at school, there's this boy who's been bullying me for ages. he's nasty anyway, but he always picks on me. it's stuff like hitting me on the head with his folder, hitting me with a ruler, putting things like selltape and pencil sharpenings in my hair, calling me a minger, and saying stuff like 'your hair is nice, *ahem*'. my hair is horrible, but he has to say something nasty about it. i've spent loads on products to sort my hair out, but nothing worked. sometimes in the corridor he just pushes me into a locker, or into someone, it's embarrassing. if i'm happy, he will do something like that, and i'll feel really depressed, like i want to die, 'cos i'm worthless. i can't tell a teacher, 'cos 1. it's embarrassing, and 2. his twin sister and mum will hate me for getting him into trouble, he's from a rich family and he thinks he's better than everyone, he always gets his own way =/ sorry it's so long, but please help? thanks xo
gakkuhideto answered Thursday March 3 2005, 9:10 pm: Look him right in the eye and say, "Wow! You must really like me, huh? Reminds me of first grade!"
assia answered Thursday March 3 2005, 1:41 pm: Dear,
I am sorry you are being bullied. Do not feel bad about not being able to stand up to that boy and put him in his place. He is the weak one, no matter how unreasonable that sounds it is true. Bullies are usually the once that are the most weak and scared people, scared of being bullied. Bullying is a way for some people to fit in and look cool, a way of preventing people from bullying them. The best thing is to go to a teacher, there is noting to be ashamed of, that boy should be ashamed of what he is done. It is very nice of you to consider his family’s feelings but it will be better for you and for him if a teacher sorts this thing out, he might really change and realize that what he is doing is wrong and stop doing it in the future. You should not have to put up with this.
As for the hair, try gel or hairspray, it will help keep it in place. [ assia's advice column | Ask assia A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 9:28 pm: stand up to him!! omg if some1 evr did that to me i would end up slapping him uh! l0l but seriously the next time he pushed uou push him back who gives a crap if hes rich of something push him and when he hits uou with a ruler break it on purpse and dont let him make fun of you! whats wrong with yourr hair? well if its rele curly or frizzy try getting it straightened or buy john freeza products for frizz! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
icey0990 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 9:27 pm: This kid needs to grow up. If you dont tell a teacher..how will things get better? Hes just going to keep doing it. I say tell a teacher ..who cares if his family gets mad..what he did was wrong and immature..and if his mother doesnt see that than there is something wrong with her and you'll know where this kid gets his arrogance from. Please tell a teacher..its the only way to solve. If you dont want to tell a teacher..tell your mom. Then your mom could talk to the teacher about. The teacher could keep an extra eye out and when she sees the kid acting up..the teacher could send him to the principal or something.
I hope I helped and please write to my inbox if this doesnt get solved..because i know how it is to get bullied (i did when i was little..and all my brothers have) [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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