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What kind of person is this?
He's just beginning to become a friend, and I find him as attractive and magnetic as most others always seem to, but I doubt his motives. It sometimes seems that all he truly cares about, deep down, is his own little world, and the roles he makes those in his life play. Am I just an amusement? I don't think he'll ever let anyone too close to him, I think it's very rarely that he tells me anything true. But something about him is friendly and safe, and at times I feel like he's not trying to fool me at all. He's done nothing wrong. What kind of person is this? Should I steer clear or ignore my gut feeling?
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always trust your gut feeling you cant go wrong there. get to know him a little more before making a decision. talk to him, find out stuff about him. it could be that the guy is probably shy. maybe he doesnt know how to express his feelings towards you so he feels the need to suss you out before telling you how he feels how about you. no guy likes to get rejected by a girl so it could be that he is scared of that.
if you want to really know the truth about him, go up to him and ask. whats the worse that can happen? just go with the flow...
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The better question is, what kind of a person are YOU? Think, my child. Mediatate to the sounds of the ocean and there you will find your heart, and you must follow its path.
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Sounds like this guy is worth taking a chance on. Talk to him, explore 'his own little world' and him getting him talking about his past motives.
Despite your misgivings, he doesn't sounds like the kind of guy who is out to decieve you or hurt you. Just someone who puts on a mask when he is around people, and we all tend to do that. Just keep your ears open and listen to what he actually says, not what you wish he would, and you'll be fine.
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If you dont have lots of guy friends it might just be different so you think you like like him but you just think it's nice to have a guy friend!
follow your gut feeling- it always seems to work!
good luck
xo
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