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My mom is a cancer survivor--breast cancer and skin cancer. recently, a friend of her's son was diagnost with a sever type of cancer. He has to go through kemo and stuff. We're going to do stuff for his family, but thats not my concern
my concern is with my mother. she's been really worried and depressed about him since she found out on saturday. everytime she starts to talk about my future or about happiness she starts to cry, and says how unfair it is for a child to have to deal with that. she tells me almost everyday she wouldn't care how many times she had to go through cancer so i wouldn't have to. she says that she wouldn't know what the hell she'd do if anything happened to me or my sister.
i'm worried about her. is that normal? is there something i can say to her to make her feel better?
sorry this is long. (link)
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u can talk to her about, say somethink like i know how hard it is but if anything dose happen u will noit have to worrie about it untill then.
thereis not a relly big thinmg to it she is a parent wut can ya do?
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Well, it's a long story but I don't really know how to deal with it. A couple of years ago I was dating a young man for a long time. We were engaged and were planning to get married within a year or so. I loved him like I never loved anyone in my life and he loved me, but one day it all had changed. He grew distant and cold and kept me and all of his best friends in a distance. In addition to the distance, he started treating me really badly and after a long long time of tollarating it and trying to understand what's on his mind and help him as much as I can, I couldn't take it anymore, all my attempts to rescue that relationship crushed and died and I gave up. We broke up. About 3 month later, I've heard that he'd started dating another woman and after another 2 month, I've heard that they've got engaged. As a result from that, My EX had lost ALL of his friends because, as they say, he became completely intollerable. It took me almost two years to get over him (I was overseas for a year which helped a little), But now I came back home and every little thing reminds me of him and that I really miss him and I do still love him, but the thing is that I love the man he used to be, not what he'd become. I don't have any news about him because he'd totally lost touch with "the outside world" and we don't have common friends anymore. I know that I should get over it and go on with my life but I just don't know how, I had tried and it worked for a while but now that I'm back home, I'm surrounded by things and places that remind me of what we used to have and these are things that I can't avoid seing. What should I do?
(I'm a 23 y.o. woman) (link)
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well, it is very hard to let go of ppl.you can just erase him away thow allot of ppl try, he will always be in the back of your mind,HE MAY BE THERE ALL THE TIME BUT.....there are othere ppl in the world and he might just come your way.and when he dose u will not care anymore.
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mmkay im curious. i'm a 17 year old guy, and i know lots of girls think all guys are shallow..and only like really hot girls. well, when asked the question on who'd i choose, out of 'a gorgeous girl, thats really ditzy/dumb', or 'an okay girl, thats very intelligent' i picked option b. but to be honest, option a isnt that bad. most 'ditzy/dumb' girls are so much fun to be around, bcuz you never know what theyre gonna do next. theyre freakin so funny. my best friends sister is a complete ditz, lmao, but shes is like the coolest person to hang out with.
so i'm just wondering..what would some of you pick?
option a: gorgeous girl, no brains
option b: okay girl, intelligent (link)
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well, wut u relly need to do is not relly foucus on witch personaly u want THE MOST think about finding some1 who has BOTH of the personaletys.
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ok i like my friends step brother alot. she always tell s me she wants us to go out and stuff but sometimes i think shes lieing. my other best friend said that she wasnt but shes goin out with her other brother and she said the same thing to her and then she was mad for a month. i dont know wat to do should i go out with the guy or not?????
signed
confused (link)
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i know it might be kinda scarey to talk to a crush sometimes but, u r gonna have too.(casualy)when u start to talk to him bring up what your friend (his sis) and ask wut he thinks about it and he may say no but dont look @ his awser look @ his body languge!
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