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Gender: Female
Location: India
Age: 14
Member Since: April 29, 2013
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I'm a thirteen year old girl.Ever since grade three, the boys keep making fun of me. Whether its my skin color or how I am. I never told on them and I don't want to. If my parents hear this, they will be really sad. Before, When I was seven, my parents and I stayed in a house with an old lady who was really grumpy. She hated me. Pushed me in the hallways, frowns at me, and put a smoking matchstick on my leg :(. Okay, that was old, but now, In school....people make fun of me. Everyone except few who have kind hearts. Whenever some guys see me, they keep saying "HOLY _____!" my name :(
I really want this to stop. It has been three years, and they can't leave me alone and live my frigging life. I feel like running away. Telling my parents to go to our home country. But they wont go there...because my dad needs to work in a country like this where people in my school teases me. I really don't want to tell on them. But I wish my life would be better. Is there anyways I could get my parents to make me move to my home country? I really want to go! :( And, don't just tell me to ignore them. Because this is what I have been doing for the last 2 and a half years. I can't talk to them either, because they start to make more fun of me and diss me. :( PLEASE HELP! I WILL BE REALLY THANKFUL TO YOUR HELPFUL SUGGESTIONS. (link)
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I totally understand your problem and what you are going through might be real hard to handle. Don't panic!! I have also gone through something like this. Ignoring is not the solution so just talk to your parents or talk to a counsellor if there is any in your school. She might help you. Talking to your parents might be hard as they may get worried so talking to the counsellor first might be a better option. Do inform your parents if nothing works so they can take actions. See how this works and please do message me if you really want someone to talk to about this :)
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at school, there's this boy who's been bullying me for ages. he's nasty anyway, but he always picks on me. it's stuff like hitting me on the head with his folder, hitting me with a ruler, putting things like selltape and pencil sharpenings in my hair, calling me a minger, and saying stuff like 'your hair is nice, *ahem*'. my hair is horrible, but he has to say something nasty about it. i've spent loads on products to sort my hair out, but nothing worked. sometimes in the corridor he just pushes me into a locker, or into someone, it's embarrassing. if i'm happy, he will do something like that, and i'll feel really depressed, like i want to die, 'cos i'm worthless. i can't tell a teacher, 'cos 1. it's embarrassing, and 2. his twin sister and mum will hate me for getting him into trouble, he's from a rich family and he thinks he's better than everyone, he always gets his own way =/ sorry it's so long, but please help? thanks xo (link)
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First of all, do not feel worthless. The bully is stupid and he can't trouble you just because of your hair. Do not fear to complain to a teacher. You can talk to her personally and just because he is rich, he just can't get away with it. Try to stand up but that can be hard so talking to a teacher personally might be easier option. Try to be happy and never fear him. I know how it feels and I am totally against bullying. Don't worry :)
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