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My name is Ashlee and I will do my best to find a logical answer for you if you submit a question to my column.
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Our school has banned Abercrombie from our school. They say that the shirts are too sexual and distract the "learning environment." Today a friend of mine was wearing and Abercrombie shirt that said "Will work forehand jobs" and was given a saturday detention and they made him take it off. The same thing happened to a guy wearing a shirt that had a video game controler and said "wanna play?" Yes I get that those shirts can get you in trouble but what's wronge with regular Abercrombie shirts that don't have anything to do with sex? And not to mention pants. Well, us students want to get them to let us wear Abercrombie to school again becasue not ALL their shirts are like that. WE have no idea wear to start. Any ideas? (link)
I would simply ask "What makes the abercrombie shirts differnt from ones that you can get at holiister, sears, jc penney or basically anywhere?" Tell them that you dont think its wrong that they ban shirts that are sexually expilcit, but that you think no matter where they come from sexually charged sayings on shirts should not be allowed, but that they should lift the ban on all abercrombie just because it is abercrombie. Also the petition thing is a good idea. Good Luck!
*~*Ashley*~*


i only want people who know a lot about cell phones to answer. thanks!! ok i want to get a cheap plan but i was wondering is 600 min a month for 39.99 good? is 600 enough? and also is 1000 min a lot? is that enough? im the kind of person who is on the phone.. fairly a lot.
so what would be the best plan for me from this?
http://www.t-mobile.com/plans/Default.asp?tab=national

and also.. is this a good phone.. it looks nice.. i like it = )
http://www.t-mobile.com/products/images.asp?phoneid=242032&class=phone

thanks!! (link)
I think that is a good deal, but before you get a t-moblie phone ask if you can bring it back within 30 days if you dont want it. Because, I dont know what city you live in, but i live pretty close to a big city and thier phone wouldn't pick up at my house at all. And that sux, so make sure you ask alot of questions. I have Verizon now and they are little more expensive, but they have really good service and they pick up alot of places where my Nextel doesn't. PS- unless you have alot of people you know that has a Nextel it really isnt worth they money. I have one, but my boss pays for it where i work.

Hope that helps!!
*~*Ashley*~* &Hearts,


i dont know how to tell my mom i got my period. i'm embarrassed about that kind of stuff, and i dont like talking to her about it. please tell me a good icebreaker, and be honest!!! HELPP!!! (link)
This is kind of a wierd subject. One idea is when she goes to the grocery store and she's making a list, just say i want some cereal, face wash and...oh yeah some tampons/pads whatever. Then just play it off like its not that big of a deal and she prolly will tel you a bunch of stuff you already know like why you have period and stuff like that, but it only lasts like one day and then she will just not worry about it. She has been doing it for years, it a natural thing.
Hope this helps you.
*~*Ashley*~*


Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!! (link)
here are some names i think are cool

GIRL

Anna
Andrea (but call her Andie)
Heather
Jadea (said Jay-duh)

BOY

Cameron (Call him Cam)
Josh
Adam
Landon


Hope this helps.
I could probably do better if I knew what its last ame was going to be...like you wouldn't want to name your kid David Davis or soemthing like that.


hey all i joined a site called myspace and im confused about how to instant message my friends on myspace it would be helpful if whoever answers this question has a myspace of there own that way they could tell me exactly what to do with out telling me the wrong thing.
i will rate 5's for reasonable answers (link)
Well first of all the other person has to be online too. If they are it will sat "online Now" underneath thier pic on your friends list. Then you click on "Instant Message" and then it will say connecting. They have to accept that you are sending them a message b4 you can chat. If someone is ending you a message it will appear in a whit box at the top of the window you have myspace opened in.

Hope I helped!!

You can add/message me anytime if you need hep with layouts/HTML or anything.

myspace.com/aeae

*~* Ashlee


So what do you all eat when you are fasting? I am having a difficult time cutting out meat and cheese. I can manage to do without the meat, but I didn't realize how much cheese and yogurt played into my life. Any tips? (link)
I am assuming that you are fasting for religeous purposes. My personal belief is that you can fast from anything. It doesn't have to be food. Like for example, if you watch Young and the Restless every day, then instead of watching the show during that time. Pray.

Hope that Helps

_Baby Girl


PS- I know youa sked this question a long time ago, but I thought you may still be wondering


My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me. (link)
WARNING: THIS IS NOT AN ANSWER!
You are so awesome! Waiting til You get married!!

OMgsh You rock my sox!!

True Love Waits!!

God Bless! Congrats!


I have a problem with spots, mainly on my chin, nose and forehead (T-zone?).
I also have large pores + blackheads on those areas.
Anything anyone can recommend to help with the problem? (link)
I have also had this problem in the past.
First of all you need to know what not to use. One is alcohol or anything with alchol as a main ingredient (First four on the back of bottle) Because alcohol strips the top layer of your skin off. Your skin, tries to repair itself ny making more oil which causes more spots. Also, wear only make up that is non-comodegenic AND oil free.

Now, what to use. Noxzema "Continuous Clean" citrus formula works really good fro something cheap. I don't mean to sound cheezy, but I really think Proactiv can help anyone with pimples. For more info on how pimples form and stuff vist thier website www.proactiv.com It has alot of good info.

Hope that helps!! Much Love!!

