Hi my name is Sabrina. The worst thing in the world is dealing with a problem on your own. It may lead you to confusion and even leave you without a solution. It's always better to hit up someone else's opinion on things and help you see that there is light at the end of your problem. I have been through alot of things in my life, many more than you could probably count and I am only 18. I have learned alot from my expierences and still deal with some of the issues that I have before. I know how difficult life can be, it puts so much stress on you trying to be as perfect as you can. But you have to know that being you is as perfect as you can be, it just takes a while to finally notice yourself for who you are when your so distratcted by life. Anyways, anyone feel free to contact me I am just here to listen and hopefully shed some light on your problems. It's my passion to make people feel better about themselves.
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I am getting obssesed with the idea of commiting suicide. I am not a teenage girl by the way, I am a 40 year old bysiness man. I take pills so that I can sleep at night but i just wont help but anyways I dont want to bitch about my life. I just dont want to think about killing myself anymore.it is always there, the thought. Crazy thoughts, how to do it, will it hurt, make a big fuss and....that is all.
I think also that if I start doing heavy drugs things will get better. (link)
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Suicide is not the answer. I have been in the same boat. Please email me at cornblade@cs.com and I can help you. I have been through all the suicidal thoughts, I hated it entirely, it would never go away. I was even at the brink of suicide last year around this time. I even got to the point at writing suicide notes to people I loved, but what does suicide solve? Nothing, it ends your life, think deep about that, ends it permantely. And where would your soul go? Suicide is murder, rejecting yoru body that God gave you, suicidal people who do eventually commit suicide give themselves over and just let up and say there is nothing for me, but there is something for you, God is love. God can help you if you call upon him, if you commit suicide you would go to a place worse than this place on earth. You might think you live in hell now, but its not even close to what the real hell is. Dont feel like you will be like this forever, dont give up. There is light, some hope in this world, but after your dead there is nothing, no hope, no hope of getting better, no hope of living a good life to be able to benefit the reward in heaven. I had those thoughts of how I would do it, or would it hurt, but you have to block those thoughts out, know that suicide if from satan, he wants so badly for you to kill yourselve because he knows he will have your soul, he tells you things like suicide is the best way out, it will solve everything, he lies to you. It does scare you because you know its wrong, but satan comes back in and tries to talk you into it. Hes fighting for your soul, dont let him win. Its sad to see someone just give up their life, please dont!!! Im here for you, please email me, I would love to answer anything you have to ask, and even if you dont feel like there is a God, id still love to talk to you, I want to help you in any way I can and dont want to offend and make you uncomfortable. Please email!
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Just to make sure, In the Bible in Revalations, it says the sexually immoral go to hell. What does that mean? (link)
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sex before marriage, pornograhpy(viewing pron movies, magazines, or on the internet), lust(looking at someone you like and thinking about having sex with them), adultery(ones who are married but have sex with another person beside their husband or wife), homosexuals.....
they are bound for hell, but you can be set free from it if you ask God for forgiveness and get all that immoral stuff out of your life and live for christ, that means waiting for sex until your married, not looking at pron, keeping your thoughts and eyes pure. If you have had sex before marriage you can always be forgiven but only if you mean it truly in your heart and ask god to come into your heart and dont commit sex again until you are married.
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ok now one time i tried 2 jack off but after i was done my penis was all red and and it was itchin really bad the next time i tried with lotion.when i was done it still was red and itchy.people say it feels good when they do it.i try 2 do it and it never feels good and it still red and itchy i dont get what im duin wrong.no mater how long i do it,it never feels good please help me (link)
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Dont masturbate. Its wrong.
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Depending on what it's like, a song can change my mood or outlook on a situation from moment to moment because that's just how I am. What are some good songs that make you feel mellow and chilled out or happy. The songs themselves don't have to be happy or sad...just how do they make you feel? Please give me some names of good songs. (link)
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Christian music
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If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins (link)
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God told us homosexuality is wrong. Its is sinful, god created man and woman to create life. Its in gods word, and he said anyone who goes against his word does not obey him and he said they belong to satan, they may fool you and be the nicest people, but you can still go to hell doing good deeds and thinking good thoughts, if you dont obey christ your lost.
