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depression.
I am 14/f, and i think i have a serious depression thing. I am always feeling sad, and guilty about something. most of the time that i get a guilty feeling, i dont even know what i feel guilty about. Can someone tell me what i can do to be happier? Nothing in my background is making me depressed either. I tend to wear a lot of black, which is kinda what i feel: emptyness, guilt, sadness, darkness...See what i mean? im not like goth or anything, but i do hang out with a lot of goths. But anyways, i dont want to go to a psychiatrist or doctor, cause last time i did that, he told my mother that i was 'suicidal'. and i cant talk to my councilor at my school, she is a B*tch. please help me...
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It's hard to finally come to grips with yourself, your thoughts, feelings, and inner demons. Everyone has inner demons whether they know it or not. It may be something as simple as finding a flaw about yourself and letting that one flaw control about how you feel about yourself. You will then start to pick apart yourself and see your physical body as your whole representation of yourself. Youll only in the end wear yourself down. It's whats on the inside that counts, sure many of you have heard this zillions of times, it possibly means alot or nothing. But we all must face them if we want to be happy, and in order to be happy I believe we have to honestly come face to face with who gave us our life. Ive learned many people on this earth face depression or any other mental illness, but I truly believe you can come out of it if you start to pray and stay away from the horror of this world. Ban yourself from the temptations of satan. Satan comes through in alot of things we might not consider, he comes through in the war, violence, television, music, people...etc. Sometimes we think people are that way b/c of their personalities, true, but I believe everyone has a reason for doing something, its a choice. They either choose evil or good. If they choose evil they have let the demon in them win and God is unhappy. I know its hard to stray away from things we think are good for us, like those trashy television shows, its only buying little into this aweful world. Most people believe psychology has alot to do with making a person feel better, sure it can, talking about your feelings and getting it out can be relief but its not a permanent fix. The true fix is God. Satan will always tempt you and fill your head with horrible things, trust me I have dealt with plenty of that on my own. At first I thought I was half insane, come to grips I wasnt being true to God. I lost touch with him inside my depression and gave into the negative sides that Satan envoked me with. Its sometimes hard for me to believe what I say, and how much I have learned. But the only miracle that ever worked for me was finally going to church and actually listening to the gospel, actually reading the bible and wanting to learn instead of going by parental force.
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It might just be a stage your going through. If you get anti depressants, you might just get addicted to them. Listen to music, hang out with your friends, write down how you feel. Don't get into cutting and things like that either, cause you'll just regret it later.
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tell your parents.... but it sounds like what just about all teens feel like
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i would talk to your doctor. you might have clinic depression. Talk to your parents about what's going on.
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Sounds to me like you're a normal teenager. Hormones tend to go a bit haywire for a few years after they first kick in and can make you feel all sorts of things you've never experienced before. Can you talk to your friends? Chances are at least a few of them have been going through the same thing but haven't wanted to mention it to anyone. You could also try your parents, I expect they also went through this, I know I did and so did my children and we're all fine now. It takes a while for things to settle but if you can share your feelings it does help. Black is a protective colour, so when you wear it you're subconsciously hiding from the world. Look around you, I bet you'll see that there are a lot of black wearing teenagers. You will get through this, it just seems like there's no end to it at moment. Hang on in there, you'll be fine. Good luck.
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