*~* BABY GIRL *~*

16/F/NC


okay well this guy i really like is going out with the prettiest girl in my grade. He isn't a hottie or anything, but I've liked him since 6th grade, and I'm in 8th. The night she asked him out (at a school dance) I was going to work up enough nerve to ask him. I feel like, if I asked before her, he would have said yes; only because we are so close. I was up practically everynight i saw or even talked to him, thinking about him. I started cutting myself i liked him so much. I cut myself only to make myself stop thinking about him. But eventually it just got worse. I want to stop cutting myself, and start taking it like a normal person (link)
No guy is worth you ruining your body over. Please stop cutting yourself, because thsi obviously does not solve your problem. In fact, it si probably making it worse. Try writing in a journal or talking to a close friend that you trust. Maybe that will make you feel better. Plus, look at it this way-you are only in eighth grade. Chances are that girl will run off with someone else when you get to High School. So when she breaks his heart, get yours girl!!



Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this? (link)
In the NIV Bible this is what it says

Matthew 24:3-

As Jesus was sitting on the Mount of Olives, the disciples came to him privately. "Tell us" they said "when will thsi happen and what will be the sign of your coming and the end of the age?" Jesus answered "watch out that no one decieves you. For many will come in my name declaring 'I am the Christ' and will decieve many. You will hera of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes and in various places. All these are the beginning of birth pains."

I Dont know what thsi means to you but I have tried to be as straight forward as I can because I cannot answer the question with my own word but only with teh words that are in the Bible that I believe to be true.

If you have any other question sbaout the Bible I will try to help you. Please feel free to leave your questions/comments on my column or on my mypsace www.myspace.com/aeae



Why should people become Christains? Like what iss the purpose in it? (link)
Hey, I'm not gonna tell you abunch of mumbo jumbo. If you want to see what God can do for you visit www.myspace.com/aeae and click on my friend Logan. Se what Christ has done for him and see if you believe.

God Bless!!


Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya! (link)
* Eragon by Christopher Paolini
--- When Eragon finds a polished blue stone in the forest, he thinks it is the lucky iscovery of a poor farm boy: perhaps it will buy his family meat for the winter. But when the stone brings a dragon hatchling, Eragon soon realizes he has stumbled upon a legacy nearlyas old as the empire itself. (Fantasy)

* Joel by Joel Sonnenburg/Gregg Lewis
--- (true story) Joel was only two year old when and 18-wheeler smashed into his family's car. in the inferno that followed, he was burned on over 85 percent of his body. This is the story as only he can tell it.


These two books are my two all-time favorites. I have personally read both of them several times, and they are wonderful. I dont know your age, but I believe every tenn in America should read "Joel" It will change your life.

Happy reading!!

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15/f

Hey i'm 5'4 and 135-140 pounds. I'm not really chubby hust a little cause i have a 36c chest. I wanna tone my stomach up so instead of a tankini when i go to the beach in auguest i can wear a bikini. i already run 2 miles a day, what else can i do? is there enough time?
-thanks! (link)
The fastest way is like someone else said...a rowing machine. The only thing is, unless you got a couple thousand dollars lying around you'll have to join a gym to use one. During volleyball and track seasons, I do Boxer crunches. Lay flat on your back adn pull your left elbow up and touch your right knee. Then do the opposite. The biggest rule is: Do NOT put your hands behind your neck! Because you end up pulling your neck instead of using your abdominal muscles to pull you up. So, put your hand s in a fist and rest them on opposite shoulders (right fist on left shoulder and vice-versa)
Hope I helped you!!


How do you get a guy you liketo like you? How do you hook a friend up? There is this guy i really like and i promised to hook my friend up with someone else. Please help (link)
For the first question- There are 2 basic myths about guys 1)THey are all jerks and all they want are supermodels and 2)Guys only date sluts and girls who dress like sluts

So to get a guy to like you, talk to him. Be yourself. Just laugh or read or sing really loud. (if thst what you like to do.) Guys like to have fun so just be fun! Also, coming from me (I'm the baby and I have 4 older brothers) Guys dont liek girls who dress all trashy, bcause they know if you're showing them you're showing every other dude on the block.


For the second question- To hook a freind up just go confidently to teh guy and say all kinds of amazing (but true) things about your friend. Then say something like "If you dont have a date for the dance on Friday, you could ask Kara I'm sure you two would have alot of fun together.
BTW: The worst thing you can do is flirt with him if you are trying to hook your FRIEND up.

Hope this helps!!!

*~* Baby girl *~*


does anyone know some good layout sites for xanga with cute qoutes or back rounds thanks sooo much

xoxoxoxo (link)
createblog.com has some really graet layouts that you just copy the code and paste it. They are really easy.


what is the difference between being christian and catholic? (link)
There really isn't one. Catholicism (sp?) is considered a Christian denomination. Other Christian denominations include: Lutheran, Methodist, Church of God, Baptist, Mennonite, etc. the list goes on and on. The differce is these different denominations believe different things. Example: Baptists believe that you must be completely submerged in water in order to be considered "baptized" --- Lutherans believe that you can be sprinkled (putting a small amount of water on the head) and be considered baptized.
The differences in these religons dont say whether you are a christian or not they just define what you believe.


hey or the past couple days my voice has kind of been like cracking, but i am a girl. and my throat doesnt really hurt or anything, and i havent been screaming or shrieking a whole lot. any ideas what it is? or is it just normal? thanks!
~*jaimee*~ (link)
I'm not a Doctor so i cant really say, but I do know that I have the same problem sometimes. So my advice is to drink hot orange juice. I know, that sounds nasty but it works for me




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