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Fights
ME and my best friend used to never get in fights but lately she is like causing so much drama and like gettin pissed at me for nuthin and i dunno if there is anything i can do to change this.. should i baQ off for a lil while n let her get her issues strait.. or wut?!? please help!!
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You need to help her. If she is you best friend you can't just stand there. If she been making drama lately there must be something that is botherin' her if you ask she will tell. You never know just help her out.
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Theres nothing you can do to change that, maybe she is going through some things in her life that she cant talk to you about so she just takes it out on you and it comes out in anger. You can either try talking to her calmly and ask if anythings going on thats causing her to act that way towrads you, or back off her for a little bit and wait and see if things get better, if they dont then try talking to her again, and see if she wants or needs help.
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No friendship goes forever without hitting a few bumps along the way. Before you leave her alone completely, talk to her, and see if she needs someone to talk to. If she does, just listen. Don't criticize. If she tells you to go away, don't push the subject, and don't take it too personally. Different people handle stress with varying levels of harshness. Just stick by her no matter what, and continue to let her know that you will always be there, no matter how long it takes.
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well i think you should confront your friend and ask her if anything has been bugging her lately. ask her if you have done anything wrong that she is upset with. that once happened to me and my best friend kara...she did something that i didnt quite like and so i ignored her for a little while and picked a couple of fights. since we've worked it out, we've been closer than ever and i love her to death!!! hope this will help x0x
x0 dani--trust me
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i was in the same situation a while ago so i know what you mean
what i did was back off for a while that seemed to work let your friend have her space maybe she is going through some things problems? maybe
just back off for a week or two and see where that goes
if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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i dont know if you have siblings or not but if you do you'd know that you can get in fights with them a lot easier than friends because you know your bro/sis will always love you- this migt just be whats happening with you and your friend, you might be getting so close that she knows you'll always be there! if that's the case- it's a good thing- if not- talk to her... when you start to get in a fight just walk away and she'll get the idea! Have faith in yourself!
xoxo
me
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hmm..i'd talk to her about it first. if she seems annoyed er mad juss let it go for a bit. tell her you'll be there for her when she needs you, but you don't want to make her mad by bothering her if she's in a bad mood. fights and drama arent, and sometimes girls go through stages. juss talk to her about it and tell her how you'll feel. she'll listen. if it gets worse, then back off for a bit and see where things go.
-hope that helped!♥
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