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this is long so i hope you feel like reading
im 14/m and i am in love with this girl. she used to like me a lot and then she said over a few days she started having mixed feelings. she had liked me like a week after she started going out with my friend and she dumped him but didnt say why or something like that. i told her she was beautiful and that i love her. we have mostly similar common interests. we have made out and stuff and we were very close. at homecoming during the last slow song i asked her out..she she doesnt know and the next day she said she doesnt like me anymore..that was like a month ago and now she likes this sophomore who i think is using her. she told me one of the reasons she didnt like me anymore was she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend..i saw the guy she likes today and i was thinking WTF!?! you can picture him but not me....i know more about her than anyone and i am in love with her. i think about her all day and i found out on halloween night that she had snuck out with the guy and went to a park and made out for a few hours and on monday he gave her a bunch of hickeys and made out and everything and it keeps running through my head...ever since homecoming i have been depressed and i just wish she liked me still, my friends tell me she will but i dont believe them, i always thought that a guy who treats a girl like gold and devotes all of his time to her and everything was exactly what a girl wants..sorry this has been so long...answer and ill tell you the rest if you want to hear..if you do say yes in the beginning of your answer AND PLEASE HELP ME I AM SO CONFUSED..I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
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yea of coarse i wanna hear da rest, okay i'm 13 and in da 8th grade and theres this boi that likes me like u like her,and were friends and stuff just like u 2,but i mean i like him & all but i just dont picture him as a bf,and i think the reason y she said that bout u is probably the same reason i have......iight since u've been friends she prolly doesnt want to brake that friednship up,if something were to go wrong.and cause she went with one of ur friends, same thing with me but were just not in highskool yet,lol anyways on halloween i did almost the same shiht she did,and i told my friend{the guy who likes me} everything that happened cause i like talkin to him.but i think he kinda got mad when i showed him this hicky i had from my bf.but i'm just trying to say u'll get through it,just be her friend for now,iight cause thats all she really wants and until shes finds out that she wants u more then that,ur just gonna have to wait.......I'M SO SRY THOUGH.
but i want to say thx cause u made me think bout wat i'm doing to my friend,and how he luvs me so much and i'm hurting him......and yea i wanna hear more
cindy
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you sound like an amazing guy. the best thing you can do is to be there for her. if the things she's doing with the soph get out of hand, tell her you're worried about her. but if you're too intrusive into her life she'll just think you're a busybody. so just be there for her if she needs to talk to someone. maybe she just needs a fling because she's afraid of getting into something deep with you.
when things with the soph come crashing down, it's a lot better to be the friends that's there in the end to lean on than to be the guy she used to like but drifted away from because she felt like he was pushing her too much into a relationship.
best of luck
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Ohh... you sound exactly like someone i know.. (i won't say who, cause he might read this) well i want to hear the rest of the story but right now i'll try to explain some things... Some girls are just really confused... I don't think she was ready for a bf as serious as you were trying to be.. telling her you loved her and all that. Not that you did the wrong thing at all! I think she just got scared.. so when she thought about it she said "I'll take the easy way out and say i don't like him anymore" That doesn't nessecarily (sp?) mean it's true...i think she still likes you.. Give her some time and maybe she'll come around.. if she doesn't though then maybe she wasn't really who you thought she was... Sorry if this is harsh! Best of luck though, and if you need to talk, IM me...
Hope I helped a little...
~Lana
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She def. likes you but doesn't know what to do.. and girls do like wen guys flirt, hang out with them and stuff and your head is telling you "go for it" but your feelings are saying "idk" buht i had a relationship like that 2 years ago n i havent gotten over it so you should just try 2 stop thinking about her or talk 2 who she likes and her...
h0pE i HeLpEd!!
K*Tina
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yes, i want to help u. i kinda know what ur going through but not totally. aright i think she is just scared of liking u. like maybe she likes u, but she is just lieing to herself.that or she just wants to see how other ppl are before going ot u. i think she has feelings for u. some ppl will always have feeling for someone..and form personal experience it sux. cuz u try to move on, but all u can think about it them. she will come back to u...just give her some time. shes prolly just confused and doesnt know what she wnats.. i hope i helped. let me know how is goes...good luck!
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Yes, I'd like to help. Everyone go's through these phases, The girl...Is probably confused right now in who she really likes. She's probably just seeing how other people are, and maybe she'll like you again. She probably still likes you, she just doesnt know...Or doesnt want to say anything about it. Your idea of what a girl wants, isn't exactly true...and i can't tell you, because not every girl wants the same thing. If she doesn't like you because she can't picture you as a boyfriend, Then maybe you should find someone who doesn't care whether they are able to picture you as a boyfriend or not. Find someone who will like you for who you are, and not how they picture you, because you never know who someone really is...
-Britt. Hope i helped. =)
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sorry to hear about this and i know how you feel.
but think about it..your 14 and you have SO much time ahead of you..you like her..i doubt its love if she shows no affection back to you.you will eventually get over her..and if she cannot except you for you and she needs more than you..shes not your type,and she sounds like a bit of a player to me...moving from guy to guy and the guy now...your right sounds like hes using her..and well it sounds like she just wants some too...and if your not looking to just get some..i dont think shes your type..keep looking around..youll find someone..
then shell realize how dumb she is
hope i helped!
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