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I don't know what I am inside, or what to do. I believe in god and jesus and stuff, but I don't know if I'm scared to go to hell. I don't go to church and I don't know what waits for me at the end. I want to find out what I really believe in but I don't know how. This may sound strange, but I feel like I have a connection, not to god, but almost like being psychic. I need a way to find my spirituality. (link)
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There is a hell. Its alive and waiting. I know its scary, but the truth is if you believe in Jesus and that he came and died for all your sins, and if you live for him and do his will and have a relationship with him there should be no fear for you, accept him into your heart and you will find him, he told us to seek him first and you will find him. I will pray for you, and pray for yourself, hell is a scary thought, and its real whether people tell you or not, sometimes satan can get into the minds of others that they dont need god, that they should resort to other things to make them happy, like others religions or people, etc. Those are all false, and jesus said he is the only truth. Satan is tricky he wants you to believe there is no hell so you think you can do whatever you want and live as evil as you want without consequences, but you cant!!! Just like here on earth when you do something bad there is always a consequence, at the end of your time you will be judged according to your works, and you will either enter paradise or enter all of hell. You make the choice, choose Christ.
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I've heard people talking about what happens before God returns. I've started reading the bible, but I haven't gotten that far where it tells you about it. I know that it says something about locusts and maybe hurricanes, but I don't know the details. If any of you have read it, what does it say happens? (link)
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There will be a second comming, it is for the future, Jesus took his apostle John and showed him what the near future would look like. For the day or hour we do not know, as in the bible it states that no one will ever know the day in which christ is comming again to save this world and save those who believe in him from hell. Jesus didnt say that the apostles would see it, you never ever know when. But there are signs in the bible as to when its getting close, and from my reading i think its comming closer, God doesnt know time, to him a thousand years is like a blink of an eye, and it states that in the bible too. It says there will be numerous things happening in parts of the earth that we simply think is just nature, but its God wrath overcomming this earth, like the hurricanes we have had, earthquakes, etc. Also you should read Countdown to Jerusalem by John Hagee, it tells about the war on terroism and how islam wants to wipe israel(gods chosen people) off the face of the earth, and god said anyone who messes with israel will not enter the kingdom of heaven, god said he will destroy them, and the people who are helping to destroy are russia as well. Islam also hates america, and it has been said they have been planning nuclear weapons for the past 20 years, and have just now started the process in making them, it also in the book talks about electromagnectic blankets, which they are working on now to send to america and it would shut off everything, all electricity, no cars would run, no would could communicate, no refrigerators or anything. You should read it, scary, but true, Gods word is everlasting and ever true. Those who go against it are destined for the lake of fire.
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Hi. I'm 13/f
My problem is that My mom is really into christianity and all that stuff, but lately I've been getting into witchcraft.(yes, I know the bible says it's an abomination against God) My mom doesn't know, and so she still takes me to church with her every sunday.but whenever I'm in church, I feel like I'm getting a lecture or something like that. She's so into it, she sent me to private school because of the "Moral Values" of it. the truth is, all the kids there are pretty much the same as they would be in public school. We all cuss, some of us smoke and a few of us drink.I mean, I believe in god, but I also believe in spells. I've seen them work before and have succesfully done some. I'm not really sure what to do. Any help??? (link)
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Hello. You may feel like your being lectured because you allow yourself to think that its going to be boring before you even give it a chance. Maybe the church your at isnt right for you, you could always find a different one or talk to your mom about it, if not that then read the bible, let that be your guide since it is God's word, and dont let anyone fool you into another source of faith, God is truth, he is the way and light. All other things come from the devil himself, like wicca, and some people might be offended, but I am not ashamed of the gospel. Spells are the devils work, you are either against God or for him, but you cannot believe in god and do the devils work. Please email me at cornblade@cs.com and ill help you much more, this is your soul on the line, and i want to help!
