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my brother and his friends.
Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.
Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me
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Well, how about you just hang around your brother some. Maybe having someone you loves him as much as you do around. It'll cheer him up.
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Well, If you want to help him see if he can talk to his old friends and tell them that the things that his ex-girlfriend said wasn't true and all that,or you can talk to his old friends and see what all had went wrong with them. See what you can do to help him out with all of that.
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Well make him confront his friends. Its the only way. Have him explain to them what a crazy biotch she was and that they should definetly trust him over her. If they still reject him, they were never good friends anyway, and its time to start new. Make him go out and party, or make him get a job around a lot of young people that pays good so he can meet people and earn money. The best thing to do is get him up on his feet. Tell him sitting home all day and all night will do him no good and it will be even worse for him. Hopefully he can make some new friends or get the old ones back. I know one or the other will pull through... just keep cheering him up. Good luck xoxo.
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Why would his friends believe the bullshit that this bitch told about him? They must be very easily covinced and/or stupid. I would tell the friends that what she said was untrue. Talk to your brother first about the situation and find out more about what's going on.
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Oh dear. Well, if your brothers friends believes rumors from his ex-girlfriend, then they're not friends at all. Tell your brother to get up from his slum, and make new friends, because if he is/was popular, i'm sure friend-making comes easy.
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He should tell his friends that his girlfriend was just saying bad things about him because she was mad about the break up. And none of those things must be true, so if his real friends just listen to his side of the story then hopefully they will take him back. I wish the best of luck to you both!
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well its nice that you feel bad for your brother. but i am sure he will get over it he is a grown man. i mean there really isnt much you can do, it not like you can go and call a bunch of grown people and defend him, they will probbaly just laugh at you like you are a little kid. just be there for your brother. get him a card or bake him a cake or do something nice for him to make him feel better. let him know that atleast you care.
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your brother should talk to hes ex and try to work things out and see why she sed that things she did and if u can get him to go out and have fun then he might met sumone and make new friends but stayin in side all the time and being depressed is not going to help any! and w/e goes on in your brother life had nothing to do with u even though it hurts u to see him liek that or makes u feel like its ur falt it no u had nothing to do with any of it!!! dont worry he will make it through
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You are doing a great job by trying to help your brother out, just let him know that you are there for him and there are going to be other people in his life who care about him then that chick. If those guys that he is friends with believe the things that girl said, there is more out there for him . . there is about 100 trillion people in the world, tell him you are there for him anytime you need him, and try to talk to him. Make him bond with you as much as possible, have him realize he has a great family. And that there are other oppurtunities.
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Wow, hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned. Alright, I think the best way to get some new friends is to go out to the clubs, I mean he is only 20 so he can't go out drinking. I gotta wonder really what she said to his friends to make them all turn on him like that. If he works then he's got co workers, sometimes those make good friends, some of the best friends I have I met at work. If he doesn't work, he may want to get a job. But I think the best way to go about this, is to go to a dance club. Lots of people, he'll dance he'll pick up a girl, hopefully, and he'll have learned a lesson. When you break up with someone who knows your friends, get to them before she does. I've had that happen to me as well, and it sucks. Good luck, I feel your brother's pain.
-The Knight Owl
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