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in between the middle
there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.
how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?
who should i pick?
i will rate with reasonable answers
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have the first guy over with some of yout friends and i would pick second guy!
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It's not fair to pick the second guy if you aren't really into him. WHen there is another guy in the picture, that makes the whole situation worse. Since the first guy doesn't like you, you should start trying to get over the first guy before you try to move on to anyone else. Hope I helped.
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If a guy is goping to be an ass and start to hate you for no reason start getting over him NOW. He dosen't deserve someone as good as you if he's going to be a snob about it. Get to know the other guy instead and see what happens. Good luck.
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The first one is starting to hate you?? OMG!! You should pick the second one..Well except you can make the first guy likes you..You can try to make him likes you if there is a chance..If there's not..why should you waste your time??I really really think that you should pick the second one..Hope I helped!
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the guy doesn't even care that you like him? wow, you should choose the second one! you said the first one was starting to hate you already... some guys get uncomfortable when they find out a girl likes them. thats probably where the hate comes from. but if he had interest in you and found out you liked him, he would have probably asked you out already. spend some time getting to know the second one. that will help you forget about the first on and like the second one better. remember there are pleanty of fish in the sea. don't hold your self to one guy!
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I cant reallt help you..but this happens to the best of us..just stop with the 1st guy..move on..maybe in the future he will start liking you..if any of your friends are friends with him tell them to to talk about you to him..he doesnt sound mature he sounds like a jerk..but best of luck
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Does the second guy give you any clues that he likes you? Don't be too pushy with the first guy, just be yourself. If you're too flirty and too talkative towards him he might start to get annoyed and back off even more. Try becoming his friend first by showing him that you are an interesting person without making it very obvious that it's what you're trying to do.
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Hmm... Well with the first guy, it may depend on how much older he is then you. Guys usually have an age limit. If he's not too old, then you just need to talk to him about similar interests.
Hang in there. Be sure not to talk to him ALL the timie. He could get annoyed by that. Just hang in there. Eventually you'll become friends, then that could grow into something more. You should go with the first guy because he's mature (but that could be bad too if you know what I mean...) But if there is a big age gap, then you should probably go for the second guy. Hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you!
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