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Who told you about "thoughts from Satan" lol. I bet you the same people who told you to give 10% of your paycheck to them too. And then they will probably say I am from Satan for writing this. What a sad thing. Take responsibility for your own thoughts, don't place the blame on Satan. (link)
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Satan is real. We do make our own decisions and thoughts, but satan can come in and play with our thoughts and mind. It's all biblical. And no no one told me this and I didnt pay them anything. One day you will see when you die what is real, and what isnt, the only truth ni this universe is that jesus came down and died for all our sins so that we may be able to be forgiven and we may have a chance to get into heaven, and this life is but once and if we blow it we choose our destiny to spend an eternity in hell with satan himself, and everything in the bible that jesus promised is comming true. The end of the world could be any day, any hour, we never know. I suggest you take a look.
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I am 14/f, and i think i have a serious depression thing. I am always feeling sad, and guilty about something. most of the time that i get a guilty feeling, i dont even know what i feel guilty about. Can someone tell me what i can do to be happier? Nothing in my background is making me depressed either. I tend to wear a lot of black, which is kinda what i feel: emptyness, guilt, sadness, darkness...See what i mean? im not like goth or anything, but i do hang out with a lot of goths. But anyways, i dont want to go to a psychiatrist or doctor, cause last time i did that, he told my mother that i was 'suicidal'. and i cant talk to my councilor at my school, she is a B*tch. please help me... (link)
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It's hard to finally come to grips with yourself, your thoughts, feelings, and inner demons. Everyone has inner demons whether they know it or not. It may be something as simple as finding a flaw about yourself and letting that one flaw control about how you feel about yourself. You will then start to pick apart yourself and see your physical body as your whole representation of yourself. Youll only in the end wear yourself down. It's whats on the inside that counts, sure many of you have heard this zillions of times, it possibly means alot or nothing. But we all must face them if we want to be happy, and in order to be happy I believe we have to honestly come face to face with who gave us our life. Ive learned many people on this earth face depression or any other mental illness, but I truly believe you can come out of it if you start to pray and stay away from the horror of this world. Ban yourself from the temptations of satan. Satan comes through in alot of things we might not consider, he comes through in the war, violence, television, music, people...etc. Sometimes we think people are that way b/c of their personalities, true, but I believe everyone has a reason for doing something, its a choice. They either choose evil or good. If they choose evil they have let the demon in them win and God is unhappy. I know its hard to stray away from things we think are good for us, like those trashy television shows, its only buying little into this aweful world. Most people believe psychology has alot to do with making a person feel better, sure it can, talking about your feelings and getting it out can be relief but its not a permanent fix. The true fix is God. Satan will always tempt you and fill your head with horrible things, trust me I have dealt with plenty of that on my own. At first I thought I was half insane, come to grips I wasnt being true to God. I lost touch with him inside my depression and gave into the negative sides that Satan envoked me with. Its sometimes hard for me to believe what I say, and how much I have learned. But the only miracle that ever worked for me was finally going to church and actually listening to the gospel, actually reading the bible and wanting to learn instead of going by parental force.
