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I've been dancing since i was two-years-old! Dance is really my main gig- competitions are sooo exciting!... i have a twin sis and little brother. I am into sports like softball, swimming, tennis, and that kinda thing! After college i wanna become an occupational therapist or a psychiatrist... i like dealing with other peoples drama! so try me... i'll try to help you out 'cuz "IHaveHelp!"xoxoxo
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ok i know this is a little gross. but for a few years now, every once in a while i will get scabs on my scalp, and when i scratch my scalp then sometimes white stuff (not dandriff) ends up under my fingernails. what is this and hwo do i treat it?
My cousin says it's because of dried conditioner... try not to condition the top of your head- just the ends. Don't use so much conditioner and rinse it for longer!
hope i helped!
What do consider love? Just pour your heart out and ill try to respond
i dont think you can explain love... but once you love someone- you'll know for sure! It's like the biggest gut feeling EVER
i love you (just kidding)
~IHaveHelp
For along time now I have had scary thoughts. Thoughts that someone is going to kill me in my sleep. I always have thoughts of my sister or family member doing this. I also have thoughts of killing myself, I even go through the cabinets and pour some pills into ziploc bags and hide them in my room just in case I feel the need to overdose. Sometimes I get in crazy moods and can't control them and I am afraid I am going to do something I know I normally wouldn't do. I am like a different person when I am depressed and in a different mood. It's like I have a split personality or something. I don't know what is wrong with me, and I have this urge to always pull my eyebrows out. It feels so good to feel the hair slip from my skin. I get into a trance and can't stop pulling, afterwards I feel so guilty but while I am doing i its all I am focused on. Each hair I feel represents a problem in my life. And when they come out it feels for a moment I am free of worries. Is it strange to feel this way, to love to feel pain?
You seem like you know the problem- thats good- but no one on this web site can help you- none of us are professionals- please get help, start by telling your parents, tell them in a note or e-mail that only they'd get- put it in your mom's purse or your dad's briefcase so that you dont have to be around when the read it... you need to get help, don't be ashamed or embarressed- i know how stressfull it can be at times.... you need to get help before it's too late!
please... and you'll be fine
my BEST FRIEND has been for me since 2nd grade, and i dont want anything to come between us.
last year i went out with a guy, umm lou..sure...and he broke up with me...but ive always been crushing on him since. just crushing...i still flirt with others and stuff, but my best friend..uhh..zoe....nos that i "like" him.
lately shes been flirting with lou alot, and she came out and told me she likes him more than a friend. i was really upset, but she promised me that she wouldnt hurt me by going out with him or anything.
so now she told LOU that she liked him, and im thinking that they are soon going to go out, cuz my other friend came up to me and was like, "do you hate zoe now??" and im like why and their like "oops nvm" and so i think they're gonna go out or already are.
so what im asking is should i just let them go and break my heart..but still have my friend and try to forget about it-or let this situation hurt my friendship and make her realize how bad she really hurt me.
ill rate high nomatter what cuz this is longish...thnx
i totally understand what your going through- i think that I wouldnt be mad if that was happening to me because- hey it's just a guy. but if you are -so are a lot of other people- thats fine! You should be- but not just at her, she was probably looking out for you by lying,- you should try to be kinda supportive so she feels comftorable talking to you about it b/c she can't control how she feels and it proably is just a bad timing thing... i would just put your happy face on for now- i mean- how long could it last- friends last WAY longer than boyfriends- they're just guys!
Good Luck hun
ME and my best friend used to never get in fights but lately she is like causing so much drama and like gettin pissed at me for nuthin and i dunno if there is anything i can do to change this.. should i baQ off for a lil while n let her get her issues strait.. or wut?!? please help!!
i dont know if you have siblings or not but if you do you'd know that you can get in fights with them a lot easier than friends because you know your bro/sis will always love you- this migt just be whats happening with you and your friend, you might be getting so close that she knows you'll always be there! if that's the case- it's a good thing- if not- talk to her... when you start to get in a fight just walk away and she'll get the idea! Have faith in yourself!
xoxo
me
He's just beginning to become a friend, and I find him as attractive and magnetic as most others always seem to, but I doubt his motives. It sometimes seems that all he truly cares about, deep down, is his own little world, and the roles he makes those in his life play. Am I just an amusement? I don't think he'll ever let anyone too close to him, I think it's very rarely that he tells me anything true. But something about him is friendly and safe, and at times I feel like he's not trying to fool me at all. He's done nothing wrong. What kind of person is this? Should I steer clear or ignore my gut feeling?
