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confused........
ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers
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um well i dont think you should totally ditch him cuz it soundz like he was there for you a lot..he might be sensing that you are trying to get rid of him and he might be a little mad about that....or just sometimes people loose it every once and a while- it soundz like you two were pretty close...but if you dont want to see as much of him just make lots of plans with other people- or if you have to hang with him- make it with a group or at a dance so theres other people around..
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Maybe you two have just hung out together so much that your tired of each other and you don't know it. It would probably make you both act different, which would explain more argueing and such. Or maybe he just went through something in his life that he can't explain to you and its getting to him. Or maybe...yes i thought of a lot of options....maybe you two have been together so long he decided he likes you. Anything is possible, I'm sure you'll get through it though, maybe just make a little more space for now and see what happens. It'll be okay. ~Ash
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I think you should rethink this. If you don't want to be friends with him tell him something like "Look I just don't feel comfortable around you being all over me and it just bugs me that you get upset at me for the weirdest things." Your a great guy and all but I am just confused of what I think about you. Your other problem is trying to find out if he is getting tired of you well I wouldn't say he is, just because of that doesn't mean that... your just jumping to conclusions. I think he likes you a lot, because of what you said about him always being there for you last year. I'd want a friend like that other than most of the friends I have now, ya know? One because the friends I have now think they can come as they please and be there as they please. I'm sorry but if you want to be one of my friends then your going to have to always be there for me no matter bad or good. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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You are confusing me. First you say you don't think you want to be his friend anymore then you are worried he is tired of you?
Ignore his feelings for a moment and focus on yours. Is he being mean to you now? Are you sick of him? Decide what you want for you. Then worry about his feelings. If you decide you don't want to be his friend anymore it doesn't matter if he is tired of you or not.
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It sounds like you still want to be friends with him so, just talk to him about the hanging all over business. Whatever is making you uncomfortable, talk it out. Even if you have to wait until school starts.
It sounds like he has really been there for you in the past. That is what friends do for each other. Their sexuality really has nothing to do with friendship. If it bothers you then ask questions. Friends should be able to talk about anything and everything. Don't let his sexuality bother you, he still the same person he was before you knew about it. :)
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