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I used to cut frequently, but then I stopped for a long time. I was doing really well and learning to deal with my feelings in other ways, but just the other day I was in the drug store and I bought a package of blades and went home and cut myself several times. I have been doing ever since. I have been feeling pretty depressed lately. There has been a lot of stuff going on in my life and I don't know how to deal with it. I know that I shouldn't cut myself, but I feel so much better. It really helps me deal. Where can I go for help with stopping cutting. I cannot tell my parents and I am so afraid of telling my friends. Please help. I really don't know what to do. (link)
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Facing your inner demons
It's hard to finally come to grips with yourself, your thoughts, feelings, and inner demons. Everyone has inner demons whether they know it or not. It may be something as simple as finding a flaw about yourself and letting that one flaw control about how you feel about yourself. You will then start to pick apart yourself and see your physical body as your whole representation of yourself. Youll only in the end wear yourself down. It's whats on the inside that counts, sure many of you have heard this zillions of times, it possibly means alot or nothing. But we all must face them if we want to be happy, and in order to be happy I believe we have to honestly come face to face with who gave us our life. Ive learned many people on this earth face depression or any other mental illness, but I truly believe you can come out of it if you start to pray and stay away from the horror of this world. Ban yourself from the temptations of satan. Satan comes through in alot of things we might not consider, he comes through in the war, violence, television, music, people...etc. Sometimes we think people are that way b/c of their personalities, true, but I believe everyone has a reason for doing something, its a choice. They either choose evil or good. If they choose evil they have let the demon in them win and God is unhappy. I know its hard to stray away from things we think are good for us, like those trashy television shows, its only buying little into this aweful world. Most people believe psychology has alot to do with making a person feel better, sure it can, talking about your feelings and getting it out can be relief but its not a permanent fix. The true fix is God. Satan will always tempt you and fill your head with horrible things, trust me I have dealt with plenty of that on my own. At first I thought I was half insane, come to grips I wasnt being true to God. I lost touch with him inside my depression and gave into the negative sides that Satan envoked me with. Its sometimes hard for me to believe what I say, and how much I have learned. But the only miracle that ever worked for me was finally going to church and actually listening to the gospel, actually reading the bible and wanting to learn instead of going by parental force.
K i know you might be like huh? to what I just wrote, but dont. It holds alot to what you feel like, depression and such. Cutting is a sin, cutting is destroying your body. You can get help!!! Go to the hospital or ask yoru parents to talk you to a treatment place, please do this!!! Cutting shouldnt be your life, get help now. It was the best thing I did and the best thing I did was pray and look to God. God will always help and cure if your willing. U might get scared, but its natural, take a step in your life and do it!!
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I've always been a little chubby. Not fat, but just kind of some chubbiness on my stomach and thighs, etc. In the beginning, I was 14 years old and I weighed 136 pounds, and I'm 5'2. Ever since November, however, I've been determined to lose weight. I don't know what inspired me to do it, but I believe it was basically because I wasn't happy about my body and how it looked, and especially since in gym we have to wear our bathing suits, and I didn't want to be that self conscious.
Now it's almost been 5 months. I'm 123/124 pounds and turning 15 in a week. The change is really noticeable. The thing is, though, that my mom believes I'm close to having a problem. It's just that I count my calories VERY accurately and workout as much as I can. If I go over 2000 cals I'll hate myself for it. I write everything I eat down and how much calories they are, including beverages. If we go out to eat, I have to count the calories of my possible order beforehand or I'll stick to a basic soup and salad meal. It's not that I don't eat anything; I do--including candy, ice cream, etc. It's just that I have to know how many calories are in each specific meal.
Not only that, but if my weight goes up to 126 (since sometimes it tends to shift back and forth) I cry. I feel like all my hard work had been put to waste and I'm gaining it all back.
Since I do a lot of running, a lot of weight has been dropped from throughout my body, including my face. Recently, my aunt, who came with us to a restaurant, asked my mom if i was sick because I looked like I was losing a lot of weight, especially in my face. After that, my mom has been really concerned with me and trying to stop me from working out, even telling me that my face is beginning to look "haggard" and my face doesn't look good when it's skinny. Even though I won't stop -- I still look at myself from time to time and think to myself, "Do I really have a problem? Am I really sick?" My friends think I look amazing. They think the change in me is great. But that doesn't concern me at all. It's what my family thinks.
