Member Since: January 26, 2010
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I'm a thirteen year old girl.Ever since grade three, the boys keep making fun of me. Whether its my skin color or how I am. I never told on them and I don't want to. If my parents hear this, they will be really sad. Before, When I was seven, my parents and I stayed in a house with an old lady who was really grumpy. She hated me. Pushed me in the hallways, frowns at me, and put a smoking matchstick on my leg :(. Okay, that was old, but now, In school....people make fun of me. Everyone except few who have kind hearts. Whenever some guys see me, they keep saying "HOLY _____!" my name :(
I really want this to stop. It has been three years, and they can't leave me alone and live my frigging life. I feel like running away. Telling my parents to go to our home country. But they wont go there...because my dad needs to work in a country like this where people in my school teases me. I really don't want to tell on them. But I wish my life would be better. Is there anyways I could get my parents to make me move to my home country? I really want to go! :( And, don't just tell me to ignore them. Because this is what I have been doing for the last 2 and a half years. I can't talk to them either, because they start to make more fun of me and diss me. :( PLEASE HELP! I WILL BE REALLY THANKFUL TO YOUR HELPFUL SUGGESTIONS. (link)
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Definetly tell your parents like sunshine said. they need to know if there is any problems youre having like now. they could do somthing about it and help you.
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so I finally met this guy yesetrday that I've been talking to for a while.
we talk just as friends. we flirt and send pictures to each other and stuff.
we hungout for like an hour becasue I had to be someone where.
it was me, him, his friend, and his friends gf.
they were reallly nice to me and suprisingly me and the girl got along which was great.
he taught me how to play pool and he gave me hugs and stuff.
he walked me to my car when I had to leave and he hugged me goodbye and it was seriously the best hug I've gotten in awhile. and he ssaid it was really nice to finally meet you and everyhting
i got realllly lost coming there to see him so they helped me out and when I went home he texted me asking me if I found my way and stuff and he asked me if I'm home yet and I said yeah and he's like good. then we were texting the whole night and he's like what did you think of me and stuff and then he's telling me how horny he is haha.
he told me that he's gonna be honest with me and he's not ready for a relationship. but he asked me what I'm down to do. and I said anything haha.
i guess I understand he's not ready for a reltionship (only with me I'm guessing) becuase I'm 17 he's 21 and just had a kid.
what should I do? I'm wondering if I should talk to him today or wait for him to taalk to me first. I kinda wanted to go see him after work today but I don't know if that's pushing it?
can I have some advice and waht to do? (link)
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He's 21 and youre like 17. I think he might just think of you like just a kid. Thats kinda what i'm thinking. he might be thinking you as a friend. And i think your parents need to know about it to (I mean about the guy) and tell them what you think of him and such. also the age because they might be worried about you or something like that (I seen something like it on MAURY) could probably end your relationship with your parents if you want that to happen. they need to think about him first and see if they have an approval.
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hi 18/m
i bought a weight bench a while back. It used to be in the lounge, but it was an eyesore, and took up too much space. Then i put it in the garage, but i never use it, because i cant be bothered to go out into the garage in the freezing cold to work out. I would ideally like to keep it in my bedroom, because it would be convenient.
My question is, would it be ok? the bench itself weights 16.5kg (as far as i can remember), plus the weights themselves. Will the ceiling collapse through or anything?! will it be too heavy? The house was built in the 70's i think, maybe a little earlier if it helps?
thanks folks.
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Probably be the best idea to put it where its not upstair because maybe of the weight maybe. a house from the 70s or earlier could be a little weak from the years.
if you put them in the garage, maybe put on a sweater or extra shirts on. i'm pretty new at this advice site by the way.
