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.. i dont know how to tell my mom i got my period. i'm embarrassed about that kind of stuff, and i dont like talking to her about it. please tell me a good icebreaker, and be honest!!! HELPP!!!
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Eliza Age: 11 when i got it.
In the morning, i called for my mom. "mom.. come to my room please" mom:"ok" ... "Mom.." i told her in her ear.."i got my period yesterday" mom:" oh, aww, sweetie why didnt you tell me?"
And that's all I am going to tell you! ]
With this sort of thing, if your embarassed you might wnat to be casual about it. Be like "Hey mom, when you run to the store could you buy me some pads / tampons" Dont make it a big deal, crying type of deal, lol. That makes it sort of awkward, [ i would kno my mom announced it when we were out to dinner on mothers day, eek! ], lol. ]
my friend shouted out "mom...im a woman now.." when they were in the car. ive heard people that are at a store and just ask if they can get pads/tampons/midol. or just take some of hers and then be like, it was an emergency then ask if you can go buy some with her. hope that helps and dont worry about it...shes a woman too! <3 ]
write a letter and leave it on her bed or in her purse! you'll be fine hun!! ]
My mom always said"When you start bleeding down there don't get scared and when you have a question you could ask me about it anytime".So after I got my period for the first time I asked her"Does it hurt a lot when you have your period?"And she told me it does sometimes but that I'll get used to it.So you shouldn't feel embrassed to tell your mom she has it too she is also a female like you nad she had experience on it.You have nothing to worry about trust me.Just talk to her about it calmly. ]
That's how I was. What I said to my mom was "Uhh mom I think I got my period" Lol just be blunt about it. You are going to have to tell her sometime. Tell her that you don't need a lecture on it because you know what to do and so on. ]
I think the best way to do it is to ask your mom if she can get you a box of tampons/pads the next time she's at the store. That's a little more discreet than running in the room shouting "Mom, I got my period!". Your mom was your age once, so she knows how embarassing it is to talk to your parents about personal issues. She's probably a little apprehensive about talking to you about it too. Look at it this way, once you talk to her about it, you'll never have to do it again for as long as you live. You might as well just get it done now and avoid worrying about it. ]
seriously sweety.. just say it.. i got my period.. she wont be angry or anything.. and its not an embarrassing thing (ok so i dont know for sure im a guy) but every chick gets it so it shouldnt be embarrassing.. :P good luck ]
I bet your mom felt the same way she did to your grandma.So i reccomend for you to say it know or she'll never know!
Plez rate if i gave you a good answer!
Lub *♥Kristine♥* ]
This is kind of a wierd subject. One idea is when she goes to the grocery store and she's making a list, just say i want some cereal, face wash and...oh yeah some tampons/pads whatever. Then just play it off like its not that big of a deal and she prolly will tel you a bunch of stuff you already know like why you have period and stuff like that, but it only lasts like one day and then she will just not worry about it. She has been doing it for years, it a natural thing.
Hope this helps you.
*~*Ashley*~* ]
ok i had this problem too but two days after i just got the courage to do it. i said mom,while we were alone mind you, i started my period. adn she said alright wehn and that was it she was kinda upset that i was growing up though. but your gonna hear alot of how do you feel,do you need anything, and stuff like that lol. hope i helped ]
If you aren't comfortable telling her, go by yourself tampons or pads. Otherwise, you need to just tell her. More than likely, she'll be all "MY BABY'S GROWING UP!!" [= Good luck.
♥ Melissa ]
ok well i absolutly hate talking to my mom about that stuff because shes like realy retarded about it.. so i told my aunt and then she told my mom so you could tell someone in your family you feel more comfortable around and then they could tell your mom..? just an idea... good luck ]
Maybe you don't even have to, sometimes moms are just smart like that. You can let her notice herself when stuff starts disappearing out of her medicine cabinet or you can bring it up like your really happy because you got your period, being giddy about it covers up your embarrassment. But your mom has ben through it so many times now it won't seem embarrassing to her, so just bring it up, she'll understand. ]
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