes, but usually you want to be around people and such. Maybe your best friends are really your best friends, maybe you need to branch out and ask questions. Hmmm.
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I wear G-strings, and how can I dress out for athletics at shcool without everyone in the locker room seeing my butt?? Some people go into the bathroom stalls... i dont really want to do that though. (link)
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Don't be modest! They are all girls, and some are fat, some are skinny, others have acne, and everyone is still the same person! WHO CARES!
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my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!
thanks.... (link)
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Well, I know that story and you can't tell your friend what to do. What you can do is approach her and tell her you'd appreciate it if she didn't do it around you or talk about it either. If she wants to do it, let her experience it for herself. But don't feel the need to start because she is doing it. As for the guy giving them to her, he is an ass. He is 18 or older and selling them to young girls, not right. She needs to make mistakes as do you, but you can't force her to live the life you want! Sorry, but it's the truth. Comfront her as well, tell her how you feel, but don't make a scene because then she won't be able to trust you. Hope this helped *Laney*
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Ok. I want to lose 100 pounds or more in about 1 -3 years. Will this make me lose 100 pounds. For breakfast all I eat is cereal. Then I have gym for 4th period. Which 2/5 days I walk about a mile or more. For lunch I have a sprite and sometimes chips. Then for dinner I have whatever my parents make. Then after dinner I do 35 sit ups, 50 squats. 30 jumping jacks. Also, I do watch what I eat. I drink water most the time and sometimes Ill have a pop. I usally only have 1 pop a day. Is there anything else I should do to help me? And do you think that'll make me lose 100 pounds in 1 - 3 years? Ok thanks. (link)
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I can't say that it will work because if you are over weight then it is hard to lose. Also, if you don't eat then you will prodominately get fatter because it was hard on your body. To change from eating so much to so little. Work on measuring out the stuff you eat, and only eat half a portion of what you used to eat, and work out yes, working out is good. But, you will have no energy if you don't eat. You will exhaust yourself, fall asleep in class, be gragy around friends, and so. Take it slow, don't rush yourself, and yes, WATER is very good! And no more pop! Depending on what you drink, it isn't good for you no matter what you are drinking. Hope this helped! *Laney*
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ok, so i have this friend, and a part of me wants to be more than friends with her. The only thing is, she is a lot younger than me. She is an absolutely amazing person though, and i love spending time with her, we know each other so well. It is just that i dont know if i can give her the relationship that she deserves. I care about her enough to want the best for her, no matter what. I dont get to see her much though because i live so far away, but when i do see her, it is the best time in the world and i dont want it to ever stop. What should i do? (link)
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Hmmm, well first of all don't let her age get to you because age is just a number and a best friend is forever. The relationships you have with people may not always last, but the time you share together should be cherished. As for the distance, well not much you can do there. For now, be happy with the friendship you have with her, and depending on how old you are, you can see you whenever you want in a few years. Be friends for how ever long you feel is right, and don't stop caring about her just because you can't see her everyday! Hope this helped!
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has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do? (link)
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You may be young, and it will be hard on you, but DO NOT get an abortion. It is hard on your body, and to think killing something you created. I don't know what to say, but be careful, and don't let others make the decision for you!
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I have always been worried about how i look in a bathing suit. This December i am going on a cruise and i really would like to look great in a 2 piece. Does anyone know any good work outs or diets i could go on just to shed some pounds in time for it so i dont look weird. (Most of the problem is my stomach and my legs) PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Crunches? Sit ups? Lots of leg exersizes like leg press and stuff. You can't get rid of it that fast, if you are made to be fat, then you can't really do much about it.
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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You should not be having sex at age 12 or 13, whatever. You can't expect it to feel good when you haven't really hit maturity. It isn't good to have sex to early, and plus just don't do it. Guys will look at you as being easy, and it would make your life living hell.
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to get me pregnant but it seems to be not working. I just got out of collage and im living in an apartment with him and we have sex every other day .. it isnt working.. is there something I shouldnt be doing?
Thank you.
Victoria (link)
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Go see a doctor, because you can't be sure. All I can say is don't hesitate, it just takes time, but definetley go see a doctor because you've heard those stories about women who can't get pregnant.
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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".
I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?
Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.
Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.
So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.
what do you think?
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I think that no matter how long it takes to find a girl you should never give up. Just because things aren't what you want them to be gives you no right to give up. You may not have the experience, but you will. Trust me, it takes a while to find someone you are willing to spend time with and get to know. As for the friends issue, a lot of guys feel that way. The nicer guys finish last, and you can't help that. It may be hard at times, but there will come a day will you will regret giving up. You are still young, and you shouldn't take advantage of any of those moments! Cherish them, whether it take months or even years. Hope this helped from a girls perspective! ~*_Laney_*~
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ok i dont rly have a problem with it im just wondering im 13.f and my boyfriend is 15.m and this other guy that likes me is 16.m but see i dont kno why all these older guys want me?? does anyone kno why they would? (link)
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They might think you are easy, because that age group thinks it is cool to have sex. Also, you may be more mature for your age if you know what I mean. Don't take it th wrong way, I date older guys because they are more mature and know how to handle themselves! Hope that helps! ~*_Laney_*~
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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Alright, I will give you my opinion on the situation. I have done it all but that because I don't feel that there is any respect behind giving a guy head. I don't like being 'looked down upon' by a guy, and I don't really feel the need to do it. They enjoy it, but if someone asks for it I just say I don't feel comfortable enough. As for you, if it doesn't seem right to you then be honest with him. You've been together quite a while, and shit if you can't be honest with him sexually then you must not communicate much. Hope that helps ~*_Laney_*~
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ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO! (link)
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First of all, if the boy really likes you he wouldn't allow his mormonism to get in the way. You are still young and religion is lame. DO NOT convert to mormonism, it is a really strict religion. Many rules and I don't think your parents would allow it. If you really want to be with him, tell him, and hide it! Who cares, it is junior high or high school, it won't last forever, and it is for the experience right?