What do you guys think? Is there a problem here I should be aware about? Thanks in advance and sorry for the longness of it all. (link)
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Your thoughts and consumptions about this obsession will become the way you are. As seeing as your thoughts are determined to be thin unhealthy manner you will eventually fall into an eating disorder if you dont get help. Your change is great because it can mean your becomming healthier, but then again your friends may not know how your doing it, and its unhealthy! To spend time and calculate everything you eat will eventually eat you up, to obsess over this is unhealhy, it will soon consume your life if you dotn get help. Also knowing that being super thin will not fix your problems in life, it will not make you a better person. You are beautiful as you are and you need to leanr to accept that. Letting these thoughts control you you are then letting the devil come into your life and control you, the devil fills our minds with every nagging and evil thought and to destroy your body like this you are destroying the body God gave you which falls into satans hands because he wants you to sin against God. Think about this, be healthy, its okay to lose weight but not in a obsessive manner. It will drive you wild, you can email me at cornblade@cs.com, i have been through 4 years of an eating disorder and finally broke free, i can tell you how if you email me and help you out. Love much.
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is it wrong to think lustfully about others? i mean i can understand if it gets 2 be a constant thing and you objectify them, then its bad.. but is it really that bad 2 have inappropriate thoughts if its only ocasionally? please help
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It is wrong to think this way, why?? Those thoughts are from satan and if you do not resist those thoughts you are buying into satan, sure those thoughts will come into your head because satan wants you to sin, but if you can block it out in the midst of it then your doing Gods will, as it says in the bible.
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I don't want to offend anyone with my questions but theres just so much that doesnt make sense about god and religion. i really do want to believe but i dont understand somethings and it makes me think god cant exist becaus of these things that dont add up.
firstly evolution. humans evolved from apes, there's been loads of scienctific evidence and documentries about it and you learn about it in science. But the bible says adam and eve were the first man and woman, so according to religion evolution cant have existed, well not in humans anyway.
If god is so great and loves us all, why does he make people suffer? i mean even highly religion people. the pope sufferd loads before he died and he's about as religios as people get, so why would god make him suffer?
Also, if god is so great and loves us all, why does he send people to hell? i know some deserve it but surely he wouldnt want anyone to be sent to hell for eternity?
This last point is not something i thought of, it's something that was talked about on the radio but it makes you think. There are lots of religions, but if any, only 1 must be true and the rest of them are lies. people must have made some religions up because some say theres only 1 god, some religions have many gods and all different types of beliefs, so they cant all be true. i hope someone can help me, because its so confusing and i honestly do want to believe.
sorry, if i offended anyone, i really dont want to. its just so confusing.
thank you x (link)
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God doesnt make people suffer, we make people suffer, the devil makes people suffer. This world is full of evil, God is all good. God is perfect. We as human have doubt, doubt is evil. Doubt therefore makes us test our faith, the doubt is one of satans tactics to get us to stray from out faith and believe all this mess in the world, he wants to get inside your mind and change what God gave you so you will die and spend your eternity in hell with him. He lies and cheats and tells you things you want to hear to get you with him eventually. Its hard to resist him, but you can if you hold truth in God.
Doubt is not something God puts in us. The bible says God gives every man a measure of faith. God has placed in our heart, but the devil tries to negate our faith by attacking us with doubt. Doubt is an exact opposition of God's word. It is important for us to know God's word. If we know the word, then we can recognize the devil is lying to us. Be assured he lies to us in order to steal what Jesus purchased for us through his death and ressurection.
It's not that we don't have faith, it's just that the devil is trying to detroy our faith with lies. God placed dreams and visions in our hearts. Satan tries hard to get us to abort our dreams and follow his ways. One tool he uses is doubt, unbelief. Both of those work against the mind. Faith is a product of the spirit. The enemy doesnt want us to get our mind in agreement with our spirit. He knows that if God places faith in us to do a thing, and we get positive and start to believe that we can do it, Satan know that then we will do damage to his kingdom.
The best advice in all this, to be strong and hold faith is that when a storm comes into your life, be prepared! Very often the storm in your life will cease as soon as you quit and give up. The devil brings storms into your life to intimidate you. During the storm remember that the mind is the battle ground. Dont make decisions based on your thoughts, for those thoughts could be the lies from Satan, check with your spirit, your heart. WHen you do, you will find the same vision that was there in the beginning that God gave us as I mentioned earlier.
