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Annoying IMs


Question Posted Monday August 8 2005, 5:06 pm

Hi, I'm the one who wrote about my boyfriend who so rudely dumped me without as much as even TELLING me, and then saying that I didn't have feelings and desserved my heart broken as much as people wanted too. Now I am a generally nice person, but this got me so upset. :( Well now hes going out with this other girl, and they keep iming me to tell me what a "loser" I am and how I can't "get" any boys. I blocked them but I still have to see them at school. By the way, their screennames are pyroboy9977 and XoCheerQtXo3222, if anyone would like to talk some sense into them.

Sorry for wasting your time, but I'm really stuck here. And I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. :(


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Additional info, added Monday August 8 2005, 5:17 pm:
I'm not trying to get back at them. But they never listen to me because they obviously think I have no feelings. .

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margarita_luvs_ya answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:36 pm:
Don't feel bad they're just plain mean and they're the losers don't let it get to you even though it's hard tell him this @ school infront of eveyone if they say anything to you. 'Yeah I'm a loser laright a loser to ever go out with you.' or 'I may not be going out with anyone right not I'm not the type who picks up a rebound with just anyone.' Tll people how bad he was when you two were going out even if it is a lie beacuse obviously they're lying about you.

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gessyka answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:35 am:
I talked some sense into your ex-boyfriend but blocked him before he could type back just to piss the hell out of him ;)

dont let them bother you. Honestly, not even worth it. You have friends you dont need them if they dont even show you respect.

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Alpha345 answered Monday August 8 2005, 8:38 pm:
Hey it's ok, don't worry about wasting our time, we're all here because we want to help and we choose to be here, we choose our time and our time at moment is helping you.

No there is still nothing wrong with you. Just because this jerk you used to call a boyfriend and his new ___ (substitute "girlfriend" for random insulting word to describe someone inconsiterate and obviously not understanding of other's feelings) are trying to put you down odesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Nothing is wrong with you and you need to hold your head high and press on despite their obviously ill-fated attempts to keep you down. You can do that,just don't them them get to you.

I hope this helps some more and they stop trying to get to you, it isn't right and you sure as heck don't deserve it.

-Ryan

P.S. I won't IM them because I don't know them and I think I would cause more harm than good in the situation. But if you need anything at all or just want to talk to someone, im me at (AIM) Alpha0mega345. Have a better day!

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Supermanlover45 answered Monday August 8 2005, 7:21 pm:
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:13:56 PM): Look I'd like it if you would stop being so damn rude to your ex saying she can't get no guys. She got you didn't she
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:14:14 PM): Honestly, I don't even see why she picked you for a boyfriend . You need to grow up and be a man
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:15:45 PM): That's called harassment buddy you can get charged for it
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:19:37 PM): Do I have your full response on that?
pyroboy9977 signed off at 7:19:57 PM.
pyroboy9977 signed on at 7:20:09 PM.
pyroboy9977 (7:20:14 PM): on what?
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:20:30 PM): On what? What did I just say to you
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:21:00 PM): Whoah hold up how old are you
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:21:28 PM): your only 12
pyroboy9977 (7:21:35 PM): yeah
ImNotLikeThat00: (7:21:52): Leave your x alone and leave your fricken girlfriend alone too. Jesus christ your so stupid and immature you don't know what love is. Oh my god and if you say one more thing to your god damn x girlfriend trust me you'll have all my 15 screennames to deal with.

It's okay girlie. I'm here for ya hell I even already IMed that stupid son of a bitch. Sorry for the language. When they say something to you just ignore it yeah I know it's easier to type that than to actually try to attempt it but trust me it's easier than you think. Good for you that you blocked them don't unblock them until your 18 and old enough to beat the shit out of them. He, he. Don't hesitate to ask me for advice. No one deserves to be treated like that. No one! When they call you a loser say your so immature you can't even get something good to do other than bitch at me because there's nothing exiting going on in your lame ass lives. So nigga please. Ha, ha my favorite line. I'm not racist don't worry. But yeah Hope I helped. Remember if you need anymore help just ask me.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*

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Sportychicc9393 answered Monday August 8 2005, 6:49 pm:
There is nothing wrong with you! You just have to let them no that it doesnt bother you and soon enough they will stop bothering you and move on to someone else. I hope I have helped im me if needed Sportychicc9393

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TheCynic answered Monday August 8 2005, 5:36 pm:
Tell them you don't have feelings and that's exactly why you don't care about what either of them have to say.

Lol next time they say that you can't get any boys, tell them you don't need to 'get' them. They come to you. Also, ask your ex why he's wasting his time with whore-in-a-box and not out 'getting' some of those boys that he's obviously so interested in.

You're not worthless so don't let these jackasses think you are. You're going to find a guy, don't let them rush you. You don't have to use all that stuff up there that I said, that was just to make you feel better. Because you deserve to feel better.

And there's nothing wrong with you, so stop saying that!

If you want to IM me or anything, it's ScurvyRD

Lol yeah, don't ask.

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ronda answered Monday August 8 2005, 5:33 pm:
There acting stupid.Why the hell are they going to keep IMing you after he broke up with you.And he shouldnt even be saying how you cant get any boys you got him didnt you.Tell them to stop fuckin acting like a baby and telling you all that shit cause he and his girlfriend are the losers cause they cant find anything better to do so they start messing with you.Gosh they are so fuckin premature.Tell them to go the hell away and stop bothering you they need to learn how to act there age.And if they keep on messing with you just ignore them.They need to grow up and act there age.And why is his grilfriend messing with you she dosent have nothing to do with yall breaking up.

*Good luck*

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Teza answered Monday August 8 2005, 5:14 pm:
Aww babe first I can just tell you that there is NOTHING wrong with you. They are being very childish and immature and they are just trying to make you jelous and hurt. Do not take their bull sh*t. They're wrong. You are'nt a loser but tell him to fuck off. You are over him and you dont care anymore. Make sure he knows that they are'nt hurting your feelings. Dont just block them but stand up to them. Im sure you are'nt ugly or anything like that but when you get a boyfriend brag about him. Dont listen to your ex and his g/f.. all they are trying to do is make you jelous && it wont work! Good luck!

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Razhie answered Monday August 8 2005, 5:12 pm:
You had me believing you were a generally nice person untill you posted thier screen names and asked people to harass them. That is pretty low and mean.

Ignore them. Stop encouraging other people to bash them, stop bashing them yourself. If they are nasty people they don't deserve the time of day, so walk away from this bullshit. If you keep feeding into it with nastiness like giving thier screen names to complete strangers for harassment, you deserve what you get.

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therocketsummer answered Monday August 8 2005, 5:10 pm:
hey! I'm talking to them again. that pyropboy blocked my yesterday. wahoo

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