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Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 5:07 pm

my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?

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MicroSurjj answered Thursday August 19 2004, 3:19 am:
I know just what u mean. My mom was moanin so foolishly i walked into her room to see what was wrong, only to see my parents gettin it on. Needless to say im fucked up 4 life. if u dont want things to get real weird SAY NOTHING.

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angelic23chika answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:58 pm:
well, u kno ur moms not a virgin soo it shouldnt bother u, u should have gotten up, she prolly wouldnt havce been able to hear u over the moans n e wayz

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Floridagirl1821 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 4:37 pm:
I think you should, so she wont do it where you can hear her so easily! If you don't get a cd player with headphones and turn the music up! Hope I could help!

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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Sunday August 15 2004, 1:04 pm:
talk to her about it! if you dont, then you're just going to be having to hear those sounds some more and she's going to keep on embarrassing herself some more. tell her that you woke up to it one morning and it really grossed you out. then mabye she'll keep it more quiet when she's doing that again.

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xOSweEtKittEnxO answered Sunday August 15 2004, 11:05 am:
LOL! haha well if i were you, i would just keep it to urself, and at night when u hear that ehem put a headphone set on, and like turn the music on it up really loud. lol thats what ive done in the past.

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TinahOfCourse answered Sunday August 15 2004, 6:18 am:
Haha. You have no idea how many times I've had that happen to me. You can either tell your mom how revolting it was, but don't be extremely serious about it. Or you can just keep it to yourself and forget about it. I've always just laughed it off and forgot about it. Lol. Good luck babe.

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ShOrThOnEy_ox answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:16 pm:
Well if you dont want to hear it put a head set on and listen to music while that is going on. If it will make you feel better tell your your about it and see what she can do so that you wont hear it.


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StRaWbErri3xLiPgLoSs answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:08 pm:
Hey maybe you shuld confront her about it or go to a friends house when hes over! hope i helped! kasey lynn 0x

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bucs10us answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:58 pm:
omg i hate that, the same thing happend to me except i could see the shadows in the dark with the tv on. but i just kept it to myself cuz its so gross to even think about.

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XoXMeLiSsA13XoX answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:47 pm:
I think you should tell her you were walking by and heard something and you thought she was talking to you so u stopped and listened to see if she called ur name again but u heard her moaning, dont keep it a secret but dont tell her u were sitting otside her door either, good luck!!need anything else? let me know!

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LuCiouzbabii answered Saturday August 14 2004, 7:22 pm:
okai well tell your mom that not to embarris her or ne thin but u feel uncomfortable in your own house and u shoodnt have these feelings cuz u live there and he dosnt ask her nicely if she can keep her sex life a liddle secret hope i helped xo Jessi

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cailoisa answered Saturday August 14 2004, 7:16 pm:
You should not be forced to feel uncomfortable in your own house. If your relationship with your mom is open, then tell her. Otherwise, I would find other ways of letting her know. If you can hear them, then turn up your stereo really loud (if you have one). They should get the clue. If you can't tell her face to face, maybe leave her a note. This sounds gross, but maybe you can work something out where her boyfriend only stays the night when you're over at a friends house. I do feel that you should do something. Your mom may be embarassed that she was caught, but it's not fair to ask you to feel gross when you have as much of a right to be there as she does.

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queenbianca2004 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:48 pm:
Well its natruall. And by the way you are acting you must be young. Its hard to understand. But keep it a secreate. One day your kid will be in the same position probably........

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xokristabelle answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:17 pm:
Well, like everyone's said, it really depends on your relationship with your mom. I think you should let her know by saying something like:
"Mom, it makes me feel uncomfortable when you sleep with [boyfriends name] in our house."
if shes really open you can add:
"Last night I heard you guys having sex and it kind of grossed me out. I know you're an adult, but it kind of grosses me out."
Then ask her to stop. Good luck!

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Chellz8 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:10 pm:
hmm- dont talk to your mom... but go get some earplugs and some new cd's and head phones just incase !! hahaha :) rate please ;)

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Brunettebabe14234 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:59 pm:
* Im SorRy * well dont talk to ur mom bcz it could b kinda gross plus embarasing for the both of u * next time her bf comes turn the music on really loud* or b like umm i dont wanna b here im b right back* LOL

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youCantSTOPlove answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:58 pm:
I mean common ur mom is your mom.....You should b able to tell her nything....If she really loves u ...she will understand... I mean what would she do to you?? cut off ur ears!!???! lol!! i think you should tell her... maybe she'll hold dat off in your house so you cant hear it(( hopefully)) I dont know ur Mother.. but i hope this helps you!! :)
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blinkgurlbritt answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:47 pm:
Hey, dont fret about it. Almost every kid has had experences with their parents and hearing/seeing them have sex. If it continues then I sugguest tell your mom what you heard but say it in a mature way, hopefully she'll respect your sugguestion.

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Crystal49 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:44 pm:
I know you probably felt extremely awkward about the whole situation, but I think telling your mom what you heard would just manke her feel embarressed. Just try to remember that sex is a fact of life and basically everyone experiences' it. Without it, you would not have been born.

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orphans answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:26 pm:
Parents have sex. Get over it. It's hardly the biggest revelation in the world.

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x0xpyrobabix0x answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:23 pm:
Ok, that is a little unpleasant to hear. I know, I've been there. I don't really know the bond between you and your mom, but..if she does it once, I'm sure she will do it again. Exspecially since she thought you didn't know about it. I would tell her that you over-heard. Tell her that you feel uncomfortable hearing those things, and if she is going to do that, then she needs to do it when your not home.
Hope I helped!


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Lena answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:20 pm:
man thats nasty, sry u had to hear that, you should probably tell her to go somewhere else when she does that if it bothers you a lot, it might be really wierd but =/ i guess it could help, but then you would know where they are and what they are doing.. soo.. sry =/ hope everything works out! x3

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SweetStarx89 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:18 pm:
HI.ohh wow that is nasty..let her kno that it bugs you that you have to hear her and everything and like what others said...definitly let her kno that is she's gonna have a night like that tell her to do it somewhere else where you wont kno about it hear it or have anything to do with it. it's better that way too. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Mackenzie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:14 pm:
Yikes!! That's gRoss!! I'm soo soRRie!! My heaRt bleeds foR ya, Kidd-o. That Really is quite unpleasant! Uhm, I would say let it slide this once. HoweveR, if you notice it's becomming a fRequent thing, I'd speak up about it. Tell 'eR you don't appReciate the sound effects, and you'd pRefeR that if she must play aRound inside YOUR home.. to do it at a time when you'Re not home to eavesdRop!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D

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alisonmarie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:14 pm:
Well, I don't know what will make you feel better. If I were in your shoes, I'd probably start sleeping with my door closed - and possibly with a CD playing quietly.

I think it could also be helpful to let your mom know you heard - it might be embarassing for both of you, but at least she'll keep her moans down in future!

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