Many of you might say, doubt is a choice. SO true. You can choose to belive or not to believe. Faith though is the gift from God, so we KNOW in our minds we have faith. Everyone does, even people who dont believe have faith in one or two things in their life. But the true natural faith was always planted in our minds from the moment we were made by God. The fact that we have the choice to believe is the devils warfare tactic against our minds. Unbelief is disobedience. In disobedience in our life leads to failure and lessons learned, but disobedience in God leads to an unsuccessful tormented mind. It keeps us from doing what God has planned and experiencing true peace in our life with all our problems.
Another thing doubt can do is put this question in your mind "They say there is a God, but what if there isnt?" That is doubt. That is the devil talking to you, he wants you to play that thought over and over, he gets in deep and filsl you with more lies, like "well if there was a God this wouldnt happen..etc etc." Its all a lie. God would never give anyone in their life anything that he hasnt planned to benefit them or reward them in heaven with. In this question you will not have peace, no one knows truth because we hide from the truth because it scares us, the devil scares us and he will lie and cheat us to get us to be with him. Learn to live in your faith and be strong in it, do not fall into the deception of the devil. God has a great life planned for everyone, dont let the devil destroy it from you.
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i dont know what to say or how to explain it really. im just simply, unhappy. i used to be happy, i dont know what happened. everything just feels so useless and people just suck. no one cares about anyone but themselves and i feel like im at a loss and i always find me second guessing myself. whats wrong with me? how can i be happy again? (link)
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I fully understand what your going through. I am the same way. Sometimes it feels there is no point to anything. My unhappiness came from a reason I dont know about. I am seeing a therapist now, as I suddenly have bouts of depression throughout the day and think exact things you do. Sometimes I will be happy and so fun to be around, the next depressed and angry at the world. The world is depressing I know as you said. There is so much chaotic things happening and it feels like your alone in thinking this, but your not. No one seems to care it feels like, and when you keep thinking this, all the negativity just builds and builds and builds until you feel lost and hopeless. You may be depressed, there is help out there. You could either talk to someone like a counseler or simply tell someone who will take time out to understand. We all feel a certain way for some kind of reason or another, get to the real root of your problem and youll feel the tension easily erase over time, either with medication or therapy.
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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1. (link)
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I am Catholic. Pre-martial sex in my religion is looked at as wrong until married. But I have had sex before, with one person only and that's my boyfriend whom I know I am spending the rest of my life with. I don't see a problem with having sex if your ready for it and you love the person your with. If you think that you two are meant to be and aren't married yet then I don't see a problem. Sex is a part of a relationship, its not everything, but it fits right in there, and I think before you get married you should explore things with your partner and make sure your 100% sure you want to be with them. Now, I am not saying test the sex and then decide if they are good enough. Sex shouldn't determine if you love someone, it should let you know afterwards how strong your feeling progress for them. As for me, after sex with my boyfriend I feel so much closer to him because we already have a special bond now, that when we have sex it grows even more. So I respect people who have at least found someone they love to share such an intimate moment with.
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ok so there's this boy we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i definitly beleive him, i know for a fact that he's changed so we went out again but then we broke up because of the distance he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. so we started talking again and we both really liked eachother but a week went by and we hadnt talked i still had feelings for him and i beleived he still had feelings for me i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's absolutly beautiful but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. how can i get him to really like me? i know a lot of people say he's not worth it but i don't care i really do like him .. what do you think? (link)
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This guy is a jerk. Anyone who cheats is most likely going to do it again. You know he cheated on you once, and then again you saw him attempting his old ways with your friend. Though he didn't go far with her, the flirtation was there and it's a sign he could do it again. Your only setting yourself up to get hurt again. Cheating is the worst thing a guy/girl could do in a relationship, he basically told you from his actions of cheating that he didn't care about your feelings and only thought about himself and his needs at the time. Dont buy into him, your better than that. I do understand though, it's hard to let go. You may be infatuated with him, but it's not love. He may have some sort of charm to make you like him, but he will hurt you again. If you ever have any doubt about a guy along the lines of cheating they arent worth your time. There are alot of other guys out there that would treat you like a girl should be treated and would only want you. Just forget about him, dont let him win you over. Your so much better.
