My name is Chelsea i love to help people in everway that i can i have always helped people and loved doing i found this web site one day and new it ws just my thing plzzz come to me if u have any problems i would love to help u in any way that i can!!
E-mail: chelseaandjessica@adelphia.net
Gender: Female
Age: 14
ICQ: 261649133
Member Since: August 9, 2004
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ok i've posted before about how i like my bff guy friend. and i thought he liked me back i mean flirt totally and he always talks to me on aim and everything was going great! and then his sister tells me he likes his old girlfriend again. i have nothing against his old girlfriend (besides the fact i like him.) i mean i really really like this guy. more than any other guy i've liked before. what should i do? (link)
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tell him how u feel and that u really like him and hang with him ore so he can see what a great girl u r!!!
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks! (link)
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i dont think u should be friends with that whore b/c if she would do that to u then she really not ur friend and tell her that it hurts u real bad when she tells u stuff about him just tell her u dont want to hear it!!! and for ur ex i no it hard b/c u stil have strong feels for him but after a while it will be ok!! u could stil be friends with him if he wants to be just watch that that whore dont ruin anything!! hope i helped!!!
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okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared
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its ur mom dont worry about it she might pick on u a bit but she just havin fun dont stress in it its nothing! dont let whats she says bother u dotn take it the wrong way!
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Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.
Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me (link)
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your brother should talk to hes ex and try to work things out and see why she sed that things she did and if u can get him to go out and have fun then he might met sumone and make new friends but stayin in side all the time and being depressed is not going to help any! and w/e goes on in your brother life had nothing to do with u even though it hurts u to see him liek that or makes u feel like its ur falt it no u had nothing to do with any of it!!! dont worry he will make it through
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I have this habit of always goin out and its so hard to stay home becasue my sister..well i tried to talk to her and i tried to be soooo nice and injoring her nuthing is working ...and i wanna bbe home alot but i just cant stand her at all..all she does is yell at me an i cant take it ...should i try again or should i just keep wat i do....or if you have anyother ideas..plaease help
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Confused (link)
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talk to your sister about it! it might not be easy at first but u'll be glad u did! tell her how u feel!
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On saturday me and my b/f were suppose to hang out, but he canceled. So he said we should hang out on sunday, but he never showed up or called or anything. I tried calling but no one answered his house or cell. Should I be worried? Because he's usually on-line all the time, but lately he hasn't been. He never blows me off ever. I know he wouldn't cheat on me either, he's not that kind of guy. What should I do? Should I be worried??? Please help! :( (link)
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mayb he is haveing problems at home or somethings are going on right now talk to him about and see tahts going on then what he say take it from there im sure everything will be ok!
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Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!! (link)
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just b/c all ur friends do it and make it seem right it isnt dont make them do anything u dont want to b/c they r! there r goin to screw up there whole life if they keep smoking weed and u dont want that dont let ur friends control ur life!
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im not in any of my friends classes and i feel depressed ive had such a bad day.. and im really starting too get back at the "im ugly" stage
[its not really about advicenators] (link)
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im sure that u'll find people that ur friends with that u have classes with mayb not any ur really close to but there will be sumone my best frined is the same way she got sperated from all her friends and i told her not to worry about it and beside ull have other ways of seeing them! and this just might be the rite time to make new friends!
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okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..
but heres my question..
I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate.. (link)
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If u both love each other as much as u say you do then just because ur moving shouldnt matter if your meant to be then nothing will happened between u to al u nedd is trust and if u both have that then u have nothing to worry about!
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