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ok so there's this boy we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i definitly beleive him, i know for a fact that he's changed so we went out again but then we broke up because of the distance he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. so we started talking again and we both really liked eachother but a week went by and we hadnt talked i still had feelings for him and i beleived he still had feelings for me i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's absolutly beautiful but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. how can i get him to really like me? i know a lot of people say he's not worth it but i don't care i really do like him .. what do you think?
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well, i know that it's extremly hard to get over boys and i'm actually in the same kind of positon right now. i think it's extremly messed up that he would cheat on you, and then go and flirt with a friend of your's - but i take it you and him werent going out when he was flirting with her which probally made it hurt even more because you couldn't really tell him to stop and have him claimed as your's. call him, tell him that you really like him atleast you'll be able to see how he feels and you'll be able to talk to him it'll be a hugee releif trust me. you don;t necasarily have to get over him i know a lot of people are telling him your to good for him and he's never going ot change, but you probally dont feel the same way, because you obviouslly like him quite a lot to keep giving him chances. you seem like you're a great girlfriend and he should be sorry he's missing out. try to hang out with him and tell him exactlly how you feel, be somewhere's where he's going to be like another football game but try to make shure this friend of you'rs isnt there with you, if she won't take things easily like telling her you dont want her being their because this boy keeps flirting with her then just tell her there isnt a game that night i know it may seem kind of mean but you're heartbroken and it will definitly be better if she's not around. just whatever you do make shuree to talk to him or you'll regret it later on.
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Well, he's proved that he likes to lie to you. You have turned the other cheek, so to speak, and excused it once. More than once is not only not fair to you, it's not fair to him. He has to learn that he can't do whatever he wants and still be rewarded. You should move on. It might be hard to begin with, but there are much, much better people out there with whom you could be spending your time. And they would probably appreciate your company.
Best wishes.
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This guy is a jerk. Anyone who cheats is most likely going to do it again. You know he cheated on you once, and then again you saw him attempting his old ways with your friend. Though he didn't go far with her, the flirtation was there and it's a sign he could do it again. Your only setting yourself up to get hurt again. Cheating is the worst thing a guy/girl could do in a relationship, he basically told you from his actions of cheating that he didn't care about your feelings and only thought about himself and his needs at the time. Dont buy into him, your better than that. I do understand though, it's hard to let go. You may be infatuated with him, but it's not love. He may have some sort of charm to make you like him, but he will hurt you again. If you ever have any doubt about a guy along the lines of cheating they arent worth your time. There are alot of other guys out there that would treat you like a girl should be treated and would only want you. Just forget about him, dont let him win you over. Your so much better.
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