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well i just got my period and everytime i go to tell my mom i get really nervous and start to like shake and i don't know what to do!!!
5's for any answer (link)
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Relax, menstration is normal part of being a girl. Your mom will not freak out on you, trust me she knows all about it. She will know how you feel and buy you the things you need and she will try and make it comfortable as possible as she can for you. Just talk to her about it, there is nothing to be ashamed about. Your body has to go through this stage, every girl's does it's part of growing up. Your mom will know one way or the other when your on your period anyways. Also if you still can't say it write it down and give it to her, then maybe she will approach you about it. Hope that helps.
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Lately I've just been feeling down. Im 17/f. The more and more I'm around people I realize how idiotic and useless they are. I realize more and more how insensitive and selfish and full of hate they are. And things piss me off really bad. Sometimes even just a small noise will send me raging and I just get bitchy and in a bad mood. All I have to do in the mornings to get bitchy is simply talk to my dad. I feel bad about it, but I'm just so tired of him, everything he does is annoying(I live with only him). I'm just tired of everything. I don't know what to do. I'm just normally in a bad mood or down and even when I am in a good mood, people just, bring me down. I'm not ugly or fat or anything so it's not like I get made fun of, cause I don't at all. I actually don't even know whats wrong with me. Does anyone else feel this way, or know whats wrong with me, or how to fix it? I think I really do need some help cause you know theres always more to the story.. My email is shmookie058@yahoo.com Thanks (link)
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I am in your same boat. I thought no one else really felt like this, that I was just going insane myself. It's good to know someone else can relate. I always get in bad moods from the way people act. People's attitudes always annoy me and tire me and piss me off so much. I get to be the biggest bitch in the world sometimes. My moods are very deep, like I am just in the worst mood sometimes with no explanation or over someone else's behavior just like you. My dad does the same thing with me, I get in a bad mood when I talk to him because he annoys me and always has some joke to make of everything. It sends me into complete maddness. I just want to squeeze something so hard until it dies, I know that sounds psychotic, but I just get an urge to release my tension and anger in some way or another. You could have some sort of anger problem or some kind of depression. Depression can send you into moods of just feeling angry at the world and various people, even though they intentionally don't do anything to hurt you. Please feel free to contact me sometime, I know alot about what your saying and we can really talk about this my email is Aquarius8715@cs.com. I advise you see a therapist, it is what I am doing currently to resolve your feelings. It is such a relief to have someone listen to how you feel, it relieves stress and tension to get it out and finally know what is wrong with you. Just know your not alone.
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I really want to make more friends, and to get a boyfriend. But first I know I have to be comfortable with myself to be comfortable around others. Thats the problem... I dont know how I can be comfortable with myself. I'm not really proud of myself for anything, and I just...I dont know what to do. Its causing me major social disruptions...loss of confidence...loss of outgoingness...I hardly have any friends...Havent had a bf since 7th grade (10th now)...I just want to turn back into myself. I dont know how to explain it...but, how can I like myself again? (link)
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The best thing to do is take time out for yourself. Learn to like yourself again. At least you already know that you can't be comfortable around others until you are with yourself. Find out your intrests and treat yourself. Keep a journal and write out your thoughts, help yourself in any way possible in order to make yourself feel better. Learn that pleasing everyone else is not the answer, just be open and be who you are. Being who you are is the most perfect thing you can do, don't try to change yourself just to please someone or draw someone closer, find people who will accept you for you and find common intrests with people who you can relate to and that way you'll have more fun.
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