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ok, well there's this friend that i have, and her name is . i dont know what to do becuz she always lies to me. she always lies to me. when she says that she is coming over my house, she doesnt, she always goes to some other guys house. the last time she did this, she was missing for a day. i was really worried and so was her mom. i felt guilty, because what if something happened?? she was sposed to come to my house right?i just dont really know what to think. the last time she didnt show up, she was missing for 2 1/2 days, she doesnt even call me to tell me she's ok or even her mom. i know that i should just forget about her becuase she's using me to go to guys houses(her mom wont let her go to guys houses)and then i end up feeling bad, but the thing is she always tells me that she was sad and her da was drunk and hit her or something, she makes me feel bad for her and then i just cant stay mad. to add to all this, her boyfriend is thinkin of breakin up with her becuz he wants to go out with me. i just dont know what to think, if you cant help, thats ok i know it doesnt seem like much, but it is to me. by the way im a 14/f.....help pleez if u can!!!!!!!
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I hate to tell you this, but you can't help her. You need to tell her mom and let them sort it all out. And sometimes people just want to be sad because it makes things go their way. And if she's visiting other guys houses, her bf deserves to be himself too, so he shouldnt feel obligated to be with her if she's not true to him. You never know, she may thank you later.
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haha you have a friend named . lmao
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You need to tell her straight out that its not only hurting you its hurting her, tell her she needs to talk to her mom and if she doesnt then youll tell her -- Yea she might "HATE" you but in the end shell thank you..she could get raped out there! or worse..tell someone she deff. needs help if her dads hitting her ad she runs away..she needs to see someone to talk to
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1st of all you need to think hard about the fact that she is using you...if it werent for you being near these guys then she may not even be your friend...you cant let her get to you, she is putting you through much worry and stress when she goes missing, and you shouldnt have to deal with that...its not your fault that she is not getting treated right at home and she has no right to use that against you...you cant give in to her and you have to talk about how you are feeling used...abou the boyfriend situation, you shouldnt go out with him right away because that is gonna make her feel bad, think how you would feel in a situation like that, thats what i always do good luck hun...hope i could help...<33 ~danni
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