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IM SICK OF MY LIFE..FML.
I'm a thirteen year old girl.Ever since grade three, the boys keep making fun of me. Whether its my skin color or how I am. I never told on them and I don't want to. If my parents hear this, they will be really sad. Before, When I was seven, my parents and I stayed in a house with an old lady who was really grumpy. She hated me. Pushed me in the hallways, frowns at me, and put a smoking matchstick on my leg :(. Okay, that was old, but now, In school....people make fun of me. Everyone except few who have kind hearts. Whenever some guys see me, they keep saying "HOLY _____!" my name :(
I really want this to stop. It has been three years, and they can't leave me alone and live my frigging life. I feel like running away. Telling my parents to go to our home country. But they wont go there...because my dad needs to work in a country like this where people in my school teases me. I really don't want to tell on them. But I wish my life would be better. Is there anyways I could get my parents to make me move to my home country? I really want to go! :( And, don't just tell me to ignore them. Because this is what I have been doing for the last 2 and a half years. I can't talk to them either, because they start to make more fun of me and diss me. :( PLEASE HELP! I WILL BE REALLY THANKFUL TO YOUR HELPFUL SUGGESTIONS.
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I totally understand your problem and what you are going through might be real hard to handle. Don't panic!! I have also gone through something like this. Ignoring is not the solution so just talk to your parents or talk to a counsellor if there is any in your school. She might help you. Talking to your parents might be hard as they may get worried so talking to the counsellor first might be a better option. Do inform your parents if nothing works so they can take actions. See how this works and please do message me if you really want someone to talk to about this :)
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people are mean, they will do anything to fit in at school kids think that being mean to others is cool and they want to make themselves look tough infront of others, but really the only reason they make fun of you is because they're insecure about themselves. and if you don't do anything about it they're just going to keep teasing you.
my advice is sit down with your parents, your mom and your dad are the 2 people on this earth that would never judge you so don't be afraid to tell them!
the only way you'll be able to move to your home in the country is confronting your parents about the situation that's going on.
This is life, you're going to be faced with people everyday that are going to break you down, but those people don't matter there are people who will still be nice to you no matter what. and those are the kind of people you want in your life!
I hope my advice helped, and if you EVER need anything feel free to message me on here!
I really hope things get better for you.
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You need to tell someone first off because kids teasing other children lead to depression. I was a little heavier when I was younger and kids made fun of me and they made fun of my last name. I started playing in sports and hanging out with some of the kids in school and things got a lot better. i hope it does for you to. good luck hun.
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Definetly tell your parents like sunshine said. they need to know if there is any problems youre having like now. they could do somthing about it and help you.
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You've got to tell your parents what's happening sit them down and say that you've been having problems in school and that some kids have been picking on you and teasing you and that it's been going on for a while now they won't know the situation unless you tell them say that you'd really like for them to take you back to your home country and that it would make you very happy if they did make it known to them that you'd like to go
maybe once you explain the situation to them and they see how it's affecting you they'll give in & take you back there(:
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its hard to be made fun of or pushed around or made to feel like your worth less than you are. guys are assholes, and i'm not just saying that. People are mean, you're not the first or last person to be made fun of but i know its hard. Also that old woman who was mean to you did something illegal, she was an adult and you were young and she hurt you in a way that is completely inappropriate.
Like the other person said, you are beautiful and i'm not just saying that either. Everyone has something to offer and i'm sure you're a great girl :) But you do need to tell someone. I understand how it may feel to tell your parents, you may be embarrassed or think you may make them upset but you need to tell them. If you really cant bring yourself to do that you should at least tell a guidance counselor or teacher or something and if they think you are overreacting just tell them how you feel until they understand how fed up you are.
Remember that you are beautiful and you do not deserve to be treated this way, please for your sake tell someone. it will be hard but it willl be worth it. Message me with any questions :) hope i helped.
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remember that you are beautiful no matter of your color and that you should tlk to a counsler to see if they can do something about it hope i have kind of helped
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