If you dont have lots of guy friends it might just be different so you think you like like him but you just think it's nice to have a guy friend!
follow your gut feeling- it always seems to work!
good luck
xo
i dont know how to tell my mom i got my period. i'm embarrassed about that kind of stuff, and i dont like talking to her about it. please tell me a good icebreaker, and be honest!!! HELPP!!!
write a letter and leave it on her bed or in her purse! you'll be fine hun!!
okay well ill just make this short for you i just wanna look hot! and i have a very good reason but then i mite run out of room lol well plz help me just on stuff like makeup, clothes, the way i act, hair, etc.
**THX**
YOU WILL!
Hey hottie,
makeup- natural- browns for the eyeshadow, dark brown smudged eyeliner on top and bottom- not too thick- put it on on the inside of your lash line- on the top put it thick towards the outer side and smudge that more! not a lot of blush or bronzer if any (only consealer if u need it) a peach gloss!
clothes- casual! don't look over dressed or over accesorized! jeans with a tank or halter (nothing too racy!) put a sweater over it... Maybe a braclet with matching earings (not too dangly!
the way you act- not all "come get me i'm hot don't you think?" That's a total turn off! act humble and if you are hot and confident- you dont need to spoil it by being loud because people will notice you without asking for attention!
hair- straight down with a tiny bit of hair in a half pony tail but use a barrett (clip-whatever) so dont use a lot of hair!
You are gonna be HOT!
I would like to reward him with a special treat but i don't know any candy this kid likes. do you guys know of anything sweet for a 4 year old? please help! i rate high!
i feel your pain - my 4-year old brother is sooo picky- we've tried lots of candy- try things that might not taste as great but have a cool appearance like character candy or somethin similar!
Here are some good sweets- sweedish fish, chocolate kisses, baby bottle pop, ring pop, sponge bob popsicles, smarties, coin chocolate... find out what shows he likes- you'll find chocolate shapes of those characters!
Good Luck xo
k well i had plans with this friend of mine today and i just phoned my mom to see if i could go to his house and she asked who was gonna be there and i said no one so she said no. so then we got in this big argument and she said she'd 'talk' to me when she got home cause she didn't want me to be the only girl there. but she doesn't understand that me and him are friends.. how do i make her let me have opposite gender friends?
Your mom was probably worried cuz she didn't know the kids -. So first have him over to YOUR house so she can meet him- the first time you go over to his house- go over when his parents are home- once your mom warms up- she'll have total faith that you'll make the right choice because of all the responsible steps you took before!
Good Luck!
See I have this really awsome Dad. But I stopped seing him because him and my mom got in a fight. Like not physical. But like swearing. Then that went to court and I am not allowed to see him anymore. I havnt seen him in 5 years. And all my friends at school know him and get to see him and are always talking about how cool he is and I know he is cool but I miss him reallllyyy bad. And I cant wait until I am 18 to see him but I have to. Every night I cry and cry. What do I do? What do I do to stop being depressed. Everyone at school calls me bad names and a girl even sprained my pinky but the teachers dont really care. They just gave her lunch detention for one day. All my friends are like get over it. Dont care what people say. But ever since I strted public school (since 5th grade) people have been treating me like crap every day and it doesnt stop. Its not just the normal name calling, its worse and it has scarred me. I cant take it anymore. Its so annoying and I am a sensitive person but I act tough and just cry when I get home. I have tried to do something about it but they just blame it on me when I am kind to them even when their mean to me. I even got suspended once for no reasen. Well, the person blamed somthing on me and i got suspened for 4 days (in school suspension) plus week of detention. I dont know what to do. Plus my mom verbally fights with me a lot. I dont feel safe anywhere. What do I do? My mom even called me a loser and I suck and said my friends are losers and no1 likes me? HELP!I am a girl and I am 12. HELLLLLPPPPP!
First- relax... my parents got divorced, so i kinda have a similar situation... First, maybe your mom doesnt realize the effects of calling you those names- she might be mad about your father but take it out on you- so let her know- next time she does it say... mom, that really hurts my fealings.