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I haven't had a nightmare in like years I think! But this dream I can remember vividly. I was supposed to wake up like 2-3 hours ago because I have work to finish, but I decided to snooze a little and then the dream came. First I looked into the driveway at my house and my mom's car was there. next second I look and some mysterious blue jeep has appeared! I tell my dad (who isn't even home right now.. he's in Texas) and he opens the door and talks to the guy to give our car back.. I never saw this guy, btw. I think I can scarcely recall him backing out with my mom's car though. Anyways, so I start going towards the basement.. and my dad keeps talking to the guy to give back our car. I see my dad start to back away and is just like "okay you can go!" but the intruder comes in. by this point Im really scared and lock myself in the basement. I hear the intruder come in the house and punch or kick my dad hard. Then I hear a thud. And Im freaking out. I have a little brother but he wasn't in the dream.. but I think my sister was.. I just hoped that she was okay because she's going through depression now and is on medication and didn't want her to go through anything else. I am not sure if he went upstairs to the bedrooms to check if she was there and attack her though. Anyways so I think he hears me run down the basement stairs (I regret not doing it before when he wasn't in the house yet) and he comes and tries to open the door but finds its locked. I then turn off all the lights and go to hide in the closet right under the basement stairs. The intruder upstairs says things.. like he's gonna come get me. my basement is furnished btw. anyways, my safe refuge of the closet suddenly exposes me.. which is impossible but I think my mind was thinking of the way my closet was before it was fixed up, with the holes between the wood, revealing who was hiding under the staircase. Anyways, I figured the closets were an obvious hiding spot, too. But when I hid there I was thinking of sometimes how I hide there like if I was in the basement and wasnt supposed to, cause my parents wouldn't look there. but this intruder would be very vigilant about finding me, I supposed. Anyways, so I go hide at this other spot near the air filter is.. and hide next to some beds. I hear the intruder throwing things at the door to try and open it. I hope he doesnt have a gun and that my other family members are still alive and not too hurt. Its weird because a few days earlier like not in the dream, I thought about where I'd hide if someone intruded and I was in the basement.. and it was that exact spot. Its not even the best spot.. geez, all houses need hiding spaces. like if he just walked around the bed he would have seen me on the floor. Anyways, for some reason I couldnt call 911! my phone suddenly got more complicated and wouldnt dial the right numbers. so I did the voice recognition which usually works and it dials 993 instead. how 3 sounds like 1 i have no idea. And then there was also some list which read things like "fire department" and etc.. I should have just dialed the fire department cause that was the closest thing to 911! but for all i know, my finger magically would call some other number instead. So i am unable to get help right when I hear the door blast open. I hear the guy coming down the stairs.. I am scared as f**** right then. Its hard for me to swallow.. it feels like my tongue is too big or something. and then before I could even meet the intruder (I imagined him to be some hick guy with a beard) I suddenly wake up and feel like WTF! my alarm clock was ringing since I pressed snooze.. so there's a good chance it was ringing the whole time. I feel all freaked out and then realize it was a dream.. that my dad is in texas so it cant be real. and that my mom is at work with her car. but still.. Im writing this like an hour after I woke up. I still feel a bit scared about the events.. they were so vivid. Im hoping to forget about them. But I want to know what it means so I can solve what the dream is trying to tell me.
I mean right now I feel pretty stressed out because I have midterms at school, and I procrastinate too much and haven't studied. I actually woke up this early in the morning to study a bit and do make up work (I have make up work to my eyeballs. If I don't do it before Wednesday, I'll fail nearly every subject this marking period. ughghghg. And its not because Im dumb. its because the work accumulated and I feel overwhelmed to even attempt to start doing it. I tell myself I can do it in 1 day when I know I cant. so then I feel like doing things to destress which take up all of my time - procrastination, which makes me more stressed as the days go by. the cycle repeats everyday. this whole school year has just been a big mess for me.) but here I am again.. wasting time. I dont know how to attempt to do the work.. I dont have anyone to talk to about it.. but I can't hide it anymore once the report cards come home. Oh gosh. I feel like I f***ed my life.. but I know I can fix it but Idk maybe its just laziness but this is just extreme.. it isnt just right now, I've always had procrastination issues but now its taken a huge toll on my life. Idk, maybe my dream is telling me that? i dont knowww. (link)
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I haven't had a nightmare for a while, too. And what youre saying how vivid your dream was, that was scary and somehow interesting at the sametime.
I think your dream COULD have told you something. i dont know. I think its explaining how youre stressing or something. have you had any problems that your kinda feeling guilty of? That could be what its about. Probably telling you keep running away from your problem or something like. Or its just how stress you are. i think youre pushing yourself very hard. I'm in a magnet school, so that VERY stressful to me.
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