ok i like my friends step brother alot. she always tell s me she wants us to go out and stuff but sometimes i think shes lieing. my other best friend said that she wasnt but shes goin out with her other brother and she said the same thing to her and then she was mad for a month. i dont know wat to do should i go out with the guy or not?????
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? FrEe2bMe answered Sunday November 7 2004, 10:29 pm: Well, first off-it's good that your friend is kinda involved and is supportive. But, with that said you can never let other people (even relatives) get involved in people's relationships because it will just wreck havoc on them. You should find out for yourself if the guy likes you back. You could strike up a convo with him and hint at it, hang out together (invite him to go see a movie or something) and try and see if you pick up any vibes. Your friend may get mad if something does come of you two, it's natural, but she can't stay mad for too long because initially she helped instigate the relationship by saying she wants you to hook up. You need to take control. Find out things with the guy first. Then talk to your friend to see if she's okay with it. Never lose a TRUE friend over a boy that may not even be your boy or may not even last! Good luck. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
cutieheart001 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 10:11 pm: i know it might be kinda scarey to talk to a crush sometimes but, u r gonna have too.(casualy)when u start to talk to him bring up what your friend (his sis) and ask wut he thinks about it and he may say no but dont look @ his awser look @ his body languge! [ cutieheart001's advice column | Ask cutieheart001 A Question ]
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