About your dad- i've tried many ways to stop missing mine- i know it's hard. Talk to him on the phone(i talk to my dad every night- it helps a lot!) or write letters. You will never stop missing him. Honestly, i'm crying right now because i feel your pain, kids at school don't understand! it so sucks. Just keep in touch with your dad... please
About kids at school- ya know what? its their problem- just hold your head high and shoulders back! make it a goal to make two GOOD friends this year!
i have faith hun- good luck
my hair is pretty straight and i want to have curly hair like the mary kate and ashley ( not permanently though ) so what can i do to make it curly.. i dont have a hot iron curler thing so im not gonna go and buy one.. any tips? \
ps. i have those like curling things that you wrap your hair around .. if i were to use those, should my hair be wet or dry and how long should it be in there
This normally works better with thick hair (like mine) but you can try this- it works with my mother's- Take wet hair and put a little hairspray in it... either scrunch it (make a fist with the clump of hair and "scrunch" it to your head. If that doesnt work- twirl your hair around your fingers into about 20 twirls- not too big- not too small... flip your head and blow dry- preferably with difuser!
good luck!
hey! I love to read! Im a sophmore, female! I Love a great book! the kinds that you cannot put down! I
The sisterhood of the traveling pants are good
if you havent read "jenny carroll's" when lightning strikes books- those are good
The Best Little Girl in the World (about anorexia)
Praying at the Sweetwater Motel
Good Luck!!
Ok i have so many friends, but one of the mjus wont like leave me alone! She wants to were her hair like me and wants to dress the same but i cant deal with this until senior year!and im only goin ot hte 7th grade!! I am starting to get real tired of this and i dont kno how to tell her with out hurting her feelings or anything. PLEASE help me
Signed
Headache&Miserable
just talk to her... tell her you need some space- do it nicley - you dont wanna loose her- or play matchmaker and get her a boyfriend!
As of recently I've been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend.
Within our first month of dating, he asked me to marry him, and I said yes, out of my own stupidity. About a month later we got in a really big fight.. and I just didn't feel the same about him. Like before the fight we would talk about things like getting married and having kids, but after the fight, It made me feel way too uncomfortable. And I told him that.
Oh.. and a few days ago, he was at the gym, as usual, and some guy gave him some pills, telling him they were Tylonal Cold. For some stupid reason, he took them. He told me, a little bit after he took them, that they were making him dizzy. Then he started talking about how some people were after him and were gonna kidnap him. And then he started takling about how we were supposed to be together in our past lives, and how he wasn't gonna let these people take him away from me again. It really freaked me out..
Now.. I just.. I don't feel the same way I used to about him, and I definately don't feel the same way he does.. He's a tad clingy. Like when I asked him about what he would do if we broke up.. he said he would probably start cutting again, and drinking as well. He also said he might not be able to talk to me for a year or so. And it made me feel really guilty...
I need to know...Do you think I should break up with him? If so, when do you think I should do it, and what should I say?
Thanks very much.
Yes- if your questioning you should- he came on way to strong- Good Luck- you'll do the right thing
ok im in high school and i was wondering what's more useful? 1-2 inch binders or folders?
thanks!
ps - and why one is better than the other
Binders because it's the same as a folder PLUS it has the clips!
hey all.. i have a quick question about anorexic girls. how come they eat so little and burn so many calories but their boobs dont get smaller? i'm on a diet now nad it's safe and healthy and i'm loosing about 1/2 a pound a week and it seems my boobs are getting smaller! any way i can prevent it? why doesn't it happen to them?
well, anorexic people actually do loose weight in their breasts, if you are loosing weight in the rest of your body and you become a stick would you really want un-proportional breasts? i wouldnt! good luck!
ok so i went to take a pregnancy test today..i read the box which said to pee on the test for 5 seconds..me being the idiot i am..i peed on the cap..im all new at this so i had no clue there was a cap! i dipped the test in the toilet..and it came out negative..im thinking this isnt accurate because of all the water in the toilet..am i right or is it still ok to trust the negative?
don't worry- just relax, instead of just tricking yourself into thinking your not pregnant, you should just be safe and take another one- good luck-
Over the summer I've lost like 10 pounds. But my arms are like fat and it really bugs me. I lift weights once and a while (10lbs,my parents won't get anything more). What are some other excersices and stuff I can do to make them smaller? Thanks in advance. i'll rate
Ya know what- i think that as long as you have a healthy diet your arms will thin out over time(dont let em get too thin though) try other things besides weights like push ups and the flexed arm hang- don't worry about it
is clearasil ultra worth buying, does it work well? well i was wondering which product i should buy from clearasil ultra.. like the face wash.. pads or that thing that costs like 25 bucks?
sometimes the cheep stuff works the best... thats how i'd start! lots of things will work if you make sure to use it daily. You will end up trying many things and you'll find a favorite- everyone's skin is different yet beautiful!