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Hi* well me and my friend were at my grandmothers and my friend is 13 7th grade and so is my gmas neighbor well hes 12 7th grade. well the neighbor ,me and my friend were in the neighbors garage and my friend and him were making out. well my grandmother walked outside and seen. well when we went in she was telling my friend how much she likes her unlike all my other friends because they are all hyper. well then when she left a little while ago she told me i need to start hanging out with my other friends ( because they are like immature for there ages and arent into the kissing thing ) well im upset because im not gonna stop hanging out with my friend but im really mad that shes gonna tell my friend that she really likes her but tell me i need to stop hanging out with her! what do i do?
signed,
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P4TH3T1Cx1426 and the haha boat are jack asses. Every single thing they answer are pathetic. That's why you can't ask them for personal advice because they know they'd get trashed. Don't listen to what your grandma has to say because she can't control your life. As for your friend, I just think you are all TO young to be into that already. It's not a good idea to get into that at an early age because then you'll want sex sooner, and you never know what can happen after that. You can be friends with whoever you want, but you still shouldn't be doing those things at so early in your life.
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I have this friend that one day can be like my best friend and the next day act like she doesn't even know me/ like me. She is someone i want to be friends with but i just can't really take all the confusing things she does. I just kind of need a good friend in my life that is pretty stable since i dont really have to many other friends where i live. 15/f/wa thanks (link)
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I am 15 years old and live in Washington as well, and I know that feeling as well. Except I do it to my friend, well I did until I realized I was doing it. I love my best friend, but sometimes I can't stand her, but those are things you just get past. Are you tough? Do you have a wall, not allowing people to come into your life? Try another approach maybe?
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Ok, i'm a girl who likes sports, video games, and all that stuff. And i hate girly stuff like shopping, make up, and all that. I'm tough and strong and i'm just wondering if it's a turnoff to guys when a girl is like me. I mean, do guys only want to be friends with girls like me? PLZ ANSWER!! (link)
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HAHA, I am a girl, and I am the same way. I have one girlfriend and a million guy friends. I pal around with them, play football, video games, and do stupid things like them. There is nothing wrong with being the way you are as long as you can still be sensitive. Don't be so tough, because you'll lose a lot of people that way. I have had plenty of boyfriends, and all of which are different, you just need to experiment with what you like. Don't let them judge you for what you like or love!
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Ok, i'm a huge flirt. even tho i've never had a bf. But i tend to flirt with guys that my friends like. And sumtimes they start to like me. (omg that sounded so cocky) Anyways... This happens a lot. And i'm sick of my friends calling me a man stealer, and i'm not! I want to stay loyal to my friends, but i can't help flirting. And i want guys to like me. What should i do? (link)
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HAHA, to be honest with you I am the same way, but I have hurt a lot of people over it. Now I know you don't want to hurt anyone, but if you know your friend likes a guy stay away, and let it run its coarse. You can't expect to get with every guy you see. Be patient, and flirting is not bad, just as long as you don't do it all the time.
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mmkay im curious. i'm a 17 year old guy, and i know lots of girls think all guys are shallow..and only like really hot girls. well, when asked the question on who'd i choose, out of 'a gorgeous girl, thats really ditzy/dumb', or 'an okay girl, thats very intelligent' i picked option b. but to be honest, option a isnt that bad. most 'ditzy/dumb' girls are so much fun to be around, bcuz you never know what theyre gonna do next. theyre freakin so funny. my best friends sister is a complete ditz, lmao, but shes is like the coolest person to hang out with.
so i'm just wondering..what would some of you pick?
option a: gorgeous girl, no brains
option b: okay girl, intelligent (link)
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HAHA, a girls looks can be quite deceiving as you so pointed out. You can't choose a girl because she is hot, you need to know what kind of person she really is. Even if you don't get the action you want, you still need to go for someone you think you could have more fun with. If you want sex fast then choose A, but if you'd like to take things slow, and actually have a conversation now and again, then choose B. I don't know what else to tell you, except be wise in choosing who you want to be with. ~*_Laney_*~
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How do I get guys to like me? Im a 14/f and i weigh 115 lbs. My friends say i am really pretty but i cant seem to get guys to notice me. Any suggestions? (link)
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Well, seems to be you are pretty tiny, and you can't really make a guy like you. It's a process and whether or not it works, well I can't say. Don't fall to quickly for a guy because you don't know what he wants. Be careful, and don't let your looks take over, it can be quite deceiving.
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does any1 know how bad it hurts your hair to permantly straighten it? and what the process is?? (link)
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No it doesn't hurt! You are silly to think that getting your hair straightened hurts. It is a slow gradual process, and it takes time. The outcome it amazing, and well worth it. If you go to a place that knows what there doing then they will make you feel comfortable throughout the whole time.
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